r/Sfax

n7eb el liste mta3 el blayes elli nejmou neshrou fihom el kol , a5ta les restaurants mta3 zgal3iya wel mafra5 , bien sur 7aja bel alchool , mouch soft , kll chay les restaurants , les hotels , les bars ! your best places , quoi

ou 2eme probleme , kifeh tnejjem trawa7 fellil wel we7ed bel3ou, setta zit , fammech concept kima el uber ? à part les taxis ou les amis

I don’t know if it was only me, but growing up in Sfax, talking to a girl you liked felt very difficult.

Not because girls were impossible, but because the whole environment made it feel heavy. You start thinking: what if she rejects me? What if her family would never accept me? What if I’m not stable enough, not mezyen enough, not rich enough, not “ready” enough? So you stay silent. You act normal. You do nothing. And years later, you realize maybe it was not even rejection , maybe it was just fear, or other things!

The strange part is that many of the guys who felt “not enough” back then are actually successful today. They built careers, left the country, became stable, made money, became much more confident. So you look back and think: maybe the problem was never who we were, but how early we judged ourselves.

And honestly, I think another part of it was the mindset of that generation. In our heads, the number of “beautiful” or “special” girls felt very limited, so the competition looked insane. Everyone liked the same few girls, everyone thought he had no chance, and that made the fear even bigger.

I never “sou7ebt” in the Sfaxian edition before my 20s😅 Sometimes I wonder if I missed something, or if many people lived the exact same thing but nobody talks about it.

So I wonder: in Sfax, how many stories died before they even started?

Mafhemtech, Ye5i mafama 7atta kteb, catalogue, walla 7keya mta3 el mekla sfaxiya ? a zebbi

Lawejt barcha, 7atta fel ma3radh mta3 el kiteb, w ma l9itech 7aja behya tjama3 el patrimoine hedha: bezin, 7lelem, charmoula, couscous bel sbres, dawara, mfawer, 9leya, besbes, mray9a, laklouka…
Moch juste esm plat. Lezem recettes, histoires, saisons, mounesbet, 3lech yettaybou, wa9tech, w chnowa el 7keya eli warahom. 7ajet mawjouda fi mémoire mta3 sfexiya , quoi

L'autre problème :

Taw zebbi marra feyta fel mall , mchit lel 7anout walla bazar walla mana3rafch chisamiwouh elli ybi3 el fazet el traditionelle twensa louta, 9oltelha a3tini 7keya 3ala sfax , 9atli la na7na nbi3ou ken mta3 nebel , a zebbi !
na7na fi sfax walla nabel !

Dort el 3alem el koll, 3omri ma rit blasa tbi3 “souvenirs traditionnels” mta3 blayes o5rin.
7atta el faza el sghira eli tetlassa9 fel frigidére, magnet wala 7aja symbolique, mafamech. Literally, not a single proper Sfaxien product.

Sfax 3andha histoire, mekla, b7ar, west lebled, chaffar, commerce, Kerkennah vibe, 3aylet, artisanat, mémoire… ama marketing zéro. W ba3d nesta8rbou 3lech la3bed ma ta3rafch chnowa Sfax

Met a guy recently through a mutual friend. We’ve been spending time together, mostly playing video games, and it turned into mutual feelings.

The issue is that he is from a big , well known family in Sfax, and I’m from Mednine. I’m already thinking about walking away early because I expect problems. Even if he accepts me, I’m concerned his family won’t, or that I’ll end up feeling out of place or judged if things get serious.

Looking for perspectives from people who’ve dealt with regional/family differences like this or sfaxian peoplein general. Did it become a real issue long-term or not?

I went to Sfax for the first time in my life recently, and honestly… I didn’t expect to leave with a crush. 😅

I met this girl in a coffee shop while she was studying. I asked her if she knew any nice places to hang out around the city, and she was incredibly friendly and kind from the very first minute , and she really got me was the way she spoke and accent was absolutely captivating to me 🥰

Anyway, we exchanged Instagram accounts and kept talking a bit, but now I don’t really know what to do next. I’d really like to see her again… but I live around 300 km away...

The thing is, her family is pretty conservative, so she probably could only meet for 1 or 2 hours at most. And now I’m wondering: would it be crazy to drive 300 km just to spend such a short time together?

If you were in my place, would you go for it, or do you think I’m getting too invested for what might just be a simple crush?

bellehy nheb neseel yekhi ibis yenjah lel first date ?? yanni juste petit déj wle ftour wkadeh yelzmni budget

عندي 5 اشهر نلوج فين نسكن في صفاقس و حرفيا عجزت على ايجاد حل مناسب.

في البداية قلت نسكن وحدي تو نلقى ستيديو صغير على قدي حتى بيت و كوجينة كهو يكون قريب لوسط البلاد فين نخدم لكن ما راعني الا انو لقيت روحي نطلب في المستحيل تقريبا. 99% من شقق وسط البلاد باختلاف مكوناتها و مواقعها يا اما معدة للكراء بالليلة او كاريينها للحاكم و للجيش و تلقاه بالاص كامل يغلي بالسهريات و القعدات.

برا قلت نلوج البرا شوية من البلاد كيما نقولو كلم1 في اي طريق. بكلهم للكراء بالليلة ولا ديار كبيرة.

نزيد نبعد شوية نلقى كريات في حوم شعبية ما نعرفهاش و ما انجمش نطمان فيها وحدي.

مشكلة حقيقية ظهرتلي بالرغم الجميع يؤكد لي صفاقس بلاد مرفقة و تنجم تعيش بالقليل.

شكون عندو فكرة ينجم يعاون بيها ولا يعرف ستيديو صغير لشخص واحد في مكان آمن سواء بالأثاث أو بدونه؟ أو يعرف واحد كاري وحدو و عندو بيت فاضية يحب شكون معاه اما راني رافض بالمطلق بيت مشتركة او نكري بيت وسط دار و تبقى كوجينة و توالات مشتركة.

انتهت حلول الارض توا مزال كان ريديت هاو نجربو. بالله اي سمسار يقرى في البوست متاعي يتجاوز و يتعدى على نفسو لأني منيش ناقص سماسرة في حياتي يتحيلو عليا. راسي شاب منكم.

Fammechi macheri3 , jme3et el barra ennejmou m'investiw fehom , A part annek techri ardh Walla dar ou tekriha , ( macheri3 mayzidou chay el Sfax ) , ou bien sûr hakka 7keya , mafihech barcha investissement mta3 wa9t , 7it sokna le barra nawrouni bel les idées ? 🙏

L'objectif houwa annou el we7ed ken y7eb yarja3 nhar e5or , tkounlou mawled rez9 , ou 7aja t5alli ello chabeb ta3mel el pas mta3 el mo7wel

Ma t7achmouch ma t7chmouch dar darkom rahou🙃

8bt 5 days w matfkartounich lmarra lo5ra pos kml lmarra he4i 7atta coment la rabi yhdikom he4ka lwe7d chy9oul wallh.

Si non ch7alkom

Chabeb ay na3mlou group messanger w Ila insta w na7kew FIH blbehi