Why many thai women ask about engagment in the first date?
I dated some thai women and one pattern that I noticed is that after 30 (sometimes even a bit before) they are *VERY* fast in relationship?
EXAMPLE ONE:
I dated this girl. She was 27. In BKK. Worked in a hospital.
She was cute and nice.
We got in a first date. We just had a brief kiss.
And she already started talking like we were engaged.
She invited me to stay her home for one week. To do travel together.
She was already planning like we were engaged!
I was overwhelmed about her talking, she talked like we were meeting for months, and we just had 3 videocalls and one date
EXAMPLE TWO:
Women in her 35. Worked in the bank.
Even in this case, in the first date, she was talking like we were both evaluating if we we will become a couple.
We didn't even kiss.
She even started talking about marriage, kids...
In both cases I got bit scared and retracted, both of them started sending storied about "heartbreak" (????).
I learned that what we think about "love", "heartbrake" is quite different.
I had other similar date and two friends told me is not uncommon in Thailand.
It's this a thing in Thailand to be so fast in dating or I was just unlucky?
In these cases I should talk with them about the need of taking time on know each other or is better to move on?