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M23 just had sex first time. Well there were no such complications, and the top enjoyed it. But, I don't know during that I just want it to end and did feel much pleasure (even tho after it ends felt relieved), rn there is a little bit of pain. Do anyone have any comments on this?

(We used protection and had safe sex)

Feels like I'm a burden for my family because I haven't achieve anything so far in my life and this keep always anxious and stress through out the year

Feel free to give an elaborated answer and also mention if you are a top or a bottom okay 👌

Do you know why ? Is it normal or not? Anyone who experience this

I'm 18m bi, I thought I was straight until my age of 10 or 9 prolly , but things started way before all that we are currently living in an X district this is my mom's place ( I meant this is the place where she horn and lived till marriage) before that we were staying on Y district it's a Muslim area we are Hindus ( it's doesn't matter btw ) I was so little like 4 or 5 or 6 years old my mom goes to neighbours house and she usually takes me too to there , and there was a guy he takes me into his room there was a computer and my mom and the neighbours family members thought it would be normal maybe to play like that but , the guy was watching porn and he takes his underwear off and makes me smell it and rubbs on me and even cums on me , I remember he cummed a lot literally like milk, I remember but idk what he was doing with me , and it continued nobody knows after that we came here on X district where we bought a house and I begun to make some friends here and one day I got a friend he was kinda nerd and weird , we friends talked about porn like ( xxx things ) and when he heard he started saying it's bad and all and then we get along like we become friends I used to go his home and I was like 10 and I had my mom's phone It was a 3 g or 4g I think network was available and porn was also and some elder guys taught me how to watch it via Google and delete search history and all , then with this guy I used to watch porn and one day me and him were alone on his home he gave me some food appam and egg curry , and after eating we went to kitchen and he told me to bend on the knees , I did and I saw his dick pointing out hard inside his shorts , he said to untie his shorts tie and I did and said to suck it , I was scared and disguisted at first and he was elder than me like 5 years older than me and I did what he told I did suck his dick and it was good I liked it and wanted it, and another day he did anal on me and one day he came to my home and , and he said to un dress I did , he wanted me to lie on bed I did , and jumb on top of me and begun to kiss and gave me a blow job and I also give and he started to fuck me and fuck it was good and he came and have me a facial , and after it suddenly he started ignoring my I tried to reconnect but he didn't and I forgot it and after that I forgot it I didn't know I was gay, and moved on I got a girlfriend had 3-4 relationship till my 10th just time pass like nothing serious and after 10 during my plus two I got a loving girlfriend sincere I like her , just these past memories and making me confuse ,what am I , bi ? Gay ? Straight idk ,

Idk the straight passing gays have it a lil easy.

I started meeting people in the hope of finding someone I can feel comfortable with, someone whose presence itself feels enough. Maybe it turns into love, maybe something long term, I am open to that.

But most people I connect with seem to be looking only for hookups or just experimenting, and sometimes not even really attracted to men. That is completely their choice and I am not judging anyone, but it is not what I want.

I want someone who is passionate, who accepts who they are, and is genuinely trying for something meaningful.

Grindr has not really worked for me so far.

I am not out publicly, so I am mostly trying to meet people online and then see where it goes. (Pune)

Not sure if I am approaching this the right way, but thought I would put it out here for suggestions from people with more or less similar situations.

Have u guys ever experienced this lol ?

so think i am really confused with my sexuality, for boys i like them sexually and romantically but when it comes to girls i don’t feel excited when i see them naked, i just love women probably more than men because they are more sensible and understanding than the men i have dealt till date

Idk twinks ,fem bois get more guys approaching them irl cause they look pretty and are flamboyant so it’s easy to assume their sexuality and shoot their shot but straight passing guys like unless they approach someone I don’t think they get approached 🤔 am I wrong??

Respect is non negotiable. You can't keep humiliating someone and then say "this is the way I speak. If you misunderstood me it's your problem." That's the definition of gas lighting. Nothing can be an excuse for lack of manners. When educated, behave like one. If you are sweet to strangers but not to someone you love, then you should ask yourself, if you are really being misunderstood. Own up and just say you messed up. We all mess up sometimes.