r/TamilQueers

Hiiiii I’m 21F. Since school, I’ve known that I’m attracted to both girls and boys. For a long time, I kept confusing myself because I was still very much attracted to boys, so I tried convincing myself that my attraction was just a phase.

I’ve been trying to accept myself but it’s honestly been difficult. There was a period where I tried to convince myself it was a phase since I was still very much attracted to boys(I was still very young). The people around me have also not made it easy for me to accept myself. I am very afraid of dating a girl and have kinda tried to repress that part of me but sometimes I become selfish and dream of a future where I can love whoever I want. I see few people being very confident and open abt their sexuality. I want that for myself, but I feel like I lack the courage to actually take the first step.

Idk what to do honestly 🚶‍♀️

wish I could have real gay friends in real life . the fact that I'm stu- dying in the medical school most of the gay guys closeted and have gf . so I don't fuck with them . it's not about having a sex with people or something, it's just wish I could have the people to connect with it's making a big toll on my mental health being surrounded by homophobia and pretend like I'm straight 😭. idk 😶

Who's up? Be below 22-23 🫃🫃🫃

I quit going on discord around 2024 because i felt like I was getting too old for it and i already had plenty queer friends. But, now that I'm in college, it's incredibly hard to find openly queer people and it's harder to find spaces online.
So, I've been thinking of making a discord group dedicated to queer tamil people. Let me know if yall are interested or if it is even worth making onee

it's scary to come out for safety reasons. is there any secret signature or anything we have to identify our community? i feel like everyone knows the rainbow flag or emoji lately, is there anything other than those?