r/casualjordan

هو عرفت انها طخ حكي بس ما عرفت شو ارد او حتى شو معناها 😀

اهلا انا جايه من السعودية وابغى تقترحون لي بليز اسواق واماكن حلوة بعمان

علمًا بان هذي مو اول زياره هنا يعني مابغى اشياء بديهية مثل البلد

ونقطة ثانية انا عمري ٢٣ وجايه مع امي وابوي يعني لابأس من اقتراح اسواق شعبية وكذا يستمتعون فيها اهلي وايضا اماكن ممتعه لي مثل الصويفية village وكذا

وبس ولله ماودي اطول عليكم الله يسعدكم

I know the answers will differ, but I’m curious to see what kind of things make different kinds of people feel seen and understood

اكتر من موقف مختلف سواء كان في حديث/علاقة او حديث قليل

بلاقي انه ضل عندها التشات

Is there a specific reason,

حتى الغريب انه يكون مافي اشي حرفيا بيننا مجرد كلام قليل

بدي حل لنحافة لو ازيد كل شهر ٧ كيلو يااريت حدا جرب اشي وزبط معو ايفيدنا

كيف ممكن اغير صفات توكسك موجوده فيي، لاني حاسه انو هاي الصفات بلشت تأثر عالي حوالي. انا حرفياً بحاول اكون احسن بس مش عارفه كيف، صار معي مواقف قبل هيك كتير traumatizing بصراحة كنت مفكره اني تخطيت و هيك بس فيه كتير شغلات triggering بتخليني ارجع لold patterns، و هاد الموضوع قاعد بخربلي علاقاتي

idk if being self aware makes it better or worse but I

genuinely genuinly need help, i wanna be better

صار تقريبا سنة او اقل وانا احاول ألاقي شخص من الاردن او من سوريا حتى اتعرف عليه ونصير اصدقاء اعرف ممكن راح تستغرب.. اني من العراق مو من الاردن بس كمية الحب والتقدير والمحبة للشعب الاردني بالنسبة الي كلش كبير.. فـ صراحةً نشرت هنا حتى احاول ان اشوف شخص من الاردن يصير صديقي.. تحياتي لكم النشامى ❤️❤️🇯🇴

(بشرط لاتذكرني بمباراة كاس اسيا)

انا امن سيبراني

Salam

So i am currently 28 trying to get married and looking around for the right one , but i have concerns about my job, so i am a civil engineer and i am wondering what would my future wife think about me being at site working for late hrs since i am a site engineer , i have to say that i am very loving and always looking to spend time with loved ones but the time in this job kills me x.x so i wanna hear about that from my fellow women here.

I need honest outside opinions on a friendship situation because I feel like I’m going crazy trying to figure out if I’m the problem or not.

I met this girl at the beginning of the university year (we’re both in medicine). At first, I didn’t feel like our personalities matched much—she talks a lot about herself and often says things like every guy is staring at her or likes her, which honestly doesn’t seem true. But I didn’t mind in the beginning because I didn’t have other friends in my major yet.

Over time, we got closer. She can be really fun, funny, and thoughtful (for example, she planned a birthday surprise for me even though it was our first year being friends). So it’s not all bad.

But there are things that keep happening that are really starting to bother me:

She randomly switches moods out of nowhere. Like we’d be completely fine, then suddenly she goes quiet, walks away, stops talking, and acts cold with no explanation.

Instead of addressing issues directly, she says indirect things that feel like shade. For example, recently she said something like “I decided I’m not giving anyone chances anymore… even if it’s my closest friend” while we were sitting together, which felt very targeted but not said directly to me.

She once texted me out of nowhere saying she “can’t be my friend anymore” because I don’t trust her. This was triggered by something really small—I had removed my Instagram highlights (because of Ramadan and the music on them), and she interpreted that as me hiding something from her. When I questioned it, she said she was “just kidding,” but it didn’t feel like a joke at all.

She seems to build ideas in her head without actually talking to me, then acts based on that.

On my side:

I’ve helped her a lot (academically and socially, since she came as an international student and didn’t know many people)

I usually go along with her stories and don’t confront her just to keep things peaceful

The biggest issue is how I feel after spending time with her:

I feel drained, tense, and like I have to analyze everything she said or did. It doesn’t feel relaxed or safe.

At the same time, I still have several years left in this major, and she’s currently in my group for a project with other medicine students, so I don’t want to create drama or make things awkward long-term.

So I’m genuinely asking:

Am I overreacting or is this behavior actually unhealthy?

Is this something worth addressing directly, or is it better to just distance myself quietly?

Has anyone dealt with someone like this before?

الغير مستعد يتألم عشان يصير سعيد, ما راح يصير سعيد

برضو اكثر شغلة فعلا بتأثر بحياة الانسان هي لما يشغل وقته لهدفه وحلمه

نشوة الالم اعظم من اي ريلز او عادات سيئة او اضاعة وقت عالتليفون "ما بقصد تعيش بدون سعادة او تحترق نفسيا"

لما احارب حالي رغم الصداع والتشتت والملل عشان ادرس واخلص المطلوب "خاصة اني شخص عندي رهاب من الدراسة", ولما احارب حالي اني ما استعمل التليفون بشكل عشوائي عشان ما اتعود على سعادة لحظية

اسوأ عدو للانسان بهاي الحياة هو عقليته ثم الناس ومرات الناس بتخلي اعقل انسان ينهار

اضخم حروبنا هي مع حالنا واحنا بنحارب عشان بس نروح للدوام او نمسك الكتاب او نحاول ندرس بدون ما نمسك تليفون ونتشتت

So2al i feel like im the only one

ايش بتعرفو موقع Kamofex الي جربو يحكيلي عن تجربتو آمن ولا لا؟ الموجود فيه كذب ولا لا؟

وكيف طريقة السحب منو