I feel so alone most of the time. I want to have deep thought provoking discussions most of the time. But it seems like not only do most people not want that but can't handle thinking. Also like there are emotions or thoughts they keep deep inside and that brings them out
I am surrounded by People addicted to Po*n, however I seldom enjoyed it. But reading an Erotica gives me high that no po*n ever could. I was wondering if this is some Sapiosexual traits? Are there other people also?Is it normal?
I was watching a video of a stanford CS professor, he was so charismatic and the way he explained things was so attractive. Personally, I've not met a man who has both charisma and intelligence. The intelligent guys tend to be more introverted, get shy which I'm not into (not shaming anyone who is like that tho!) or are really cocky in the way they explain things, which is an obvious turn off.
High intelligence is very attractive, but EQ and how you carry yourself is equally as important!
Just today I had to go through a grieving process of not being able to help the general population how I had been wanting to. Emotional intelligence is included in this statement. And it's tough for me, because most people wouldn't relate to this statement.
Having 10 years of friction and disconnect...All summed up to a new approach in the direction of my life and how I aim to help people. It's not how I want to (as a standalone method), but it's an angle that may be the start of how I need to (later combining past intentions).
Surface level connection + volume = higher chance for anticipated depth. More attention = more chance for connection. Not how I wanted it, but it may be a shift in how public I have to be to get what I'm wanting in terms of relationships in general. Moving up in the world, and leaving a part of myself and society in the dust...When I could have made the decision to do so 10 years ago, but I had to run out of reasons not to.
Am I alone in any part of this, or is there someone who can relate to me by chance?
If you are a writer, write "I lied." Without writing , "I lied."
I will go first, " The truth stood behind me, silent, while I handed you something prettier. "
I keep having a hard time with finding people to connect with. Biggest thought is dating apps, but I feel like those types of apps tend to focus on only the physical component. but I want people that can stimulate my mind too.
With diminishing attention span are we seeing the extinction of the art of having a conversation? Because there is always a blinking screen ready to seduce us.Are we losing the intimacy of having a conversation?