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Any older fans here?

I am going to her show soon and I often like to get to concerts early and wait with other fans to get a good spot.

That being said, I am a bit older than most of her fans and feel kinda out of place doing that?

What is the demographic of the concert like?

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u/Due_Cauliflower1726 — 7 hours ago

Berlin concert review

So, I can't sleep after this performance, so I can use this energy to write down my fresh thoughts. Of course, this is an opinion, which will always be subjective.

Sofia and the team did a fantastic job.

Before I go into depth about the performance itself, I wanna say that the lighting team did a FANTASTIC JOB. The lights were INCREDIBLE. Cues and switches to the tea.

Opener:

The opener was Seb Lowe, with his (?) violinist Katy (I think was her name). His writing style is smart, sarcastic, direct and witty. (From what I hear so far). He aligns very much with the humanist and communal values that shine through with Sofias work. Both criticise the ruling class; men.

For Seb it's the failure of the politic system (he's from the UK, but addresses global topics), for Sofia the failure of humanity.

Seb's guitar and Katy's violin were a great pairing, as well as their voices. Seb's has great range and I appreciated his changing cadences and flows whenever the songs needed them. He has a guaranteed follow in my book!

Main Act:

When I am asked on what concert I'm going to, I try to describe Sofia; to me, she is a haunting banshee that swears revenge and tells stories of lost souls and ghosts, old and new. Some of her own doing.

This description is to be understood as honorific, and exactly what the audience got this evening.

It's I think what we all appreciate about her: the wrath, wrapped in delicate prose and powerful strings.

She knows how to play: the instruments, the crowd, the stage.

I noticed that she uses water to wet her hair right before the stage and I'll call this henceforth the "banshee baptism", it's then when she becomes the character of women's wrath.

Before, she has a sweet and funny demeanor, but then she kicks into gear and delivers. As you know, she uses her face and body, even her hair, to me it's not only a concert, but partially performance art. I love it.

With a wry smile, I heard the fans scream when she lifts her clothing, which is ironic because they scream when she sings "I don't want to seduce you fuckface", so there are - at least on some receiving ends - mixed signals.

A song that makes me cry every time I hear it is "Evergreen Soldier", and Sofia was smart to bring two support people on the stage to hug her in the end. That's something I've seen in videos and now live; Sofia hugs like a human. Like a best friend.

I am personally so touched that after I can only imagine what she went through given some other titles in her work, that she kept her humanity, her spirituality, her warmth. And I'm happy that she is so smart and chooses people with her on the stage she's comfortable with to hug after this gut-wrenching song that makes me, a woman of 40 years, cry every fucking time.

Sofia, I don't know if you read this, but this song is a masterpiece and I'm grateful that you were able to find beauty and strength in that incredible pain. I'm so sorry it never happened for the two of you, but you can be proud of what you created for yourself instead. It's my favourite song, also at the concert. It's so, so human. You are an incredible poet and I respect your lyricism deeply.

Altogether, this concert was a lot of fun. Her voice is INCREDIBLE live, so much power but also rawness and tiny specks of lights, when she chooses to use it that way. She has humor, is jn good spirits and has put a lot of effort into mastering her crafts.

Whenever you have the chance to see her live, do it. I don't live in Berlin, but took three days off work and travelled 400km to see her.

I hope she will release her surprise song "Coupon for Boba" one day.

These are my musings, halfway to midnight.

u/QuestingOrc — 1 day ago

Sitting at her concerts

I got them because my sister at the time had seizures and such, but now we're both worried it was a bad idea since Sofia likes to interact with the crowd so much. Just wondering if anyone has been at at her concerts and what its like?

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u/alinniebees — 8 hours ago

Hiii! to anyone who went to her show last night, approximately which time did the meet and greet end? i’m going next saturday and my dad is gonna pick me up after so i need to know if i can squeeze that in after the show.

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u/chxseatlantix — 8 days ago

ONE SEATED ticket for London 4th June for sale

Hellooo

I have one level 2 seated/accessible ticket for London on 4th June that I can’t use any more. (chronic illness popping off, I’m v mad about it.)
Selling for what I paid, rounds to £34.

The venue won’t refund me and I tried adding it to twickets but they rejected it bc it’s accessible, which is so frustrating! Just LOVING the double whammy of being unable to go AND losing money over it.

I’ve contacted the venue to see if I need to do anything special bc it’s an accessible ticket, and they didn’t say anything other than to use the send to a friend option. So I assume it’s okay for the ticket to be used by anyone. Will happily forward you that interaction with them if you want it.

u/Unicronsprinkles — 2 days ago

Does Sofia have an opener this tour (EU)?

currently looking for trains back and wanted to calculate the estimated length of the concert, and then I realized I know nothing about any opener

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u/sunnytimeswithsun — 2 days ago

I wrote a poem inspired by Above the neck and Numbers

The Clay by Jenna Seelye (that’s me)

Get them while they’re young
Get them while they’re ripe
Get them while they’re soft
And can be made into any shape you like

No personality
No sense of there own
I’ll take you somewhere unsafe
And convince you that it’s home

You’re so grown
So smart, so mature for you age
I was nothing like you
when I was in 10th grade

You’re so special to be chosen
When the gap is so wide
Sweet nothings behind the door
Before I force my way inside-

You body, your mind
Your spirit, your soul
Used and abused
As a form of control

That I lacked in my own life
For I was used too
And I was shaped to think
I could do the same to you.

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u/DepressoSupreme — 7 days ago

Meet and greet

Im attending the concert in Manchester on the 28th and was curious about the meet and greet. I know she started last night so a few people have already seen her and experienced it..so for those who have been, how long did it take for the meet and greet? And how did you know you were one of the 200 people to get the meet and greet?

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u/DeadlySmolBean — 7 days ago

I have just discovered Sofia in the last week or so and I am a huge FAN!!!! It's like if Ethel Cain (my fav artist of all time) and Billie Eilish had a baby. I NEED to see her live!!!!! A gothic-pop raging feminist... AGHHH!!!

Being a new fan, please list your fav songs below and feel free to explain why it's your favorite :) TIA!

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u/Vast-Piccolo7079 — 13 days ago

Im going to a show mid may but what has the queue been at so far on the tour? Like what time should I show up to get close to the stage?

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u/ishri0 — 14 days ago