r/Sagittarians

Ok coming from a cap F, if anyone is curious.

Sag ladies- you are great people, you have that sag energy, it’s fun, you’re fun and I love being around you. Never met one I didn’t like.

The men. Ok,still appreciate the sag energy. But some of them have this quality, where they do whatever they want and it LOOKS like they’re using people for whatever their goal is.

Why I say LOOKS like:I’ve observed that they might not be consciously doing it in malice. But they lack care! They can hurt someone and not even give a dam. And still get their way.

BUT If you use someone and lack care (consciously or not) that’s the definition of using people.

That’s how they get their way, that’s the whole scheme. But if you call them out- they will protect themselves so hard or cut you off saying “that’s none of your business”

So I just don’t get into dialog of that sort with them. I just feel bad for the injustice they’ve caused others.

They also like to do/say something mean for their own amusement and then laugh in your face about it when you show sadness

Coming from an Aquarius…

OP is 25F - saggi. Has had on off contacts (ldr) with leo M. He loves her, and makes a lotta promises, and tada dissappears until he's back again (typical love bombing). He's also very possessive (also very leo-ish). OP also has infrequent contacts with saggi male. They just hit off with similar interests but both are introverts so shyt isnt going much further. OP is confused between the two lol.

I matched with a girl on hinge a few weeks ago and we were speaking till she invited me on a night out in her city. I tried keeping up with her but I blacked out. Before coming I told her I tend to take it too far sometimes and she told me I can take it as far as I want but she has to get me back in one piece. A lot happened, I tried to ring the police on her because I lost her so many times (although this she later joked about) and the whole night was just a mess and I don’t remember half of it. We ran into one of her ex situationship, who was helping me look for her when lost.

When I finally found the girl I came with her and her friends started shouting at her because I was outside upset that id lost her. Her and her ex were stood to the side for about 20 minutes speaking in private and when I tried to go to them they told me to go back. She later told me I was sick in her bed and we slept in it which I feel even worse about. When we got back to hers we still got intimate i remember that but in the morning she didn’t kiss me or even hug me. She told me to make sure i had everything and didn’t even walk me out.

Before we left to the club she asked if I fancied her and would want to see her again so I flipped the question and she said yes. I said yes because I knew already I fancied her. But after I left, she messaged me almost immediately asking if I was okay and we had a little conversation. It was till I asked if she’s feeling better she said she’s going out again and told me I thew up all over her bed..I thought this was her way of trying to shut me down so I apologised but all she said it’s fine. I mentioned I still had her necklace and would send it to her and asked her for her address. I realised after I left some stuff at here too but she never mentioned them so now I feel stupid for mentioning the necklace. She left me on delivered for 20 hours and when she replied she just put nice one and sent the address, I left this on open. I really did like her and I thought she did too but i understand the night would’ve put her off, do you guys think there’s any coming back from this ?