r/r4rMelbourne

Howdy everyone!

I’m over the dating apps but still want a fun cuddle buddy for winter now that it’s getting cold again! I made a similar post last year and had good success meeting people, so thought I’d try my luck again.

About me: physically I’m, 25f, brown hair, brown eyes, curvy body type, very very faded summer tan.

Personality wise, I’m shy to start with, but will yap your ear off once I get comfortable. I’d like to think I’m funny but I’ll let you decide. I’m progressive and open minded and hope you are too. I’m sex positive and have enjoyed exploring.

I don’t always have a lot of free time but when I do, you can find me at Cinema Nova on a Monday, frolicking through the city findings a good wine bar or at the library returning the books I never ended up reading.

What I’m looking for: ultimately looking for a fwb type situation. Friendship and connection is important to me, so not looking for ONS atm. I’m not quite ready for a relationship, but enjoy the boyfriend benefits. I’m hoping to find someone to get to know, spend time with and have a casual but consistent connection.

If you’re interested, please send me a message with a bit about yourself! Let me know how you think we could spend our time together.

Heyo, I'm Amanda. I’ve just moved back to Melbourne after being away for about 3 years in Brisbane and unfortunately all my moving around has made it hard to maintain friendships (or relationships!). A little bit about me:

☆ Music is life and I’m hard stuck in the mid 2000s emo phase. Live music is where I feel the most at home

☆ Video games are my main hobby - addicted to TFT/Overwatch/HoMM/Fortnite (rival boards are a great addition, don't judge!) at the moment. Although I’m on the hunt for another multiplayer to get obsessed with

☆ I listen to too many podcasts

☆ I have some other hobbies like crocheting

☆ Love going for walks/hikes (probably the only time I tolerate being outside haha)

Other than that, I spend too many hours of my life in a boring office job.

If any of this catches your interest at all, shoot me a message :)

I'm like a cat, I nap a lot, i disappear for a few hours and no one knows wtf i do, i come back around for attention, push people away so i can nap again. I'll scream that I'm hungry, take a bite and be full. I'm a chronic over thinker, never switch off. Tonight's question is: Is my mum autistic or just German?

My interests vary, I just need my brain tingled. 🥦🥦🥦 Great messy food, sugar bandit some desserts, walk randomly around the city, see shows/movies/bands, spud fest was random but fun. I could find the joy in shopping for groceries.

I'm 5'4, blonde, blue eyes, chubby monkey. I dress like a soccer mum, I need to be comfy.

I'd love to meet people to try new, casual food places, sample cocktails at roof top bars (I love wearing coats, see what shows or exhibitions are around, random wandering. I'd prefer if you're not sober, sober people remember all the lies i tell when I'm drunk. I'd like if you enjoy being spammed by messages, I'm very needy and love high communication. Just be fun, affection and smart enough to help me cross the road when I refuse to wear my glasses.

I think meeting me is a good idea, I'll laugh at pretty much anything, celebrate all of your small victories (good job on not throat punching someone at work!), I'll go try restaurants that your friends have no interest in. It will feel like we've known each other for years!

Dipping my toe back into dating after a long break and not a fan of the apps, so giving Reddit a go on a friend’s recommendation. As it gets cold outside, I’d love someone to share cuddles on the couch, a nice bottle of wine, and cosy weekends away.

About me: A strawberry blonde with blue eyes, long legs and an hourglass figure. I keep fit by doing weights, yoga and getting outdoors… I’m not overweight but not skinny either, and I never will be because I love food too much haha.

What I offer: I’m a bayside dwelling professional nerd with a demanding job, got my shit together (both financially and mentally) and I’ve built a great life for myself with amazing people in it, so I’m booked and busy; but when I’m interested in someone, I’m present, generous and a lot of fun.

Live music, spontaneous getaways, nature, and a dark dive bar all rate highly. So does cooking up a storm at home and listening to some records. I describe myself as an ambivert- happy to be a social butterfly as long as I get the recharge time I need as well.

I value connection over perfection. And when effort and energy are matched, I love to treat and spoil my man.

I’m childfree by choice but don’t mind if you have kids.

What I’m looking for: Ongoing FWB with the potential to grow. I’m not looking for a relationship label on day one, but not interested in one off hookups followed by ghosting either. Good conversation, kindness and intelligence is a massive turn on.

Sexually I lean more towards the submissive/brat side - I gotta be in charge all day at work and a girl needs a break from that sometimes lol - but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally. I’m not a prude by any means but I need to form a connection before I can get naked with someone new.

About you: Aged 33-55, emotionally mature, self-aware, and actually available. You’re consistent, communicative, and put in effort without being asked.

Motivated and present. I’m tall, so I tend to connect best with men around my height or not too much shorter.

Bonus points for nerdy energy (I wanna hear all about your special interest topics!). I’m a sucker for facial hair, a dad bod and a hairy chest. If you can make me laugh as well then we are golden.

Other bits: First meeting in public is a must, no exceptions Prefer real momentum over endless texting Low effort isn’t attractive If you’re into good food, good tunes and documentaries, we’ll get along just fine

If you read this far and want to know more, shoot me a message!

Firstly, please don't bother messaging me if you're just looking for a root or you're already in a relationship. If you decide to message me, ensure you read my post in full.

About me:

Hey, I'm a cute mixed race babe with big dark eyes, long black hair and a pale olive complexion from outside of Melbourne. I'm curvy and fit the "BBW" body type with a pear shape, D cup breasts, thick thighs and a big bum.

If you were to ask my friends how they'd describe me, they'd probably say that I'm funny, intelligent and bubbly, but with some Daria-like tendencies. I can be bratty, and I'm dominant outside of the bedroom.

I have a diverse taste in music. However, I'm a reggaeton veteran and elder emo kid. But I enjoy so many types of music.

What I'm Looking For:

I'm opening myself up to meeting new people, having a cozy winter fling, or more depending upon the connection. However, I'm a demisexual and prefer to have a bond before taking next steps. I'd prefer someone I can do things with outside of the bedroom too.

Ideally you're tall dark and serious, but I'll gladly substitute handsome too. Open to professional men of all ages as long as you are intelligent and conduct yourself with maturity when it counts. I do love a man who can make me laugh, have fun and likes to make a woman feel good about herself. I prefer clean shaven men as my skin is sensitive. 💔

In the bedroom I'm a submissive brat. I act tough, but if I like you I'll fold easily and enjoy learning how to please you. However, I'm not turned on by online fantasy so apologies if that's your thing.

What I Offer:

If I sound like your type and you're comfortable with travel, then I offer good company and a tempting wintertime distraction.

Feel free to send me a dm me a little about yourself, and let me know what about my post made you think we'd click.

Sorry not sorry for the longer post, trying to weed out as many people who don't fit the bill as possible. Posted on reddit before and ended up with like 200 responses with about 99% of them being from people that were the opposite of what I was looking for. Do not message me if you do not fit what I'm looking for.

About me / what I offer:

24 years old, (25 in a few months if that's important to you) queer, polyamorous, sub. Medium experience in kink, sexually adventurous, practice safer sex. Tall, alternative, curvy/chubby. I enjoy cooking, ethical true crime, and Stardew Valley. In a dynamic with a really great Dom <3

I'm communicative, have a very clear idea of what I'm into and not into, I'm also willing to try a lot of things out (within reason).

**What I'm looking for**

Looking for a man to engage in a specific kink dynamic, as per sub rules there's no kink list here. Check out my profile to see my post in a BDSM sub that's more specific.

Some non negotiable things:
I am not willing to budge on these, even just a little bit. Don't waste my time and do not expect me to be nice to you if you try anyway.

•	be experienced, both with kink and polyamory   
•	ideally aged 30-35, but willing to talk to people 27-37   
•	queer   
•	live in Melbourne   
•	willing to use condoms and get tested   
•	be open to chatting online for 2 weeks as an absolute minimum, good chance it'll be longer than that, meeting strangers from the internet is scary 

Some of my preferences:
• also be alternative
• have your own place (my living situation means I can't have people over, if you can't either we'll have to work that out together)
• bearded / hairy

Absolute no's:
• Younger than 27
• Older than 37
• Submissive
• Not living in Melbourne
• Inexperienced
• Couples
• "Hey how are you" and nothing else
• AI messages / profiles
• Booktok Doms
• Conservatives

Tell me a little about yourself when you message me. Don't go into my messages penis first. I'm not looking to rush anything and it's going to take time to develop the trust that is necessary to build a dynamic like this. Tell me what you'd enjoy in a dynamic like this.

PS- if you're on fetlife let me know your username so I can stalk your page lol

hi from the philippines!

ill be traveling to melbourne soon and i was hoping to meet some new people and give me a free tour around the city :p

im: born woman, filipina, short, average looks, introvert but once we vibe i can get really chatty. loves traveling and discovering new places especially those that are iykyk spots from the locals!! interests are books and im trying to watch more iconic films so i can be cultured. i have a really bad sweet tooth i love all things desserts

hope youre: hopefully free during weekdays, good conversationalist, from melbourne cbd area or near, is genuinely a nice person and respects boundaries, knows this is all casual and no dramarama. not a serial killer lol

Hey, I'm 28, currently living in the Geelong region and I am pretty regularly in Melb too. Looking for good, chill, fun with likeminded guys.

Love the gym, work out 5-6 times a week.

Pretty short myself. Have my own place.

HMU :)

Hi, I am a nerdy 26 Male in Northern suburbs looking for new friends. I like anime, gaming, going to music festivals, catching the newest movie and have recently started collecting Pokemon cards again

I am introverted in general but I'm trying to change that, would love to chat and meet people with similar interests. Would also love regular rave buddies I can tag along with for music festival.

Thank you!

Hey everyone! This week has been pretty full-on but I finally have a bit of free time so thought I’d pop on here and kill some time on this (well deserved) break :)

So a bit about me:
- Currently in my last year of uni studying comms and will be done with my studies next month!

- Just started my first big girl corporate job so trying to find a good work/study life balance

- Only recently found my love for the game Stardew Valley and have been working my butt off on my farm

- Have also started really enjoying coffee in the mornings (I wonder why), so cafe suggestions are very much appreciated 🙂‍↕️

I’m sure there are other things I’ve left off the list but I hope this gives you a decent idea of me as a person! I’d love to connect with people who are similar in age that share the same interests, so if you’ve read this feel like we’d get along then feel free to message me. I’m excited to see where this goes and hopefully make a few friends out of it.