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Image 1 — When you want a smart girlfriend but the 80s sci-fi setting is full of ditzy breasty boobers. [The Deceivers, Alfred Bester 1981]
Image 2 — When you want a smart girlfriend but the 80s sci-fi setting is full of ditzy breasty boobers. [The Deceivers, Alfred Bester 1981]
Image 3 — When you want a smart girlfriend but the 80s sci-fi setting is full of ditzy breasty boobers. [The Deceivers, Alfred Bester 1981]
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When you want a smart girlfriend but the 80s sci-fi setting is full of ditzy breasty boobers. [The Deceivers, Alfred Bester 1981]

And don't you worry, the woman who is brighter in addition to being just supple, fair and slitty-eyed (Demi) ends up as a damsel in distress for most of the story!

u/PeasantLich — 6 hours ago
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Everyone In My Family Has Killed Someone by Benjamin Stevenson

I feel like this fits the "doing it right flair?

u/twilighttruth — 1 day ago

Elsbeth episode perfectly nailed a man writing women!

His student in the short skirt - he couldn't remember her name - appeared during office hours that afternoon. 'You looked up my skirt,' she said. 'What are we gonna do about it?'

How dare she? He was a distinguished member of the faculty, for God's sake. And this Lisa - yes that's it - would not be satisfied until he was... dismembered. How had he arrived here, from walking home from school to his mother's embrace and a tuna fish sandwich on perfectly toasted toast... to this horror? Well, of course he had looked up her skirt. But, you know, was that a choice? In that moment, he knew she had complete power over him. And he knew that he was, maddeningly, absurdly... in love with her.

The above is from "Murder He Wrote," the latest episode of Elsbeth (s3 ep16). It opens with a pompous, Boomer novelist reading from his latest work. It absolutely, 100% nails these misogynistic, sexually harassing, writer/professor men. The whole episode just made me so happy. I just wanted to hug the writers of the episode (and go tell my high school boyfriend that he's become such a cliche as to be the stuff of satire). No spoilers, but we all know from the start that this man is going to get what he deserves.

a novelist's calm facade begins to slip

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u/zadvinova — 20 hours ago
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Rite of Passage by Alexi Panshin, foreward by Roger Zelazny (1968 edition)

It's been a while since I read this, but I remember liking it well enough. The main character was normal and unremarkable.

My most charitable interpretation of the foreward is just that when this was written, perhaps it WAS remarkable to treat a female character as human and interesting enough to be worthy of a story.

u/peony_chalk — 1 day ago
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POV: you wake up, grab a knife, accuse him, and he answers like this (Billy Summers - Stephen King)

She wakes up, thinks something really bad happened, grabs a knife.

He says, “you were raped, but I didn’t rape you.”

Then she lowers the knife and asks if he has aspirin.

u/Sircuttlesmash — 2 days ago

Opening of The Red Winter (2026) by Cameron Sullivan

Ah yes, let’s immediately sexualize the corpse of a teen girl 😵‍💫 Guess it was supposed to hook me but instead it gave me the ick. Would have bothered me less if he’d just called her pretty without adding the underlined bit.

u/mercurymoose_1383 — 2 days ago

What does everyone else think?

This was over discussions about tomboy characters in medieval fantasy and historical nonfiction books (Arya Stark and Jo March specifically) and adaptions. There was an argument too on tomboy characters being singled out for not following gender norms of those times and the strengths that traditionally feminine characters bring (Sansa Stark and Amy March)

u/MistakeWonderful9178 — 3 days ago
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Customer lent me “Still Life with Woodpecker” by Tom Robbins (1980)

I (34F) work in a coffee shop as a barista and a regular customer (40sM) lent me Still Life with Woodpecker by Tom Robbins. I have never read Tom Robbins and WOW it is a struggle. Really pushing through it, but I don’t even want to finish. The way this man writes about women and sex is nauseating.

Completely questioning this man’s choice in recommendation, and genuinely wondering why he thought I would enjoy it. Dreading having to provide feedback when I return the book!

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u/thyme-to-cry — 5 days ago
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Witches of Eastwick by John Updike, 1984 (best known for the movie adaptation with Cher, Susan Sarandon, Michelle Pfeiffer and Jack Nicholson) is just relentless. Not sure I can make it through the whole book because of this

So my parents are prolific fiction readers and my dad actually has a ton of books by this guy , who is also local to our area (central Pennsylvania) . Most of the others I’ve read (the Rabbit series etc) are like this too but it’s from the man’s perspective so I guess he gets a pass. I have no idea what possessed Mr. Updike to write a book about three straight witches, told from their perspective, written with such a preponderance of descriptions of their own and each other’s bodies in such graphic sexual detail. yes jokes about his last name are welcome. (Edit: Apologies for the terrible highlighting job, it’s not my copy of the book so I took photos then used the markup feature on my phone and it didn’t go very well)

u/the_toast_exemption — 7 days ago
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What if women wrote about men like men write about men

I saw this on Insta and couldn't helo but post it here.

If this is not okay I will remove it

u/crystaltae — 10 days ago
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Carrion Comfort (1989) by Dan Simmons - just a hint of nipple swelling with a dash of casual racism

u/Sundew83863 — 14 days ago
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Hothouse by Brian W. Aldiss (2015)

Who hasn’t examined their boobs and deduced instinctually that their youth is over?

EDIT: can’t fix the title but it was originally published in 1962 not 2015! My copy is a reprint.

u/carex-cultor — 16 days ago
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The Last Starship from Earth (1968) by John Boyd, page 1.

"Frontal Geometry" absolutely killed me lmao, I can't believe this is more or less how the book opens. The way this man "flirts" with this woman is also insane imo. just wild all around

u/Small_Statement1611 — 15 days ago

Love in the time of Cholera by Gabriel Garcia Márquez

I've kinda been having a hard time trying to figure out how to feel about this book.

Great writing almost like poetry, beautiful, beautiful but and I think this sub would understand (i hope actually) weird plot, weird characters, weird sex scenes, a pedo bit.

And yes, a writer who writes murder mysteries doesn't automatically become a murderer but idk how to feel about Gabo.

Several posts have been made about him here if you use the search bar so I won't but what makes a good book/ work of art? the writing, yes? is it still great if he's talking about pedo stuff? i guess.

Maybe he wants us to be nauseated cuz why else would you put " let's get ready for school" bit after the s*x bit with a child? Like it has to be intentional yeah?

Does your art say something about you? Always? Even if you're telling a story of a hare and a tortoise?

Is it a man thing?

Like what does it say if you as a male director love to show violence in your movies? Does it say something about you? Or is it not that deep?

I'd love to hear thoughts. Thanks!

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u/bundiwalaraita — 18 days ago
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“Her breasts were rising with the leaven of her years,” East of Eden - John Steinbeck (1952)

u/Fnord_Escort — 1 month ago