me personally i’d say i’ve found way more finsubs on reddit than any other app/website. i have twitter too but there’s soooo many scammers😭 which app works best for yall ?

As the title states, how much do you think the average Findom actually makes a month? Considering experience and effort?

Ofcourse this is gonna be dragged down if you include also those fakes/impersonator accounts, ignoring those. But it seems like even relatively small creators, like one I saw with about 10k followers on X and what seems like OF subs being in the 10-30's range and quite low effort if I dare say (reposting the same pics over and over, same ones on OF as X, seemingly using chatters for the OF as they are online all hours of the day constantly logging in and out).

Making just from throne about 2.5k$ in one month alone. Which really suprised me cause I thought it would be way lower. Is this more of an anomaly in your opinion or is this kinda success normal in this space?

Really curious what’s the highest amount you’ve ever received in one send? I’m inching my way closer to 4 digits in one send cant wait for the day hehehe. 🤭

would anyone wanna be moots or friends ? i’m a bit newer into the domme community and i am trans but i pride myself on being a girls girl and idk i think it would be cool :3 my dms are open so just say hi ! :D

edit: thank u so so so much to everyone who has commented and is commenting or dming !!! i appreciate it so much all of u are so beautiful and stunning <3
edit 2: if anyone makes a discord gc please lmk <3

I think it’s such a widely accepted fact that this kink is so addictive to subs but I never really see many discussions about those aspects from the Dommes side.

Obviously I want to clarify I know the two are not even remotely comparable in terms of damage or risk. Like it goes without saying that our addiction isn’t leading us to spend devastating amounts of capital and ruining our lives to anywhere near the same degree as it might for subs..

But when I’ve been deep in this addiction and not taking care of myself I’ve forgone sleep, I’ve skipped work, I’ve bailed from dates or events and had my interpersonal relationships damaged or straight up ruined. I’ve been fooled by manufactured intimacy and engaged in risky public behaviour.

Navigating the power of having someone’s livelihood in your hands and riding the highs and lows of that while needing to stay strictly disciplined and be the ethical enforcer of both parties boundaries and limits at all times is addictive. There’s such inconsistency to this kink that it feels like playing the casino but the rewards system hijack is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced.

I think maybe I’m just lamenting about why this kink manages to pull me back in every time I think I’ve moved away from it. It feels like something that’s always stirring behind the scenes..getting hungrier and stronger waiting to latch onto whatever it can and in certain moments it can feel like it’s all that matters. When it’s good it’s just so good and the endorphins of that is enough to sustain so much more energy than I think it’s even worth sometimes.

I think a lot of subs glamourise the experiences of dommes because they’ve grown just as cynical as we have and assume none of us could ever be as addicted..and while we certainly don’t suffer as much from it, and despite the standpoints we’re viewing it from- it’s still two sides of the same weird kinky insatiable coin.

If any other Dommes struggle with this I’m curious how you’ve implemented self-discipline to reduce it. I have a healthy set of boundaries and step away whenever I notice it starting..but it doesn’t stop the very real fact that it takes insane levels of control sometimes to execute that self-restraint.

Any Dommes play video games? I’ve been playing almost nothing but rivals recently loll

Im a Baby domme and wanted to know how long it took some of you dommes to find your paypigs?? Im not trying to rush the process i just would love to hear everyone's stories!

it’s a little groupchat i created from an engagement groupchat bc some of the folks in there were newer! so if you’re newer &

age verified

& wanna join just lmk! ✨

Curious to if dommes know what their subs look like or if it remains a mystery lol?

Ok this might be a really silly question but what would you guys say is the typical age (or age range) of subs on here?

I find its mostly men in their 30s though I have had a female sub (idk how old) and one in his 20s

Being 18 I honestly have no problem with the age gap between me and my subs, I love it actually I feel so much more powerful having men double my age reporting back to me, but I would also really love to have a sub around the same age as me (like younger 20s) and Id love more female subs!

Idk just wanted to ask about the diversity of subs you guys have interacted with! Because I tend to see a pretty strong pattern!!

Maybe this is oddly specific but I’ve noticed I’m way more into subs who are accomplished/intelligent in real life. Lawyers, doctors, engineers, finance guys, professors, etc.

I think part of it is because I’m also a professional woman, and realistically because of my age/race I’m not exactly the type people expect to have that kind of influence over men in those positions. Half the time I’m not even taken seriously in my own field despite having multiple degrees, so there’s something very satisfying about the contrast.

Like being underestimated at work, then logging on and having highly successful men completely fold for you mentally is kind of insane when you think about it lol.

Also I like being able to actually talk to someone outside of the dynamic. Intelligence makes everything better.