r/VictimsSupportIndia

I'm 22(F) now , when I was 14-F yr old I was in a relationship with a 21-M yr old guy who was in college. The relationship continued for 5 years. He was preparing for IIM while doing his job, just before getting into one of the top three IIM after three attempts, he left me , technically made me leave him by constantly insulting me, breaking my confidence and talking about losing his chance with better girls in life because of me. I broke up because of the disrespect. Two months later, he moved on to a new girl, she was the HR of his company. They got physical within a month of relationship (which I didn't in 5 years cause obviously I was a teenager) and started a live in relationship. After 6 months of their relationship he came back to me saying he misses me and all, we stayed in touch , got romantic and even was about to be back again when I got to know about his new girlfriend from him only (the audacity), sometimes I regret not telling this to his gf but maybe she deserves it cause she was also not hesitant to get in relationship within a month or two with a guy who just broke up from a 5 year relationship or may be they cheated when he was with me who knows, he started behaving weird just about the time she joined his office.

Three years later in 2026, he is earning in lakhs, living the life, with his HR gf of three years while I am here who achieved nothing in life and wasted 5 years of my prime years in relationship. tl;dr I would advice young people to not waste your time in relationship, real world is cruel so it is better to have self respect, self love and work on yourself.

My husband used to rape me, so my parents brought me home and now they are hitting me, kicking me torturing me. Please help me. They have confiscated my money and cards and are hitting me non-stop, I am bleeding. I tried to call the police, they took the phone and started calling me mad. My hand is full of bruises.

Hello i am 17 male

My dad has been abusing my mom since their marrige she is completly broken he broke all of her relationship from her realtives and she had to do it because of fear there hasn't been a single day that i didnt worry that he might kill her from the assault

A few days ago when he was beating my mom i just coudnt bear anymore she usually locks me up when that shit happens but she didnt that day when i saw him hitting her i just coudnt stop and push him away and punch him my mom got scared and said "tereko meri kasam mai marjaungi papa ko chod" in a really scared voice then he beated me for 10-15 minutes i could have died i think when i tell my mom lets go to police she threaten me she will commit suicide the moment i file a complain i am way too lost what to do but life just cant go on like this i have a little sister she is 13 he also hitted her when i was on the ground please if anyone can help in any kind of legal way please tell i will repay you by doing anything please give me some lawful advice.....i dont have any friends beacuse he never lets me out of home and when i was at school i didnt talk to anyone because i was way too worried about my sister and mother

Sorry for being so vague but i just cant write 17 years of trauma on a single post please help me please

This post is going to be a little long however, I wish to have some suggestions and legal advice as a close friend of mine is going through a lot of mental abuse and manipulation in the hands of his mother.

They belong from Pune currently staying at Dahisar, Mumbai and his parents divorced when he was a 5 year old, as per his words his mother had been the best and took all efforts to bring him up at times even working at far off places. However, since 2012 her nature has changed by 180 degrees and she has been monitoring and controlling every movement of his including who he is friends with and who he hangs out with. My friend has no one called family so friends are his only way out to have people to rely on. But his mother creates such scenarios and insults them to the point that they become bound to leave him. She has openly said that she will forever control his life and never let anyone else come near him as she is his mother and he should always pay attention to her and her only!

Not only that, she is never perpetually satisfied with all he does for her including being a responsible son, taking loans to take her on trips every year, buying anything she wants (including a flat in Pune when he had very less income and investing such a huge money was sort of a disastrous decision). She always has this mentality that everyone around including her son is trying to harm her (possibly an effect of watching too many crime series). Off late she has started accusing him of monetarily draining him (kindly note she doesn’t contribute anything to the monthly expenses and even takes away the rent that comes from her own flat and her son’s flat).

Another point she fights about with him is that he doesn’t wish to get married as he identifies as asexual and doesn’t wish to spoil a girl’s life and his own life as well. She has gone to the extent of calling him a hijra, and suggested him to try prostitution along with his friends to earn extra money when he asked her to contribute financially as he was running on a tight budget. She plays victim by saying that she has raised him all alone, paid for his education and that now she is also a senior citizen. She even threatens to do something to herself and write a note falsely accusing him of harming her as according to her Indian laws will never listen to the son’s side since she is a woman and that too a senior citizen.

Oh btw that lady has multiple FIRs in her name from her neighbours, her own mother and the place where she worked previously. She also says racist things about certain communities like Bengalis and Buddhists (Jai Bheem) people as according to her some psychiatrist (she isn’t ready to tell us the name of the psychiatrist) has asked her to never trust the Bengalis, Muslims, Christians and and people from the Jai Bheem faith. My friend has all her messages where she has written all sorts of hurtful abuses and curses and calls recorded but he is unable to take a step further as he looks forward to having some legal suggestions to be able to take a next step. He tried being a good son but her recent actions have gone beyond tolerance and he is afraid that she might try to harm him.

Requesting suggestions or advice on this as I am scared for my friend’s safety and mental well being. The torture has gone to such extent that he is losing focus from his job and unable to think straight.

I'm in my 2nd year of law school and honestly it's been very emotionally taxing for me. I loved reading which is why I wanted to study law, but then I started making sense of things that happened with me and now I feel shattered to the point nothing in my life makes sense anymore.