r/LADating

I can s*ck d*ck using a unique, patented technique that will surprise and delight you. My ex husband paid for my training, and I learned from professionals😜

Did anyone have a similar experience? Did it work out due to the distance? Should I give it a shot or you don't recommend it? Thanks for the advice!

Is there any hope for dating in LA in your early 20s? I hate dating apps and have deleted all my socials in hopes to find love organically. Ironically I'm posting this on reddit.. Where do I look for a partner? Am I cooked?

I'm 25F international student and new to LA. Doing good at school and work and have a good career. Thinking of finding someone to settle down. Tried dating apps but honestly I think I'm too gullible or "wholesome" to be there (at least that's what my dates told me lmao). I've been to several dates but it didn't work out.

I'm wondering, what's the recommended activities to do in LA that gets you to meet people? Typically fellow 25ish year olds. If you have a specific place suggestion I would really appreciate it as well!

I have like 20 hobbies and I'm always down to try something new. I was into video games and Pokémon TCG for a while, but I really don't want to be in that space and date nerdy guys anymore because my experiences have been absolutely terrible. Trying to move from the nerdy space and be more social 😭 thanks for the help!

Edit: I got many DMs of people asking to hang out but unfortunately I'm here for suggestions of activities to do and not to treat this as another dating app. I'm studying for my finals so I'm really sorry if I don't reply 🙏

I really am over the money fishing guys are doing. Because of this i’m going to start charging a $350 deposit to take me out on a date.
Hopefully this gets rid of the dusties. What do you think?

Hello Everyone!

I am looking for a good partner to work with us.

- Good income -

If you are interested, plz let me know

Those of us who had the chance to grow up with out the internet for a while, and hate the apps, where are y'all going to meet people irl? I've tried speed dating but I'm a little weirder than your average person, and they were too normie for me. Not that I am opposed to anyone, pretty open. The tricky part is I'm nonbinary. Somehow identifying with neither gender is too hard of a concept for people to grasp so they just go 'ok huh girl but I say a different pronoun' or they think I'm a trans girl which is misguided but honestly a compliment to me. That being said if the first question someone asks is what your genitals are- that's gonna be an immediate no from me dog. Where are the genuinely open minded, rooted in their own hobbies, semi cynical, sarcastic, able to laugh through the horrors type people hanging out these days? Emphasis on 30s and up, if you haven't gone through the hell of living through your saturn return AND 9/11 we aren't gonna vibe lol

I’ve spent most of my life being the “responsible one”—work, family, routines… all of that. Lately I’ve realized I don’t actually meet new people anymore unless it’s by accident.

So I’m curious—how are men meeting women these days when it’s not through work or mutual friends?

I’m easygoing, I laugh a lot more than people expect, and I enjoy conversations that go beyond the surface. Not looking for anything forced, just seeing what’s out there and who I might connect with.

Genuinely curious to hear your answers… and if you prefer one-on-one, my inbox is open.

Looking for someone to spend all my money on since the ex don’t want it anymore get it while it good .
Fishing
Anime
And food
First come first serve

I plan to go into it not expecting anything but I am curious if these events have actually led to a casual or serious relationship for people.

I’m new to La 23M and wanted to meet people so I was wondering are there any night life places to got to that’s weather a bar or club to go to
Also into nerdy stuff and raves, so I’d appreciate the help

Depressed and sad, looking for an adventure. In a lot of pain too. Just want to let loose and feel alive.

Where can I find cougars in LA who likes to meet young guys grab drinks and have nice conversations and socialize I feel like does anyone know any bars or clubs or places where I can meet them and socialize?

Hi all! I hope you’re having a fabulous day!

I’m (25 F) and looking to meet men around the city. Im looking for something serious. I go out to cafes, restaurants, bars, shops, parks, beaches, and various events (first Fridays, art shows, sip and paint, etc.) all to no avail. I go out with friends and by myself. I am against the apps, and I’d like to meet someone in person.

I’m begging for recommendations on places, events, and areas I can try out. I’m down to travel all over the city, and to try anything!

Not that’s it’s an end all be all… but I am looking to date black men, so any recs that highlight this are appreciated.

Honestly, any help is appreciated, thanks!