u/Mentalframeworks

I'm an incredibly mature and attractive man, so much so that older women will lose their speech when talking to me, even today, saying their face is on fire etc...I have depth beyond probably anyone you've ever met, emotional intelligence and self-awareness to an ultimate strength, and general competency that makes me question my day to day connections' part in harmony...Yet I'm accepting of where people are at, have peace within and a soul that welcomes most. Literally a good body, mind, heart and soul, and I don't know when my match will show for me.

There's a really big problem that likely 80% of the population won't even acknowledge, and every day that passes, more potentially compatible partners disappear off the map. You can think of it as more relationships that could be a match for me are becoming dead to me, because I am a resolute man, and as someone called me the other day in Aussie slang, "a totally rooted unit."

The minimum requirement is not absolute, but something ridiculous, like you've had to have never so much as kissed someone in the past 5 years. And, you had to have also not done a stupid thing that most of the world also has done. Some kind of injection. It's the equivalent of contracting aids, and the whole world was lied to about it. That basically means if you've had any relationship of any sort, not even needing to be romantic, where you exchanged any body fluids, and you are not a virgin of all virginity the past 5 years, you're not going to be an option for me for my entire lifetime. And the more time passes, the more people continue to make decisions in line with this that otherwise hadn't who go on to disqualify themselves. It's really something I can't help, yet there are people who think like me, and value mental and emotional intimacy, and haven't done those things. They're just likely not as young as me.

Yet, if you've had a loyal partner, and you're no longer in a relationship, and you also didn't do that stupid thing, that also means you'd qualify. So it's not hopeless, but you'd need to be educated to not make the mistake of going into another relationship and kissing someone before having met me, most likely, or universal options just happen to align and we meet for the very first time in perfect timing. Sublime! It's in short, more unlikely than I'd like to count. And if I'm to change the odds, I either have to have to become famous, and have more eyes on me, or have the world be my scout. Neither route is optimal without an insane amount of work...Just for a partner.

The reason I'm mentioning this here is because, well, INFJs are sensitive people. Me personally, I'm an ENFP. I am well aware that someone such as yourself, if that's who I'm speaking to, will likely value a connection that sees them, hears them, feels them, and deeply understands them, and wouldn't move until that's ideally happened for them. And so, in some bastion of faith, this may be the place where a wild card is pulled and that person enters my space.

I don't really think this compels you to write me, comment, or anything. I've offered nothing here. I just really want to know, and if you care for your own, I'd love it if you'd tell me that's you so far. Maybe I can get to know you. It may not be wise to comment your past relationship history here, but it would help the algorithm for you to give notice, support, and say something, and if you need, write me personally. I'm not asking for dms, as that's not allowed here, but it makes sense to do more than comment if you need to. Anyways, thank you for your time and your attention, and if this reaches the right person by some chance, may life bless the both of us. Thank you.