Alpha theta destabilizing/dangerous if already dysregulated?
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TL,DR: some say alpha theta can be dangerous or destabilizing until I develop a sense of safety and regulation through other NFT, but another suggests I go straight to alpha theta since other protocols haven't been helpful.
Hello! I've been pursuing neurofeedback primarily to reduce constant rumination and to calm my nervous system (I have formally diagnosed treatment resistant MDD, GAD ADHD, OCD, and several therapists have informally diagnosed cPTSD).
I've done about 30 sessions - initially ISF (which did nothing), and then SMR (which has worsened symptoms). This practitioner thinks I should do at least 10 more sessions of SMR, and states that alpha theta is dangerous and destabilizing if my nervous system is not regulated. I'm feeling hesitant to do any more SMR because it is worsening my rumination, SH, and SI dangerously, but I've read many other practitioners who also suggest alpha theta can be dangerous and destabilizing without previous success calming the nervous system with other protocols.
Another practitioner reviewed my qeeg, and has suggested I go straight to alpha theta training.
Are there other "safer" options than alpha theta? Protocols that aren't risky that are strictly for calming dysregulation, other than ISF or SMR?