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I’d like to understand the perspective of someone who may have immediately jumped into another relationship straight after a breakup.

Did you regret it? Did it actually help you to move on or did it make it worse? Did it last? Would love to hear what some people say.

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u/FeedbackOk6635 — 8 days ago

Hello! Im 29 Irish female, based in Melbourne. I downloaded this app last week and ive had more offers for fwb than I have on hinge or tinder? The app has sold the idea that a large % of people are there for a “serious relationship”, so whats going on? Soo many mens profiles also dont include that info. It just seems like another app that will mess with your head thanks to the algorithm! Im quite shocked at how it is. Has anyone else experienced this?

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u/Fun-Mobile4587 — 10 days ago

I just joined CMB this week. I'm a 49F and don't quite understand the mechanism: I seem to have a list of "suggested" people (currently 17 of them) plus a list of "liked you" (currently about 45) and then a blank "discover" button and blank "chat" section. Am I supposed to like the "suggested" men?

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u/AttorneyDC06 — 13 days ago

Hi everyone~ I’d really like to meet a good person, but with the basic features, it feels hard to make choices. It says I’ve received over 4k likes, but I’m not even sure if that’s real. I’m worried that even if I pay for the app, there might not be much difference..? It’s a hassle to sign up for other apps, and from my short experience, I kind of like CMB. For women who are paid users, are you satisfied?

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u/PlanktonGreat3168 — 12 days ago

I’ve been on this app for about 3 weeks now, and I’m starting to feel confused. I’ve talked to around five different men, and oddly, they all seem to be from Sunway University or Nanyang University (?). They also have very similar hobbies, and even the way they answer questions feels patterned almost the same. Feels like talking to an AI.

What’s also strange is that after we move to WhatsApp, they suddenly leave or unmatch on CMB. They also send photos that seem real, like foods they have and their activities during the day, so I’m not sure what to make of it.

Is this just a coincidence, or is something off here?
Have you experienced this too?
Could these be fake accounts or bots?

I’m not sure if I’m overthinking it, but it’s starting to feel strange. What do you think?

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u/Minimum-Yard-2247 — 11 days ago