r/gayfriendfinder

36 looking to meet new people and make friends! Gamers?

36 looking to meet new people and make friends! Gamers?

Hit me up with any fun gaming recommendations. Haven’t gamed in forever. Curious if there are any good multiplayer online games?

u/Howl_Pendragon_989 — 5 hours ago
22 California singer seeking friends I'm just looking to make friends doesn't matter about age. I play video games, story/songwrite, sing/rap. I'm also big into fashion hmu if you wanna be friends.

22 California singer seeking friends I'm just looking to make friends doesn't matter about age. I play video games, story/songwrite, sing/rap. I'm also big into fashion hmu if you wanna be friends.

u/HunnyPiee — 5 hours ago
31 male from Germany looking for friends

31 male from Germany looking for friends

Hi guys. I am Pascal, a 31 year old gamer from Germany. I am happily married and are looking for friends to Play Games with, or just Chat. I really prefer some real Connection instead of texting and then not responding. If it does not click, just say so 😄

u/Butterfly_Witcher — 11 hours ago
23 years r old guy looking for people with similar interests
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23 years r old guy looking for people with similar interests

Hey y’all. Been wanting to expand my friend circle to include more gay bros. Never really had luck with having gay friends which sucks cause I’d love to have people to relate to on that level. I enjoy the outdoors, gym, cycling, cooking, languages, skiing, travelling. If I sound like your type of person, please hit me up. Would appreciate a pic so I know who I’m chatting with :)

u/Free-Surprise-211 — 9 hours ago
39, Happy Monday and beginning of the week. A fresh start for new beginnings and adventures. Small town VT guy here, happily partnered and looking to expand my very small friend group

39, Happy Monday and beginning of the week. A fresh start for new beginnings and adventures. Small town VT guy here, happily partnered and looking to expand my very small friend group

u/CopyFederal527 — 11 hours ago

[28 Australia] Nerdy biologist seeking friends

Hello from sunny Australia! Geeky guy seeking friends or more over here! I love to read, although these days I mostly read academic papers for my PhD work! Apart from that, I love meditating, gardening, thrift shopping, hiking, cooking, long walks, museums and puzzles. I like to think that I am a good listener and a supportive friend. So if you feel like we can be good friends, please reach out! Oh I love cats too! Attached is a pic of our friendly neighbourhood cat!

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u/Jolly-Proposal-8668 — 2 hours ago
22 m looking for new friends

22 m looking for new friends

I’m a 22 yo guy looking to make some new friends to talk to and chat with, I’m online quite a lot and love talking about almost anything. I’m a Pc gamer and mostly into shooters, sandboxes and simulators. As of recently I’ve been into Flight Simulator, Warhammer 40K space marine 2 and started playing Death Stranding 2 On The Beach

I’m also into science, reading, music (especially pop, jazz and musicals) and philosophy.(be around my age pls) Any nationality is fine as long as you speak english (my timezone is CET) P.S. If you play or are interested on playing Flight Simulator lemme know and I can teach you!

u/Mugdala5 — 3 hours ago
33 Any room here for small shy nerds?

33 Any room here for small shy nerds?

Hello!

It’s me! Coming all the way from Canada on this blustery Sunday evening!

Playing FFXIV until I pass out and hoping maybe there’s somebody to talk to!

Yesterday was leg day so I am very sore!

But I have snacks and games and my cats at least!

Gaymers, horror fans/reality tv nuts to the front of the line!

Tell me a little about you! What do you like?

u/Spookers93 — 20 hours ago
38 Melbourne, Australia. Looking for male mates for casual chats and activities around SE suburbs.

38 Melbourne, Australia. Looking for male mates for casual chats and activities around SE suburbs.

interests: Gaming, religion, philosophy, ADHD stuff, self growth and mental stimulation.

u/Talking-On-Mute — 20 hours ago

Private Discord for Geeky Gay Men (21+)

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If you’re a gay man who identifies more as an introvert and a geek than a "scene" person, this might be the space you’ve been looking for. We are an extremely small, tight-knit group currently looking to add a new face or two to our server.

We’ve built a high-trust, low-pressure environment where "candid" is the keyword. We talk about everything- love, relationships, tech, gaming, and life’s ups and downs. Because we’re all adults, that includes being able to discuss sex maturely—but to be clear, this is a friendship-first space, not a hookup-focused server.

What We’re Not About

Drama-Free Zone: We have zero patience for toxicity or big egos.

Not a hookup Space: If you’re looking for fast-paced party energy or a Grindr alternative, we won’t be the right fit.

No Lurkers: We don’t expect you to be on 24/7, but we are looking for guys who actually want to participate and be part of the family rather than just watching from the sidelines.

Who Should Join?

21+ only.

Geeky & Chill: Whether you’re into JRPGs, building PCs, or deep-diving into niche hobbies, you’ll fit right in.

Engaged: You’re someone with a fun, positive energy who plans to check in consistently and actually get to know people.

Since we’re keeping the numbers flex but small (around 10-15 total), we’re being selective to ensure the chemistry is right. Send a DM with:

A quick intro (what are you playing, watching, or working on lately?).

What you’re hoping to find in a small, private community like this.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/Wonderful-Visual-187 — 4 hours ago
27, Outdoor Explorer in the PNW

27, Outdoor Explorer in the PNW

Hello everyone! I'm just looking for friends around the PNW. I love the outdoors and exploration. I love animals, plants, and fungi. I have a passion for marinebiology. I would love to have an outdoor buddy. I am open water diver certified, who wants to join me? I also love hiking and fishing. I would love for someone to teach me how to hunt. I love finding animals and looking for mushrooms. I'll stop and admire plants amd moss. I enjoy the little things in life. I am open minded and trans friendly. I don't play a lot of videogames but I do really like Pokémon.

u/QuirkyCarnation — 9 hours ago
33 #Seattle Rock Climbing & Playing Lords of the Fallen (Souls-Like Game) with some Risk of Rain 2 on the Side

33 #Seattle Rock Climbing & Playing Lords of the Fallen (Souls-Like Game) with some Risk of Rain 2 on the Side

I just finished a rock climbing session. It counts towards my gym frequency per week. It has been a whole year since I’ve climbed so it’s great to get back going! I’m planning to do something hiking, paddle boarding, and biking this summer!

I just started lords of the fallen and I’ve been enjoying it!! I needed an Elden ring like souls game and forgot it was around. It was on sale for $10 so I figured why not. I finally beat the first boss which was annoy because I played the “condemned” and only had a broken sword to kick the boss’s butt with. I was going for a dex and likely radiance build so it’s a tricky start.

Loading up some more risk of rain 2 now. Just got one of the expansions.

Happy to always connect with like minded men who enjoy having conversations, engagement, hobby talk, but most importantly to me now is self growth and self improvement. Have a good weekend all!

u/Aulrik — 23 hours ago
34 UK - big lad on the lookout for laid back folk, maybe meets

34 UK - big lad on the lookout for laid back folk, maybe meets

Hey all,

Chubby bear checking in. On the lookout to make a new friend or two. I’m a bit of a gaymer and fairly new to reading for pleasure so any recommendations are great. I like to think I’m fairly conversational so if you’re the same then great! I don’t mind if your hobbies or interests are wildly different, I might just have to ask a question or two to learn more about it! 😃

Ideally looking for folks from the UK though big bonus if you’re Southeast/London way. Who knows, maybe if we hit it off we can grab a drink sometime.

Feel free to ping me a message.

u/LinenSkies — 22 hours ago
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