Dipping my toe back into dating after a long break and not a fan of the apps, so giving Reddit a go on a friend’s recommendation. As it gets cold outside, I’d love someone to share cuddles on the couch, a nice bottle of wine, and cosy weekends away.
About me: A strawberry blonde with blue eyes, long legs and an hourglass figure. I keep fit by doing weights, yoga and getting outdoors… I’m not overweight but not skinny either, and I never will be because I love food too much haha.
What I offer: I’m a bayside dwelling professional nerd with a demanding job, got my shit together (both financially and mentally) and I’ve built a great life for myself with amazing people in it, so I’m booked and busy; but when I’m interested in someone, I’m present, generous and a lot of fun.
Live music, spontaneous getaways, nature, and a dark dive bar all rate highly. So does cooking up a storm at home and listening to some records. I describe myself as an ambivert- happy to be a social butterfly as long as I get the recharge time I need as well.
I value connection over perfection. And when effort and energy are matched, I love to treat and spoil my man.
I’m childfree by choice but don’t mind if you have kids.
What I’m looking for: Ongoing FWB with the potential to grow. I’m not looking for a relationship label on day one, but not interested in one off hookups followed by ghosting either. Good conversation, kindness and intelligence is a massive turn on.
Sexually I lean more towards the submissive/brat side - I gotta be in charge all day at work and a girl needs a break from that sometimes lol - but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally. I’m not a prude by any means but I need to form a connection before I can get naked with someone new.
About you: Aged 33-55, emotionally mature, self-aware, and actually available. You’re consistent, communicative, and put in effort without being asked.
Motivated and present. I’m tall, so I tend to connect best with men around my height or not too much shorter.
Bonus points for nerdy energy (I wanna hear all about your special interest topics!). I’m a sucker for facial hair, a dad bod and a hairy chest. If you can make me laugh as well then we are golden.
Other bits: First meeting in public is a must, no exceptions Prefer real momentum over endless texting Low effort isn’t attractive If you’re into good food, good tunes and documentaries, we’ll get along just fine
If you read this far and want to know more, shoot me a message!