r/ThirtiesKolkata

Ei muhurte Bengal e nei but somehow mon ta election ei pore ache, ami konodin e politics niye interested na but jnina kno ebr mne hche amr class X result berobe kal janina apnara kmn feel korchen

Ami bengal er baire tao clg jete iche krchena jara bengal e ache tader ki obstha k jane

Prothomei bole rakhi ami konodin e tmc supporter na vote krte jaini kolkata but tmc supporter noi ebong ami khub e khusi Bjp jiteche but somehow kothao ekta kharap lagche Mamata Banerjee r kalker late night video ta dekhe jekane uni blchen onake dhaka mereche jani hoito segulo o mithe but onake dekhe kharap lagche mne hche karor songsar bhenge gelo tai ektu confused r ki

Let's discuss our biggest passion today. For me, it's the stock market (trading, analysis, investing everything) and travel.

So tmc supporters der kmn lagche

ami recently isc pass korechui with

maths 98

accounts 99

economics 91

stats 93

keu amake plz suggest krben kon clg e pora better hbe ami economics niye porte chai Ju or presi or xaviers

One of the greatest psychological manipulations ever done to humanity was convincing people that life is a race.

The moment a child is born, comparison begins.
Who walks first.
Who studies better.
Who earns more.
Who becomes “successful”.

And slowly, human beings stop living naturally and start functioning mechanically.

School starts measuring us through marks.
College through rankings.
Jobs through salaries.
Society through status.

And after years of this conditioning, comparison becomes automatic. So deeply rooted that people don’t even realise they are living through borrowed definitions of success.

Yes, life is a battle.
But I don’t think the battle is against each other.

The real battle is within ourselves.
Against fear.
Against ego.
Against insecurity.
Against loneliness.
Against suffering.

Others are not enemies. They are fellow humans fighting their own invisible battles.

What feels strange to me is how people compete with each other endlessly, yet also seek love, validation, friendship and connection from the same people. Somewhere along the way, respect, compassion and camaraderie started deteriorating under this obsession of “getting ahead”.

We created systems to measure performance and then accidentally started measuring human worth through them.

A salary cannot measure wisdom.
A degree cannot measure awareness.
A social image cannot measure peace.

And honestly, I don’t think life has some final destination where the universe hands you a report card for performance review.

There is no ultimate scoreboard.
No finish line where everything suddenly makes sense.

Life is not something to win.
It is something to experience before it ends.

I have seen in other 30s sub from Bangalore and Mumbai people meet up to connect and have a good time. No uncomfortable stuff, it can be a lunch, gaming, reading together, photo walks etc. Have we ever done that ?