r/penissize

I’m M55, single, straight, and my L is BP 17,4 cm / 6,9 inches and NBP 15,4 cm / 6,1 inches. G is 12,9 cm / 5,1 inches mid shaft. Size can be documented.

I know my size is somewhat above average both in L and G, and I’ve never got negative feedback on my D or my performances in general.

But I’ve never either been told I’ve got a big D, and never ever bottomed anyone (body count maybe 15-20 in total). Actually, the females have mostly never commented on my D at all. Many got off, but all of them due to mouth and/or finger work.

I never managed to get a woman off just by penetration. Not even once.

And this fact has made me insecure about my size and also my abilities.

I’ve tried it all to be better. Watched porn, read about techniques, used my D on the G spot, fingers while penetration, doggy, cowgirl, missionary, north, south, up and down….

Close! Many times. But no cigars. Sadly. Makes me feel inadequate tbh 🙁

Any pointers out there?

Are we all on the same page? Of course there are girls that care but I’ve also been denied because of it too. I think most of it is just pressure from other dudes?

So when I was with my gf we were into talking about her sleeping with other guys, pretty fun and hot. We aren’t together anymore but hooked up recently and she told me about the new guy she’s been dating. He’s 6ft 6 in height or 198cm so he’s a big dude and she told me when she was teasing me that she measured his 🍆 and it was a solid 9 inches when hard, I’m happy with my dick size but see a lot of people here talking about 9 inches and how unbelievably rare that is hahah, is it true? Even for a guy of his height?

Look, I haven't 100% confirmed that its girth has increased; it's just a visual impression. My question is: Is it possible that the girth has increased? I'm 19 years old and I thought my penis would stop growing at this age.

P.s: I apologize if I have any grammatical errors; English is not my native language.

I’m 5-5.5 with above average girth, but I’m not fully hard like ever, I’m 300+ pounds and tall. It looks terrible. I know I have buried length and EQ problems. But honestly, after everything I’ve read and seen, I don’t see why it’s worth it to even try unless you have a big dick. If you can’t provide her maximum pleasure your in deep shit in so many ways. Sure, 5-6 feels good, but fully satisfying? No.

It’s just so unfair. And tbh I’m less so angry at women and more the big dick sadists I’ve seen on Reddit, that shit pisses me off. Congrats you were born with the right to be happy.

im u18, hard is 15cm length, 14 girth.

im a grower, soft is only 7-10cm length.

my underwear/bulge doesnt help me and makes it look like i have a small dick.

I feel quite self conscious about this (especially due to puberty) since, out of the ~15 people i change around (no showers), it appears i am on the lower end of the group, and it has damaged my self image a bit.

while i do rationally understand this isnt true, due to (once again) puberty I am 'naturally compelled' to compare myself to everyone else and thus feel embarrassed regarding the size of my dick.

Is there anything I can do about this?

This feeling is unnatural and I shouldn’t really be thinking this way. For the past couple of months Turning 18 and realizing my dick has stopped growing, it crushed me. I look at these people who get to feel loved and think to myself why couldn’t that be me. Why didn’t I win the genetic lottery. Iv taken care of myself, I look good, got a good physique, got the height needed but cursed with a 5inch dick. I crave feminine energy, I want a woman to embrace me and see me as her partner

under 18, my dick is 6" (havent measured girth buy avg proportion)

im a grower, around 1.5-3" soft.

My underwear/bulge is indicative of my soft size but I am conscious of how it may seem i have a small dick, and my bulge is one of the smallest out of the 10-15 people I change with (no showers)

I feel like all the others judge/look down on me for the assumption i have a small dick, especially during (the latter half of) puberty, and this assumption is partly harming my self image (again, mostly due to hormones/puberty)

is there anything I can do to remedy this?

Hello, I’m sorry if there are any mistakes—I’m French. But to get back to the subject, I have a huge lack of confidence about my penis size, and I can’t convince myself that I’m big despite my measurements (8.27 length, 6.22 girth). I think it’s because of the videos I watch, where it seems like they’re all huge and so i've never realy believed that i have a big one

I am 5.5 NBP length and 4.6 girth. If any women see this let me know if it’s a good size or not.

Is it normal?

hi everyone, im 18 and i never had sex in my life but im nervous about what it would be and what condom should I use.

my measure are 7 inches of lenght and 6.1 inches of girth. any idea?

Im currently 16 as of this month hitting 9 inches this year (8.4 last year) and over many friendships ive had friends claim 7-8 inches but this seems unrealistic with how common i hear it. The only time ive seen a true 8 or one of similar size of my own was walking in on a friend at a sleep over as we were the same age a few months ago. I hear so many ppl claim this soze but is it really true?

Hey guys, this has been something I’ve dealt with for a while.. I’ve tried looking and researching into all sorts of methods… pills, pumps, random routines. Most of it either felt like a waste of time or just didn’t really lead anywhere.. Creams and oils especially felt like pure bs.

Surgery is too freaking expensive and risky. Plus I wouldn’t say I’m extremely small or anything… but still, it’s something that’s always been in the back of my mind.

Around September last year I started looking into the whole mechanical tension thing (basically slow, consistent stretching over time).. I stuck with it and I’ve actually noticed some changes since then. Even with this you can't overdo it (I went from 4 hours as most would've instruct, to 8-9 hours) It's really a matter of consistency and patience with this one, but it’s the first thing that didn’t feel like complete bs to me..

Curious if anyone else here has gone down the same path or found something that actually made a permanent difference?? (Non surgical only)

I’ve always been insecure about my size, people do expect me to have a BBC and it hurts a lot when I won’t live up to it. I wish more people understood that it’s a myth.

Anyway, what bothers me is that even if I do use my mouth, fingering or a lot of foreplay and things like that, if someone with a larger size does the same, they would satisfy partners better.

What do you guys do, or have you felt insecure before and became confident? If so, what worked for you?

Thank you have a great day!

I'm 14 and in stage 2-3 of development on the tanner scale, my penis is 6 inches in a standing state and not feeling big, how much might I have in the future?

Every one I ask or know said they are about 7” and it’s freaking me out because people say is big and not that common.