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What progress looks like long term: nail beds.

What progress looks like long term: nail beds.

Hello all! 👋🏻 I was a constant nail biter for at least 15 years. When I was quitting, I had a very hard time finding long-term update photos so I’m sharing one! I’m in between nail appointments and I finally have a nail bare enough to do it. I’ve stopped biting now for around 10 years, and as you can see, my nail bed has SLOWLY been growing back. It’s distinctly a different color, but it still makes a big difference. So just wanted to say, if you leave them be, they might not look perfect but they will heal themselves some.

I quit purely out of spite - started dating someone who smoked and he agreed to stop smoking and I agreed to stop biting my nails. We’re still married now haha. I wish I had more helpful advice than being stubborn with a pact. The most practical advice I have is Nailtiques Formula 2 clear coat really helped me pick and bite less, my nails were a lot harder with it on.

u/seejayque — 15 hours ago
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Stopped after 30+ years and this is my progress (1 year)

Almost a year after I stopped biting I can finally make this post.

The hardest part was getting from Picture 1 to Picture 2. That’s probably the longest I had ever gone without biting. I had to get my nails long enough to not be embarrassed walking into a nail salon to get my nails done for the first time in years (Picture 3).

The longest I managed to get them to was the Christmas and New Years set (Picture 5 and 6). I shouldn’t have because my nails were too weak and my nail bed wasn’t ready for it which lead to my nail breaking (Picture 7). It was so painful and had to run to a pharmacy to get help removing it because I couldn’t do it myself.

Last picture are my current nails. My thumb nails have now broken in half (don’t have pics) because I just can’t bring myself to cut them when I have made such progress but I should.

u/FilthyDwayne — 1 day ago

Can this be fixed?

It doesn't look too bad from a normal angle but viewing the ridge from the top one side grows down

u/lani_brah — 2 days ago

Been biting my nails for as long as I had had them. Going cold turkey tdy

Hey.

It’s April 19th, 2026. I am a few months away from turning 19. I have been biting my nails and fingertips for as long as I could remember. I knew it wasn‘t good for me, I got teased for it plenty, struggled with knots and picking cards and coins off the floor plenty. But there were plenty of things in my life that I put before this, and this is the result.

Ingrowns on both sides of every finger, inc the thumbs, constant pain in every finger tip to the point where every day tasks like typing and holding a pencil or pen are painful, think of somewhere like the worst leg day you’ve ever had localized onto your finger tips constantly, and a tenderness where even light pressure elicits pain that makes your whole body convulse. I cannot even imagine what my hands would look like with “normal” nails. I’m pretty sure my fingers, esp my thumbs, have changed shaped bc of the lack of nails throughout my entire life from birth till now. (can anyone confirm is this is actually a thing or just my imagination bc I have no personal reference for having nails)

Im posting this as a before picture to start my process of growing out my nails for the first time ever, and for anyone out there looking for something to scare their kids with. I hope this would have been enough to dissuade 3 year old me and nip it in the bud.

I will be back in 1 year.

u/Successful-Deer8804 — 3 days ago

What’s helped me twice now

I bit my nails for years and only stopped once I applied nail polish. I had them looking so good. Ah well, guess I’ll go back to using nail polish. Not even a lot either. Just a few dabs on the problem fingers and once I have those looking nice again hopefully I fully stop with the other 2.

u/Advanced-Ad1192 — 1 day ago

How has healing your nails changed you?

To start, I'll say that it's really taught me the meaning of being gentle with my body and myself. At the start of my journey all of my efforts to "fix" them was with a forceful touch and without much thought to what my individual needs were. Once I noticed that, I also started noticing how that was a repeating pattern for me in other areas. Over time, it's changed the way I approach all of my practices and showed me how to actually take them in pleasure. It's helped me learn to actually relax.

What about you? Has your journey showed you anything about yourself that you didn't notice before or changed the way you approach yourself?

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u/mattilouwho — 3 days ago
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cant tell if my nails are still horrible or have healed

ive been awful at picking peeling chewing off and generally fucking up the skin surrounding my nails for my entire life and have finally trying to be mindful about snapping out of the trance, however i still keep catching myself in the act :[

my problem is i cant tell if my nails and skin have healed at all or not...my frame of reference for what 'healthy' nails and fingers look like has been messed up because my nails never looked like anyone elses when it was really bad, and i got used to the scabs and scars and raw skin 24/7 as just what my nails looked like at a baseline, and i cant tell if my nails look normal anymore now that im not tearing them up 24/7

i guess im just wondering if my nails look healthy or if theres anything i should be looking out for, if the redness is healthy or a sign of something

idk if i explained any of this right but if i didnt pls lmk and i can attempt to clarify, thank u guys in this sub for having a place for people to ask for support and support others dealing with BFRBs 🫂❤️

u/Xla-creaturaX — 3 days ago

what do i do

my press on nail fell off and now my nail look like this. i know that if i pull the hang nail i’ll be in a lot of pain. also im scared because ive passed out before due to pulling off a nail after a press on nail was removed. im a horrible nail biter and im scared ill bite it off due to habit. how do i fix this

u/Competitive-Rub-2862 — 2 days ago

I solved it.

After 25 years of biting, I finally found a fix. I’ve tried every bitter polish and trick out there, but nothing worked until my wife took me to a nail salon.

I got acrylic infills without a tip (just the acrylic over my natural nail). The results were immediate. The "thick" and heavy feeling of the acrylic creates a huge psychological barrier; I’m much more aware of my nails, which completely kills the autopilot urge to bite.

The progress:

Week 1.5: Went back for a cleanup because they were actually growing.

Week 8: My nails look near perfect.

I just keep getting them refilled as they grow out. If you’re a lifelong biter and nothing has worked, give this a shot. The physical weight of the acrylic is a total game-changer.

u/Banana_Overlord42 — 4 days ago

The worst injury I got from biting my nails all the way to 5 days no nibbling!!

u/H4LEY420 — 3 days ago

Just had my first ever manicure!

[swipe to see where the journey started last year ➡️]

He did cut them a little shorter than I wanted, but they grow so fast now, I don't even care... After 1 year and 4 months clean (and finally having all 10 nails without cracks/ broken) I finally got to experience a manicure! :)

u/ash_holio05 — 3 days ago

3 weeks in. I tried biting today. My theeth hurt.

You can see in the first image the pionter finger the nail has a spot on the bottom where I tried. I literally couldn't bite through it. I didn't know nails got this strong, but yeah. As of now, 3 weeks in and no nail loss. Despite trying. I will not try to again, but yeah.

u/just-a_fuking_name — 2 days ago

20+ year biter to now 2 months bite free!

Bitter nail polish was the solution! I’m not gonna lie, sometimes I still rub my nails across my teeth but haven’t bitten them! Also got my first manicure last weekend.

u/Affectionate_Ad3544 — 3 days ago
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22 years of biting, 6 months clean — the one thing that finally worked when nothing else did

Lifelong biter here. Started at 6, quit last year at 28. Sharing what worked because I remember how many of these "I finally stopped" posts I read hoping to find something that clicked for me.

What I tried and failed with:

  • Bitter polish (licked through it in 3 days)
  • Rubber band on wrist (snapped it raw, quit after a week)
  • Manicures (felt guilty, bit them off anyway)
  • Two different paid apps (tracking after the fact doesn't stop the bite)
  • Just "willpower" (didn't last a single stressful afternoon)

What I eventually figured out:

I was never actually choosing to bite my nails. My hand was at my mouth before I'd registered a single conscious thought. That's why willpower failed every time — there was no moment of choice to apply willpower in. The bite was already done.

The thing that finally worked was focusing on the moment of the reflex, not the aftermath. Every time I caught my hand drifting up toward my face, I'd make a fist and press it hard into my thigh for 30 seconds. Stupid. Simple. But it interrupted the pattern enough times that my brain eventually stopped sending the signal automatically.

This is actually a clinical technique called habit-reversal training (HRT). If you search it, there's real research behind it. It's the closest thing to a "cure" I've found.

A few things that stacked on top:

  • Most of my biting happened at my desk/computer. Knowing the 1-2 zones where it happens makes you way more alert in those spots.
  • Keep one hand busy — a fidget toy, a pen, anything tactile.
  • File nails smooth instead of short. A rough edge is an invitation.
  • Keep water nearby — half the time my mouth just wanted something.

I got so frustrated with existing apps (that just made me log bites after they happened) that I built my own small tool focused on catching the moment — stopbiting.today. It's free, no signup. Not trying to spam, just figured this sub is exactly who I built it for. Happy to answer questions about any of the tactics above.

We'll get there. It took me 22 years to find the right approach, and I want to save someone else that time.

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u/Slow_Asparagus_6595 — 5 days ago

I cut so my teeth can’t grip onto anything

I cut everything my teeth can grip. I have an overbite so my teeth can’t grip which is helpful😂😂

I was just cleaning so my finger look weird.

u/Sea_Record_778 — 3 days ago

10 weeks bite free….

Officially the longest I’ve ever lasted!

Photos from today and from the day I stopped biting.

Incredibly proud of myself 🙂

u/Confident_Dig_7834 — 5 days ago