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How to decline an offer after accepting a different role?

I have been interviewing with 2 companies, both of which I was equally interested in after the initial interviews with the hiring managers. After these interviews, one company (A) took a clear lead over the other (B). I just received an offer from Company A, and will be accepting it. At this time, I am no longer interested in Company B after meeting with more of the team and learning about the position. It does not align with my career goals or sound like a company I would like to work for. I did go through the full interview process with Company B in case Company A didn’t work out. I had the final interview with Company B today before receiving the offer from Company A, and believe there is a high probability that I will receive an offer from Company B. Would it be better to notify Company B now that I have accepted an offer? Or should I wait until they potentially offer me the role and respectfully decline it? The recruiter with Company B was aware that I was interviewing elsewhere and I let her know yesterday that I was expecting an offer from Company A.

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u/Rainy_Boulder — 10 hours ago

Accepted a job offer and already regretting it before starting

I’m a new grad and accepted a job offer a few weeks ago because I was stressed about finding something after graduation. At the time, I thought it was a solid opportunity and I was excited to finally have something lined up. The organization has really good benefits, which was honestly a big factor in why I accepted in the first place. But after accepting, I’m realizing the actual work is not really what I want to be doing career-wise. The more I think about it, the more I’m worried I accepted out of fear and stability.

I don’t start for another month, and now I’m wondering if I should keep applying to other jobs in the meantime. Part of me feels guilty because I already accepted the offer, but another part of me feels like I shouldn’t lock myself into something I already have doubts about before I even start.

Has anyone else been in this situation? Would it be terrible to back out before starting if I got a better offer that aligned more with what I actually want?

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u/Evening_Practice8821 — 16 hours ago

How are you tracking job applications without going crazy?

What is your strategy? Job Market changes and layoffs everywhere and everyday..How do you handle hard time finding job?

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u/Decent_Resort_3861 — 15 hours ago

Am I overreacting?

I'm a 28 year old black man with 7 years of HR and recruiting experience. I went through two rounds of interviews with this major ticketing company that required 3 years of experience.

From my recruiting background I have a lot of experience with correctly answering questions and framing them in the context of my experience. I felt like I had one of the best interviews ever.

Weeks later they come back, reject my application and say that they liked me but that I was "overconfident" and needed to work on that in the future.

As a black man that has only been interviewed by white people, I doubt that if a white man walked in with the same demeanor and interview experience as me, that they would categorize him as
"overconfident."

Is this a micro aggression or am I overthinking??

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u/CassetteBeats — 13 hours ago

Applied to 87 jobs in a month.

Got 2 replies.

One was a rejection.

The other never answered after the interview.

At some point I stopped changing my CV and started wondering if job sites are just broken now.

Everything feels so random:

  • jobs already filled
  • fake listings
  • 500+ applicants in 2 hours
  • entry level needing 3 years experience

What finally worked for me was being more targeted instead of spamming applications everywhere. I found a small cleaning company looking for someone reliable, sent a normal message instead of some corporate sounding essay, and got hired a few days later.

Honestly made me realise people don’t really need “more applications” anymore. they need better matching between people and opportunities.

That’s probably why platforms like DealSenseMatch are starting to make more sense now.

Job hunting in 2026 genuinely feels harder than it should be.

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u/louiemarlow1 — 11 hours ago

Frustrated over a year of job searching

I am 28 and not found a job for over a year since 2024 of NOV.. I am in Canada and am applying like crazy but nothing. I have a degree in global development and MA in polisci and have had only one interview last month and got nothing and am feeling depressed/stuck and not progressing anywhere

I am doing part time stuff for my parent but I feel the longer this goes on, they are trying to decide my path for me such as saying I should start my own company and are really pushing that and don't really want to do that or going back to school but feel that's not so helpful as I need experience. Unsure how courses can help

I am frustrated as people my age are in higher positions and I've barely started an entry level role

Honestly what can I do or any tips as I am getting pissed. I applied for one summer job program and didn't even get an interview

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u/VideoSharp8658 — 10 hours ago
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A daily-updating sheet with 550+ open intern & new grad roles 🚀

If you're managing your college classes and this crazy job market at the same time, hang in there, more power to you!🫡

I was lucky to bag 3 intern offers as well as 3 full-time offers last year, all thanks to applying for 100s of roles a week. To find the right set of roles as soon as they dropped, I wrote a Python script to scan all Greenhouse job boards and catch them at scale. I'm sharing the live gsheet with y'all, it has 550+ open intern and new grad roles (SWE, AI, Quant/Finance, PM, Hardware).

It updates daily so you have a clear target list every day! I plan on adding Workday and Ashby to the sheet soon.

How I optimized my job searches

Having fresh job leads matters, and the three massive bottlenecks I figured out while going down the ATS rabbit hole:

1. Timing is everything. The data shows that roughly 80% of offers go to people who apply within the first 7 days of a listing.

2. Semantics matter way too much. I was applying for "AI Engineer" roles with "Machine Learning Engineer" on my resume. ATS parsers can be incredibly rigid. Literally just changing my past titles and headline to exactly match the target role had noticeably more callbacks.

3. Keyword stuffing backfires. Dumping keywords might get you past the initial ATS screen, but human recruiters will shoot it down with zero mercy. You have no choice but to actually embed exact phrases naturally into your bullet points.

Now there are tools you can use to automate most of these things. Even I'm building one to automate all of it under one roof. Happy to answer any questions in the comments about my experience, my findings on ATSes or my product in DMs/comments!

u/SpecificCancel4186 — 15 hours ago

Why are hiring managers scheduling fake interviews to humiliate?

I was scheduled for an interview with a hiring manager after a recruiter screen. The HM kept repeatedly telling the recruiter that she was excited to meet me. There were some technical difficulties so it was rescheduled but the HM still kept saying she was so excited and to have the interview as soon as possible.

As soon as the interview started, she basically stated that I am not (X Job Title) and that she sees “no evidence of it”, despite me currently working as X Job Title and having had interviews at that level and higher for major companies. She then tried to ask me technical questions to “prove” this and I aced every one, but she would just move the goal post unnecessarily. For instance, she might ask “have you ever used X software?” and I would say yes and explain in detail how I used it… then she would say “so I guess you haven’t used Y software then” when there is no logical link to suggest that… she was just completely making it up. When I then explain that I used that one, then she would jump to “so I guess you don’t manage a large team”… when I explain that, then she says “well, it sounds like your team does everything, so you are not touching anything yourself”… I then explain what actions I take alone and then she says “so you are not developing a team”…

The whole interview was basically just a fake moving target interview that she essentially begged to have. Are hiring managers that bored these days?

Edit: This was not an external recruiter. I already know that things can get weird at agencies and rarely deal with them. This was the company’s corporate recruiter.

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u/Gloomy-Industry7086 — 20 hours ago

Got rejection email from someone that no showed the interview

Had an original call scheduled and they rescheduled which is fine. Then they no notice no showed the rescheduled interview call.

I sent them an email to reschedule blah blah blah. Never got a reply.

This morning I get a rejection email from the same person and in the email it reads as if we actually had a call.

Wtf is wrong with these companies?!

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u/13NeverEnough — 20 hours ago

As someone who's working in the HR Department, after interviewing and observing so many candidates, one thing I’ve noticed is this:

A lot of smart people are not failing interviews because they lack skills.
They’re failing because they over-explain everything.

Especially experienced candidates.

I’ve seen senior engineers, marketers, analysts, and managers give answers like they’re trying to defend a thesis instead of having a conversation.

The problem is:
When people get nervous, they often confuse “more information” with “better communication.”

So they start adding every detail:
the background,
the timeline,
every technical explanation,
every side note,
every justification.

And somewhere in the middle, the actual point gets lost.

But we are usually asking ourselves much simpler questions:
Can this person communicate clearly?
Can they organize their thoughts under pressure?
Can they prioritize important information?
Would clients or leadership trust this person in conversations?

That’s why concise communication matters so much at senior levels.

A strong answer does not need to sound complicated.
It needs to sound clear.

One thing that helps a lot:
Lead with the main point first.

Instead of building suspense for 4 minutes, start with:
“My approach was…”
“The main challenge was…”
“What I focused on first was…”

Then explain only the details that actually support the answer.

Ironically, people often sound more senior when they say less, not more.

If you need some advice regarding interviews or want insights into how interviewers filter candidates during interviews, feel free to ask below.

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Job searching in 2026 feels like a full-time job except with no salary

Since January Ive applied for 40+ roles and almost half didn't even acknowledge the application.

Interviews feel more competitive than ever, recruiters are overloaded, and every job post seems to amass 300 applicants within hours.

Its hard to stay consistent without letting the process wreck my confidence.

Biggest things I hear people say,

  • tailoring CV's for each role
  • apply early
  • networking instead of “easy apply” spam
  • taking breaks before burnout hits - which I hate because when I'm on a break I feel guilty for not doing more, when I know I should be taking a break! Its a vicious circle.

Anyone else finding the market unusually brutal right now, or is it just me?

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u/Secure_Wrap_4992 — 2 days ago

What do you make of this message?

I interviewed twice and had good feelings. They said they would get back to me last Friday or today Monday. Now they are saying this. Do I still have a chance or should I expect a rejection tomorrow?

u/Fun-Objective-9125 — 1 day ago

AI and job searching

I’ve been applying for remote jobs for 7 months now I have experience good references good work background and education. I have had terrible luck finding a place to hire me. I recently (3 months ago) redid my resume with help from AI and still no luck. I’m trying to figure out why I’m not getting called for interviews from legitimate employer. Is AI to blame is my resume being weeded out before I am even getting a chance. I don’t know what to do anymore. The machines are winning.

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u/tstormageddon — 1 day ago

job search nightmare

Had 4 rounds of interview, with final one with the CEO (its a startup) felt really positive- sent a follow up on got no reply, with no reply still (7 days later). So confused what to expect with this. Do startups ghost candidates too? Any recruiters here with tips?

Edit: they rejected me because they wanted somebody senior, after all this- I guess this how startups are

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u/thefilmthatneverwas — 1 day ago

I'm at a loss

I lost my job 2 months ago. I've searched nonstop the day after it happened, but have had no luck after the first 2 interviews. I'll make it past the first screening, but after the second round, I'm ghosted. I've sent follow-up emails to recruiters two weeks after the interviews and have yet to hear back. I'm extremely frustrated and burnt out by the whole process, and I'm not sure what else I can do.

I've drilled myself in interviewing and done dozens of mock interviews with friends, family, and online videos. I have my elevator pitch down to a tee and all the success stats in my back pocket ready to go.

My fiancé thinks hiring managers are skeptical because I'm young and I was the director in my previous role. I don't want to water down the title I earned because I feel like I would be underselling the experience I do have. What do I do?

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Just retired after 35 years in recruiting. Based on questions I keep getting in other threads, thought I'd share what I know here.

Note - I'm not so updated with social media & my son told me that moderators run this group so please feel free to tell me if this is the wrong community to talk to or if its not relevant. Happy to be redirected.

For reference - I worked in recruiting and ran my own shop for the last 35 years, mainly across US, Australia, Asia. I have sourced for tech firms, MNCs, startups (Series A and up). I am retired now and in my free time assist people (mostly US) with navigating the job market.

I wanted to share some tips that might help this community, especially around ATS systems, interviews, career gaps, and how the system post once you submit your application.

First, regarding the ATS systems and why hiring feels luck based:

  1. Most folks think ATS is a barrier to overcome. It is not. ATS systems are purely management systems. They rarely auto reject anyone and it is not a system that you have to "game". I do not know where this notion of tailoring your resume to game the ATS and have your resume reach your recruiters desk came from, but it is incorrect. The ATS is simply a management and tracking tool. Over the span of my career, the new ATS that came up can reject someone instantly based on location, IP, AI based resumes, but tt cannot instantly reject someone based on their experience, or YOE, lack of keywords, etc

Simply put, if I post a job through ATS, and a 1000 applicants apply, I am going to get all 1000 of the resumes unless if the ATS found out that the person who applied is not from the country where the job was posted, or if their in -house AI system detected fraud based on phone numbers, email IDs or faulty work experience.

When the resumes come in, every ATS lets me search by keyword. I type in "Tableau" aand a hundred resumes surface. I am in no way going through all hundred. I am mostly finding my candidate in the first twenty, shortlisting, and moving on. My job at that point is done. The remaining eighty never get opened. Most ATS sort applications on the descending order, meaning I see the applications in order of who applied first.
This is probably why people think "hiring is luck based" and to be honest, it is not entirely wrong. You could be the most qualified person who applied and I will never see your resume simply because of timing.

My advice is simple. Do not obsess over being the "best" application. Be the earliest one and the relevant one. It's simple probability.

  1. Tailoring your resumes to the JD - This is an extension of 1.

Please, do not do this excessively. The concept of matching your resume to the JD and gamifying the ATS probably came up in the last 5 years or so through resume coaching firms or career coaching firms. These teach people to tailor their resumes but what people end up doing is fabricating their resumes. There is a massive difference between the two. This is a core problem the industry is suffering from right now.

Somewhere along the line people started stuffing keywords into resumes purely to get past the ATS. Skills they do not have, experience they have not done. Some even go as far as hiding keywords in white font on white background so it registers in the system but a human eye cannot see it. The result is that every resume now looks complete on paper. We know exactly what combination of skills and experience we need, we apply our filters, and suddenly everyone matches. It is unfair in two directions. The candidate who was honest about their skills gets buried under people who fabricated theirs. And on our end we are spending more time, energy, and cost screening than we ever did before. The technology was supposed to reduce that effort but its going the other way. This is probably why you see us asking for some form of tamper proof resumes in job descriptions. This is also why I also feel there won't be a concept of a job post anymore maybe 2-3yrs down the line. Its simply going to a matter of picking a candidate and reaching out to them.

To be clear - Tailoring is when you have a data analyst and a PM experience, but for a particular role you only showed PM experience, and less of the DA or none of it. You are not lying/ fabricating because its the truth. People seem to be doing the opposite. Putting in experience that they never did or skills they never have.
It also becomes obvious during the interview process as well as the verification process. We recruiters use verification techniques as well as companies like The Work Number or past offer letters etc, to verify everything you have said on your resume. If you have changed the dates of your experience to match a JD or reduce YOE, Work the Number, who has the payroll data of practically everyone, can instantly flag it and its a big no no for us. This usually happened post the screening but is happening at the resume intake now.

3 - To use doc or pdf for resumes - never use doc especially if you are applying on Linkedln Easy apply or jobs hosted on Ashby/Lever/Greenhouse ATS. Linkedln Easy apply does not automatically show your resume to us on preview, we have to download it and it forces us to move away from our workflow. Margins on doc are also almost always misread by most ATS. Always use pdf. Even better if you can use overleaf resumes (https://www.overleaf.com) or UniTalent Tamper proof resumes (https://www.unitalent.us). Both render resumes in latex code which is perfect for the ATS to read.

There are no margin issues or extraction issues. UniTalent resumes are immensely being preferred right now because they cannot be edited and are issued by the firm, not made by the candidates, so there is a certain degree of trust we have on them knowing that there wont be a skill added in white font on a white space somewhere, or that the resume has been edited to match the JD. We almost always spend more time when we see the UniTalent tag. Recruiters know its tamper free and hence we trust it. These have especially taken off when AI resumes started entering the market. If you are in the US, you might have seen job postings stating a preference for Unitalent tamper proof resumes over normal ones.

  1. On career gaps - very simply put - lie about it

  2. On salary negotiations - If you are at an entry level role or mid senior level role, please do not negotiate for salaries, especially in this economy. As much as stupid or bad it sounds, there is an oversupply of talent in the market and we and our clients know that we will find someone willing to work for for less, almost always. A recruiter is not going to negotiate most of the time because they want to close the role asap and move on. Its the bitter truth, but it is what it is.

  3. Don't apply blindly - looks for job locations with high JVRs (job vacany rates). Randstand Intelligence has this data.[https://www.randstadenterprise.com/in-demand-skills/]

  4. Dont apply blindy again - Almost 30-40% of all jobs on the job boards are ghost jobs. We call them collectors, and their sole purpose is to collect resumes for recruiters or ats bases or built-in house talent databases. A common way to spot them is if the same role is posted everywhere - every state/ most countries/ every major cities.

  5. On where the industry is heading :
    There are two directions the sourcing and hiring industry is heading right now -

  6. AI becomes the sole recruiter from end to end - all the way from sourcing, to interviewing to decision making. This is going to go mainstream and as much as inhumane it feels, candidates have to get used to it. It's simply economics, if the cost of hiring goes down for one firm, other agencies are simply going to adopt the same to stay competitive. Entry level roles are affected most by AI.

  7. The CV and concept of a job post is going to go. AI has accelerated a lot of things for recruiters, but equally so for candidates. Fake but picture perfect resumes, AI portfolios, AI interview help, AI voice modulations during interviews etc, AI applications/ cover letters etc. This is going to move the industry from CVs to straighup ledger based/ blockchain systems. Its a battle out there for everyone at this point. Most likely, every activity such as a job application, feedback, verification results are going to be on a single platform so that recruiters spend less time screening for gamification and more for the role. Most US firms already and we too, use UniTalent for that, some of our competitors use Greenhouse Real Talent, VerifyEd, etc. Linkedln too is increasing their verification now. Update your UniTalent or LinkedIn profiles, most of us have started sourcing from them rather posting jobs.

Happy to answer questions that come up and are within my expertise. Happy to point towards any research needed as well that might help in understanding the industry.

The Ghost Job Epidemic: How do you spot fake job postings?

Lots of my friends have been saying this recently.

And get this, (depending on the study and how “ghost jobs” are defined), estimates suggest that roughly 18–27% of listings may be ghost jobs. meaning roles that are posted but not actively being filled.

Why are they doing this? Marketing?

Do you guys recognise when a job posting is a fake one?

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u/JobNabber — 2 days ago

AI for job search

I have been seeing a lot of content in social media about how good Claude, Chat GPT and other AI tools help in their job search but whenever I try to use them for myself I don’t get anything out of it. I just saw a content on how Claude can scrape LinkedIn job postings and give your relevant job. Used it to see a whole bunch of jobs which stopped accepting responses already. By the way I specifically mentioned it to give me job postings that are available right now. Am I doing something wrong?. Need some advice here.

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u/FarRecipe5504 — 1 day ago