r/gaydating

Hi there!

I’m a 23-year-old guy living in Malden, MA. I’m currently an international student from China pursuing my Master’s in Computer Science (expected graduation in 2027). Since I’m planning to stay in the US and build my career here after graduation, I’m looking for someone to build a future with.

About Me:

* Physicals: 176cm (5'9"), 64.5kg (142 lbs), Vers.

* Personality: I’m a true ambivert. I have days where I’m a total homebody and can spend hours straight gaming (I love RPGs) or watching movies. But I also have an "extrovert" switch—I love the energy of a club, attending live concerts (big fan of Lorde and Lady Gaga as well as other female artists), or heading out for a long hike.

* Lifestyle: I hit the gym regularly and value fitness. I’m a non-smoker, don’t do drugs/weed, and I’m a very light social drinker.

* Flexibility: My program is remote-friendly, so I’m flexible with location, though I’m currently based in the Boston area. I’m open to an LDR if we have a solid plan to see each other—I’m looking for a real connection, not just a screen-to-screen relationship.

What I’m Looking For: I’m looking for someone who is emotionally available and ready for a long-term relationship. Ideally, you are:

* Established in the US: I’m specifically looking for someone who has a stable life here so we can plan a future together without the stress of geographic uncertainty.

* Grounded: You have a stable career and a clear sense of where you're going in life.

* Into Fitness: I’m naturally drawn to otters, jocks, or anyone who maintains an active lifestyle.

* Like-minded: A non-smoker who is drug-free.

* Ready for more: Someone who isn't afraid of long-term commitment.

If you’re looking for a partner who can be your gaming buddy one day and your plus-one at a concert or club the next, let’s chat! Please send a DM with a bit about yourself.

Hey, I’m Billy. I hope everyone is having a great spring.

I’m from a mid sized town between Memphis and Nashville. I’m a gardener so I love the outdoors and hiking/biking. I love to read with a few favorites being Ruth Rendell, Agatha Christie,Albee, and Ibsen.

I’m very involved with my family and have a niece and some half-siblings. I am an Episcopalian.

I’m looking for someone kind and stable with similar values. I really need that in my life at the moment.

I think I should also mention that I am a bottom.

Hi everyone im Tony, or Antony and im 35 turning 36 in July. Im a huge nerd/geek. I work for a video game company so I spend a lot of my time at the pc mostly playing games on the clock. Outside of gaming I was a chef for 12 years so I love to cook and bake. Reading would be another big passion as Im a huge fan of fantasy. Brandon Sanderson and Patrick Rothfuss are a couple of my favorite authors. Ive also recently really gotten into house plants, I feel like thats a coming of age thing for our community haha. Im a huge lover of animal care and animal rights and currently have 3 dogs, 2 aquariums and an ibera Greek tortoise but looking to add a couple poison dart frogs and some bearded dragons to the mix eventually. also currently trying to get back into shape so gym buddies are very welcome!

I just bought a house in Fort Wayne Indiana and moved here from Washington state so I really want to make some local friends to do things like go out to bars, movies, board games, food etc etc the normal friend things that I miss back in Seattle. I work from home so its been tough getting out enough to meet people organically.

If any of this interests you or you think wed be a good match id love to talk. As an FYI i will not respond to anyone without face pictures. thanks in advance for reading all of this

looking for a long term relationship! (into older guys 26-36/ into bears aswell)

need a very patient partner when it comes to time!

I am a very busy person especially when it comes to work since I take 2 shifts a day!

message me if interested and please don't waste my time!

thank you

Hello. Im a guy looking for a guy to chat with and seeing where things could go 

I'm originally from Mexico but living in the US. Just turned 26 days ago and I just graduated from college, so I'm figuring things out, any ideas? 

I'm currently working part-time and just finished two internships.

What I can say about myself is that I love reading, writing,listening to music, and watching Horror and Sci fi. I love taking care of myself physically and mentally (I hit the gym, do yoga, skincare). So, If all goes good, I can say I'm looking for something long term and serious with a masculine guy (I'm kind of a feminine guy, if that matters) who has academic and professional ambitions and goals in life and a similar healthy lifestyle and mindset.

BE around my age. Not into older or younger. Just good vibes :)

Dont dm if you won't bother to continue a conversation, cant carry basic talking, dont really know what you want, or ultimately ONLY WANT FUN.

PLEASE dont ask for my snapchat. Im a grown up and expect the same.

Include a Taco emoji  in your message. Hope to see you :)

Looking for a serious relationship!

About me: My name is Joey! I live in Colorado, and I am 27 years old. I’m a very quiet person at first, but once I get used to you, I’m somehow everyone’s favorite person ☺️ I love spending time with friends whether it’s going to the bar or doing something outdoors! I recently got into a fitness journey and so far I’ve lost 25lbs! My favorite hobbies are gaming on pc, hanging out with friends, working out, and Legos! I am not a lustful person, so if you’re just going to hmu for something other than a serious relationship, please do not, respectfully 😬 My plan in life right now is to get financially stable enough to possibly move to a different state. As much as I love Colorado, I would love to explore other places and experience different cultures!

My type: Please be around my age. I’ve only had 1 relationship so I’m still trying to figure out my type, but what I’ve noticed so far is I am attracted to sweet, innocent guys who typically have blonde hair, blue eyes. Nothing is a deal breaker for me tho!

I’m 26 years old and from London in the UK. I’m looking for a monogamous LTR! My main hobbies and interests are writing, politics, football, music, trains and food! I’m quite quirky but also a romantic soul, so would love someone who is down for that energy 🥰🥰🥰

Hey everyone, I am 18 years old fit guy looking for someone to date with. I would like a guy around my age looking good and being fit. I am going to gym and i like to travel a lot. 😝

if someone is interested, you can dm me with your photo and age 😌😌

Hello there.. It's me again Emerson.. I DIDN'T FIND ANY RELATIONSHIP YET... People are just messaging but will dissappear...IM am open for Long distance relationship..age doesn't matter...IM STILL LOOKING FOR YOU MR. RIGHT ONE..Hope I can find you here. Note that im not a transgender, I don't wanna change my body.. I AM A BOY AND I AM CONTENTED WITH IT...SOME PEOPLE SAY, I LOOK LIKE A GIRL, BUT WHO CAN LOVE ME TRULY? I DON'T HAVE ANY MUSCULAR BODY OR MASCULINE LOOKS TO BE FIT IN HERE.. BUT I STILL WANNA TRY AND SEE

32 and in Los Angeles here. Work in software sales. Driven, kind, and try my best to be as thoughtful as possible. Been told I can be the life of the party. In my downtime, love going on hikes, swimming, gaming, cooking, and try new restaurants. Hope to hear from you soon.

I posted here many times already.. Some people sent a message, but dissappeared...I don't wanna chase people anymore...Im tired...Again, Note : Im not a transgender, I don't wanna change my body, this is me, Im a boy, and im contented with it...

Hi everyone. I’m from Thailand and I’m interested in meeting someone older. I’m an average, fit guy and I’m usually more attracted to people who are also fit or average build.

A little about me,I enjoy reading, learning about technology and robotics, and listening to music. I can cook, and in the evenings I like cycling or jogging to relax. I also love traveling and try to travel at least once every 6 months because I enjoy seeing new places and experiencing different cultures.

I like people who are easygoing, respectful, and open-minded. Age isn’t a big problem for me as long as we get along well and have a good connection.

If you’re interested, feel free to send me a message. We can chat and share pic.