r/gayteenadults

Some of yall know me, especially if you're in the discord. So how are you guys today?

What shall I do now that I’ve graduated from school? I have seemingly infinite time on my hands and have become really bored

I've always had a bit of a weird sense of humor. Ever since I was young I've been lucky enough to get along with my sister really well and we both share the same sense of humor. Other than her and her boyfriend though, I have a really hard time finding other people I feel like I can joke around with. I feel like this is a small and insignificant thing to complain about, but over the years its made me feel very isolated because I find humor is a big part of my personality.

With just about all my current friends I feel like I'm hiding a part of myself because I'm afraid I will offend them with my sense of humor. Its often I pretend to find things funny because I don't want to be rude and to seem like I have a more light hearted sense of humor than I really do. It's not like I don't find any of their jokes actually funny or like I can't say any jokes I find funny to them, it just feels like there's a line I need to be careful of I guess.

I know I am probably being too careful and could show my sense of humor more, but I just feel scared doing that. I'm just a bit tired out of putting up a facade when I probably don't need to and should be more open about it anyways.

I apologize if this subreddit isn't a great place to post this I just felt more comfortable posting this here lol

Okay so where do I being, hello my name is... Asher (fake name) I'm 17 years old anyways this boy his name is Blake (fake name) is a year older than me 18 anyway I've been at this school (also this is based off of the year 2025-26) for about a half school year, anyway we've talked and I have his snap but I... I don't know how to word this or make is sound like a cliche but he's not like other boys he more "soft" and more "feminine" I mean when somebody ask him about getting a girlfriend he often just freezes and or ignores the question.

I realise that I could be just SIMPING over this boy but he has thous "soft" features That I just ADORE I mean *sigh* I'm head over heels but also I've gone after straight boys (well bisexuals or confused about their sexuality) and that was a situation. but this boy is a bit different because this boy does give like bi or gay vibes because he is VERY awkward within the change rooms and he's talked about his... desires of his partner to do to him in the sexual acts, now he doesn't really state a gender I don't know why but he often calls them (they, them or partner) Idk what would your guys advice be also sorry if the English doesn't make sense

(this is a VERY old post I think...

okay so there is a boy in my class (it's a split class so gr 11-12) anyways I think he's cute, and we talk a lot anyways he loves history and I'm also a history nerd too anyways we talk about that a lot... and like I don't know if he... (you know) and yeah well what should I do I mean there are signs or I'm just DELULU I'll give you examples such as (he was with his family and I found out that he's always just ignores texts from friends cause you know family time, anyways he has a full 30 minute text conversation while he's with his family. also he very conscience about what he says and he's often using very much inside jokes like while in the "friend group" (I'm not friends with some of his friends cause we had a falling out but that's a different story,) but like I don't know if he's gay or bisexual, and if he is what do I do cause I'm scared cause if I pure my heart out to a boy that is straighter than a flay pole I'm gonna cry and like ugly cry for a few days but could you tell me or give me advice or just anything..
also I'm 17 he's 18 and yeah

Just curious how some of you deal with loneliness. I’ve been feeling lonelier than normal recently and just overall don’t feel great about it.

I’m 19, I live in a small city, I’m not in any sort of school and the people I work with I don’t like besides one person but he’s in his 30s lol. I moved 3 times between ages 15-19 so never really got to know anyone super well and have always been pretty lonely. I don’t have any irl friends but have a couple online friends. I’ve never dated and that won’t change soon with where I live as much as I would like to. I also tend to be a quiet person and don’t like to go out or talk to strangers much which def doesn’t help.

Ok so bear with me I’m an adult now and oh my god like did men just disappear in the past few months cause it’s like crazy im so dry but ngl I can’t say im unhappy tho I kinda have a feeling my parents are praying I no man comes near me anywho that’s me how’ve yall been?

Que tal a todos, buena tarde espero esten pasando una bontia tarde, pues el dia de hoy vengo a publicar aqui xd, jajajajaja, soy hombre que actualmente estudia el ultimo año de la uni, tengo 23 años soy gay, y pues la verdad no es que no sepa o pueda hacer amigos, sino que los amigos que tenia se salieron de la uni y me quede solo, la neta me da huva hablar con los de mi uni, aparte porque son doble cara e hipocritas, y la verdad me gustaria no se conocer nueva gente, solo tener con quien platicar, literal mi celular suena por nortificaciones de que tengo que registrar mi linea y ya, xd, soy una perosna introvertida chistosa, medio feito, pero con un gran corazon, fuera de eso, si tu personita que esta por ahi en algun lado y ves este mensaje y te guatria no se platicar con alguein o algo, neta lo que sea, no dudes en escribirme, excelente tarde tengan y tomes awa lo queiro 😉