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Why many thai women ask about engagment in the first date?

I dated some thai women and one pattern that I noticed is that after 30 (sometimes even a bit before) they are *VERY* fast in relationship?

EXAMPLE ONE:
I dated this girl. She was 27. In BKK. Worked in a hospital.

She was cute and nice.

We got in a first date. We just had a brief kiss.

And she already started talking like we were engaged.

She invited me to stay her home for one week. To do travel together.

She was already planning like we were engaged!

I was overwhelmed about her talking, she talked like we were meeting for months, and we just had 3 videocalls and one date

EXAMPLE TWO:
Women in her 35. Worked in the bank.

Even in this case, in the first date, she was talking like we were both evaluating if we we will become a couple.

We didn't even kiss.

She even started talking about marriage, kids...

In both cases I got bit scared and retracted, both of them started sending storied about "heartbreak" (????).

I learned that what we think about "love", "heartbrake" is quite different.

I had other similar date and two friends told me is not uncommon in Thailand.

It's this a thing in Thailand to be so fast in dating or I was just unlucky?

In these cases I should talk with them about the need of taking time on know each other or is better to move on?

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u/Ok_Assistant_4784 — 16 hours ago
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Gift for Thai Boyfriend

I would like to get my boyfriend a small gift to show my appreciation. He tells me he is a simple man and that I don't need to give him gifts. I'm 36, American. He is 39 and Thai. Any suggestions??

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u/No_Stop5293 — 20 hours ago
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What thai people like to talk about?

What thai people like to talk about?

I want to be friends with thai person, but she hardly continues the conversation, so I just ask her how her day was. Maybe Thais just like sending memes and don't talk much? Help me find some topics for conversation, I don't know what to ask her to get the conversation going.

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u/Xiao_VII — 1 day ago
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Suggestions needed for a kids food exhibition

Hello. I'm hoping someone here can help me. My child has an assignment to prepare a small food sample for a cultural exhibition at their elementary school. Can you suggest something that can be easily prepared at home and held at room temperature that many children would like? Thank you!

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u/Double-Sense-4711 — 1 day ago
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**“ใจมั่นคง” is obviously correct however, and please if this is not allowed please let me know, for personal and sentimental reason I wanted to get a tattoo with a lotus on this. I had someone sketch for me is this correct? I wanted to come and ask with all respect and not be insensitive or be culturally ignora**nt

Thank you again and if these is another sub I can post this too please let me know I found this one first but I don’t know if there are appropriate ones to ask this question

u/Wigz1408 — 7 days ago
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Hey Everyone.
I am Travelling to Thailand in coming July. I will be arriving at BKK and then have domestic flights to Phuket and Chang Mai.
I will be arriving from ISB.
Is it allowed to carry my personal pod (1x) and e-juice 30ml (1x). Has anyone been successful or caught?
I have heard mixed reviews some say it’s very easy others say they got caught i am very confused.
Pls drop your recent personal experiences down below.
Also ik its a bad habit that has to be left but i dont wanna deal with withdrawal’s on my vacation.
Any help would be very appreciated.

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u/NoChemical8018 — 6 days ago
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Can you help me find this Thai band?

Hello everyone! I’m an international fan, and I’m searching for this band. I have tried everything to find anything about them in English with no luck, so I’m turning to Reddit. I’m curious about their social media pages, articles, and names in English. Also an English captioned videos would be great too! Thanks ☺️

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u/lovemyamazinglife — 5 days ago
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Hi, I want to do a driving license for tuk tuk and use it only for myself - no commercial usage whatsoever, just to drive by myself with my family in the passenger seats. But the longer I’m looking for info, I’m getting more and more confused. Can a foreigner with DTV visa own and drive tuk tuk in Bangkok?

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u/littledruger — 10 days ago
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As the title says, I'm keen to be put on a blue house book. I am a dual citizen of Thailand (Thai mother, British father), and ultimately want to get my Thai passport. As I am in my mid 20's, I can no longer do the whole passport process in one clean swoop at my embassy which is a little inconvenient.

As far as I am aware, once I register my birth at my areas Thai embassy, I will then have to get a Thai national ID before I am able to get a Thai passport (on another note, I had a thai passport when I was a toddler, but the embassy has no record of this or my birth so it appears I will almost have to re register my birth).

Of course, to get a Thai national ID, you must go to a local amphoe with the head of house in order to be added to that specific household (as far as i'm aware). My trouble is I am not in close enough contact with my Thai family that currently live in Thailand, and I cannot speak Thai yet (which is obviously a major hurdle). Similarly, my mother is unwilling to make the journey to Thailand solely for this reason. I was just wondering if anyone had been through a similar process, or if there is some sort of workaround. I am planning on renting in bangkok if that is useful information.

Really appreciate any advice anyone has 😄

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u/This_Simple_7638 — 9 days ago
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Hi! (Please excuse my English, I’m a French speaker so it’s not perfect).

Context: I live in Belgium and my native language is French. My husband was born in Belgium to Thai parents. He speaks Thai with them (as they don't speak French very well), but at home, we speak French.

I’m pregnant, and we want to teach Thai to our child since it’s the grandparents' language. However, I see a few challenges: first, my husband isn't perfectly bilingual. Since he has always lived in Belgium, his Thai is basic—mostly conversational. For example, he doesn't know 'baby vocabulary' like stroller or diaper. He also isn't used to speaking Thai at home; he only uses it with his family.

I'm looking for resources to help my husband teach Thai to the baby, such as picture books, talking toys (to learn colors, numbers, etc.), or audiobooks.

One more detail: My husband cannot read Thai, so he can't read a traditional Thai book to the baby. Do you have any ideas or suggestions?

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u/Arya0808 — 11 days ago
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I have been using a custom Gemini Gem to study Thai, and the results are excellent—especially the Thai voice! I wanted to share the link so you can try it too.

I’ve built this Gem to be a dedicated Thai Teacher. To make it accurate, I uploaded two high-quality sources: The classic 1964 Haas Dictionary (great for etymology and formal roots). A Modern Thai Dictionary for current daily usage.

How it works: Examples: For every word you paste, it provides 3 natural examples in Thai.

Testing: It will test your skills by asking you to translate 3 sentences from English to Thai. Voice: It works perfectly with Gemini’s voice mode if you want to practice listening.

Try it here: https://gemini.google.com/gem/18eCT32xoB7IEgUic9pDbDJJ2DvbWOJ1o

Note: If you are a beginner or busy, don't worry about translating everything—just chatting with it is a great way to explore the language!

u/sherifbooks — 6 days ago
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Remastering old Thai artwork. Can someone help with a translation?

I am cleaning up an old Thai film poster painted by the legendary Tongdee Panamus. He painted the logo for the film, and I've worked on it in Photoshop. I want to make sure I didn't mess up the script. Can someone tell me what this text means? I THINK I know - but I want to be sure. Thank you very much in advance.

https://preview.redd.it/3ao15u0y7uzg1.jpg?width=1740&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9d3a53014a9a1c82514ba263e12ca13f0110cfe3

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u/Melodic-Corgi-8215 — 6 days ago
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What patterns in word structure and choice make Thai surnames sound natural? I’ve been wanting to change mine, but what I’ve came up with made me feel unsure about the word order feeling natural both written and spoken. I’ve been liking “มณีภา-“, and have tried using ending words like ศิรินทร์, สุวรรณ, and ภิรมย์. But not sure what locals/fluent speakers think of the vibes.

Edit: Yes, I’m mixed Thai.

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u/missgurrr_3 — 13 days ago
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Do you just split evenly, or does everyone pay for what they ordered?

I’ve been in so many situations where it gets confusing (especially in bigger groups), so I’m curious what most people actually prefer and what works best.

Also, has anyone found a method or app that makes it really simple?

Would love to hear how you all handle it.

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u/LuckyPanda232 — 8 days ago
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There’s a Thai tv series I watched two years ago and enjoyed. It’s a family revenge/drama with an evil matriarch. There is a scene where the matriarch fakes a coma and strangles a family member (daughter or cousin) with an iv cord in the hospital. Does this ring a bell to anyone?

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u/ec_wing7 — 10 days ago
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Sorry for typos

This works for people who know the alphabet (script)and can read or recognise words .

Drawback: many screenshots and time consuming in the beginning.but

try to study sentences not words only.

Of course, you can study Thai by listening, talking with natives, or learning with a teacher or at school. But here I want to talk about reading comic books.

1 At first you’ll read slowly. Every new word you study makes the next page faster.

2 Thai comics are full of slang and natural spoken language (ภาษาพูด).

3 Pictures and expressions help you remember, even if your memory isn’t strong.

4 Textbooks are useful, but they use academic language and can feel boring.

Comics give you real Thai in action.

Another thing comics have texts on drawing that may solve the no- space problem in some novel or non fiction.

5- Comics are easy to finish: 200 pages of images plus text. Finishing one gives you a “small win” that motivates you.

6- Most manga are translated from China, Japan, or Korea. They carry deep themes,not just 20-page Donald Duck magazines.

7-Different fonts in the same comic train your eyes to handle variety.

How to Read:

Search Mangapdf on Google

To download:

https://mangapdf-online.com

or buy from a store. If your eyesight struggles . I use a magnifier app and take screenshots for review.

Avoid Webtoon. It’s full of romantic/adult content, and your vocabulary will stay limited. It used to take two weeks to finish a comic. Now I can read one in just a few hours.

pro tip :

Gem Gemini: I used gems to study Thai and Spanish currently I upload my PDF books as dictionary Freely . you don't need to upload PDF books but better to upload your educational books

I also use comic books to study Spanish as well. Gémini has a semi natural voice if you set instructions: Talk Thai only for me ..or read examples in Thai only

If you’re diving into Thai comic books to boost your language skills, try using Gemini Gems to create a custom AI tutor.

You can set specific instructions to have the Gem break down slang, explain cultural context, or even roleplay scenes from your favorite series. It’s a game-changer for turning a fun read into a high-speed learning session.

Check out how to build yours here: gemini.google/overview/gems

example of instructions:

Act as an expert Thai linguist and culture coach. When I provide a sentence or dialogue from a comic, break it down by explaining the grammar, identifying informal particles or slang, and providing the Thai translation of any complex logic or nuances to ensure I understand the "heart" of the phrase. Always prioritize modern usage and clarify the tone (formal vs. colloquial) so I can use it naturally in conversation

u/sherifbooks — 12 days ago