r/antisex

Bodily fluids, in general, and semen, in particular, are beyond disgusting. Imagine how fucked up in the head you must be to let semen contaminate you, let a dirty dick cum in you, and get ravaged by childbirth. And I don't care that most people do that, when you think about it, it's beyond horrifying. Yuck. I've always been disgusted by semen. I have to admit that when I talk to other married women, when they open up, they admit that they're more or less disgusted by their dirty husbands' penises.

And i’m tired of people telling us it can.
Libfems trying to claim sexual revolution or gaslight themselves into thinking this is okay is making it worse.

I think a lot of people are just disconnected or have some sort of sexual trauma they aren’t processing and using porn as a cope. just like some people who claim it’s empowering to reenact their sexual abuse with bdsm to not feel like victims. Reclaiming their abuse or trauma in a way. I believe a libfems have the same attitude wrt to porn. If they admited porn is a representation of women’s second class citizen status in society, then it would force them to realize they can never be truly liberated and that the act of sex in itself is an extension of women’s lower status. it‘s too much of a mindf*k (no pun intended). So they’d rather try to make it into something else to make the most out of an already messed up situation.

even on reddit there are subs where they trying to share « women friendly porn in response to all the claims that porn is unethical. I have a hard time thinking these aren’t bots, they sound like it.

Most people see eachother as transactions, you have this body, I have this body, we get together because of that. WEIRD. That's what matters to you? how you look to one another?

Sexuality is bad regardless if the society in which it exists is sexualized or pornified. Sex makes people extremely self centered and just plain weird and shallow.

Am I being too mean?

Title typo: as A piece of meat

I’m being serious It’s such a childish mindset
Pretty body equals falling in love

the People who get googly eyes for other people who have nice bodies have a very childish mindset about love

You know what I like
I like communication I like knowing what they have in their heart mine and soul that’s what I like that’s not a childish mindset it’s the correct way to love

And people say oh you’re demisexual that’s ridiculous nonsense Why in the flipping flapjacks do I need a special word for the right way to love it’s the grown-up way the right way that everyone should learn and adapt to
Don’t get attracted to bodies that’s lust
Attraction should grow over time

Something that frustrates me in progressive spaces is the entitlement use of language when it comes to sexual desires and relating that to being an animal. This also exists in conservative spaces even if the inherent perspectives seem different, they really aren’t.

I see it, hear about it, read it practically everywhere. What differentiates other animals from human beings? It should be obvious and blatantly clear that the difference is massive, but for some reason when it comes to sexual behavior all common sense flies out the window.

The commonality between how both conservative and progressive people talk about these sexual tendencies waters down to excusing how violent sexuality is in its “nature” and who that applies to, men. I’ve heard it before, many others probably have too, that men specifically, being entirely different creatures that cannot fathom the concept of consent and non violent behavior when it comes to how they see sex. Progressive people think their views are different because they just accept how it is and normalize kinks (which majorly just tread the thin line between consent and rape) even though they hold up the same conservative view of the “inherent” power play when it comes to being dominant vs submissive (aka the one being degraded, usually associated with femininity).

This goes onto normalizing rape culture whether they want to accept it or not. How often do you hear about sex being something that women have to give to men because they can’t live without it unlike women who apparently cannot have the same level of sexual desire? Because I’ve heard that my whole life. The reality is this all an excuse to further degrade sex and the submissive group associated with the act. Morality, cognitive abilities, self awareness, all things that make up a human being are completely ignored to defend the disgusting viewpoint of sex and the continuation of normalizing inhumane treatment.

The common concept of masculinizing rape culture as if it’s a natural masculine tendency is widely accepted everywhere you look. It’s why being a victim of it is associated with femininity, the obvious is that men can be victims as well, just like women can be perpetrators, it’s just not as common because rape culture is highly masculinized and excused as something that’s naturally occurring and we just have to accept it. At that point you might as well believe rape is something natural and the concept of consent and the cognitive ability to see it as otherwise is inhumane.

People that aren’t interested in sex aren’t even acknowledged to exist yet they do, same with people that aren’t interested in reproducing, sometimes even naturally not being able to reproduce in the first place but that’s when unethical means to tread with obvious nature come into light, like IVF. How can I be convinced that this is a natural desire when those perspectives and naturally occurring experiences exist? It’s human greed, not nature. The world’s conviction of the desperation for sex and reproduction has been ingrained too deeply for the damage to be reversed. Seeing the obvious association with degradation and humility should be enough of a reason to not have any “natural” instinct to participate. The dehumanization of this belief to water down rape to nature is gonna result in an already existing downfall yet there’s always gonna be brainwashing to continue and accept your inherent worthless value despite your human ability to achieve more.

Are “happy couples” truly happy as long as they live in this kind of society? Is the conviction that a man’s sexual desire is uncontrollable and needs letting out whether the other person is willing to participate or not healthy? Is the conviction that women don’t have a sexual desire to begin with but have to put up with a sociality engrained humiliating role because she’s only worth her womb healthy?

This isn’t even all that different when it comes to non heterosexual relationships either, one is gonna be feminized whether they like it or not and therefore degraded, the other will have the power and their relationship will water down to their roles in the bedroom. The unacceptance of those relationships comes from the widely agreed upon humiliating relation to femininity, the sheer sexualization of it all is what causes the disdain, it’s all connected and it’ll always be connected, it’s why the most unfathomable relationships to exist are ones between two women, the most insulting role that can be assigned. No amount of “progression” will erase the damage when it’s not all that different from tradition. The desperation to sell you the idea that you as a human being have one and only use, belittling you into a senseless creature without an individual mind.

I’m seeing a lot of post of women saying that male penises are disgusting terrible reproduction organs and Fine you know that’s your opinion

As a gay man who has no interest in women I think the reproduction organs of a girl are absolutely unsettling and horrifying

To imagine what it’s made for to bring out life and when I was like 17 the school showed me a video of a baby head popping out of the vagina its like something out of a horror movie
It made me gag
It looks like a wound in the body like someone took a knife, jammed it in there and then pulled it out
And it’s kind of terrifying to think that it bleeds too

^ does this make me sexist to think like this
I seen girls literally be happy about men who want to cut off their own dicks

So I truly believe I have the right to this opinion

I mean, I hope I do I don’t see anything wrong about me not liking the girl anatomy