Observation
Ok coming from a cap F, if anyone is curious.
Sag ladies- you are great people, you have that sag energy, it’s fun, you’re fun and I love being around you. Never met one I didn’t like.
The men. Ok,still appreciate the sag energy. But some of them have this quality, where they do whatever they want and it LOOKS like they’re using people for whatever their goal is.
Why I say LOOKS like:I’ve observed that they might not be consciously doing it in malice. But they lack care! They can hurt someone and not even give a dam. And still get their way.
BUT If you use someone and lack care (consciously or not) that’s the definition of using people.
That’s how they get their way, that’s the whole scheme. But if you call them out- they will protect themselves so hard or cut you off saying “that’s none of your business”
So I just don’t get into dialog of that sort with them. I just feel bad for the injustice they’ve caused others.
They also like to do/say something mean for their own amusement and then laugh in your face about it when you show sadness