r/KenyanLadies

We all know the narrative that a woman’s prime is in her early 20s and a man’s is in his early 30s…well what if i differ with all that…

Well at least sexually speaking…I have done some of my own research and from my findings, i have come to learn that a woman’s sexual prime starts in her late 20s…Libido iko juu, she is more rooted with her body, knows what she wants etc. That’s why the older women get, the more explorative she becomes, the wilder her fantasies become.

Fun fact, the younger you are the lower your libido is, as a woman, when you hit that 27…28 mark…it starts to shoot through the roof.

However i can’t say the same for the other gender. The younger a male is, the higher his libido is…as they approach the 30 year old mark…the adrenaline starts to disappear. That’s why most of them are on viagras and other methods to increase their libido.

I think its also the reason they tend to go for younger girls(18-25). Remember these girls are at a point where their libido is low and are still discovering themselves and their bodies, the perfect prey for the washed up low libido men.

However pia, si kila mtu ako hivyo, but a majority of the population are. Agree to disagree siri ya libido yako ni wewe uijuaye.

I co-parent with my ex, and for the most part we’ve found a rhythm that works. It’s not perfect, but we manage. Lately though, he’s started asking a lot of questions about my personal life. Not just general check-ins, but things like who I’m seeing, where I go when I’m not with our child, and what I’m doing with my time. At first I brushed it off because I didn’t want unnecessary tension, but it kept happening. So recently I told him, calmly, that I’m open about anything that directly affects our child, but my personal life outside of that isn’t something I’m comfortable discussing. That didn’t go down well. He said I’m being secretive and that as a parent, he has a right to know what kind of environment our child is in. I understand where that concern comes from, and I’m not reckless or introducing people into my child’s life casually. But at the same time, it feels like the line between co-parenting and control is getting blurred, and I’m trying to protect that boundary without turning everything into conflict. I’m just trying to figure out how other women handle this balance, because it’s a lot more complicated than I expected.

I'm overthinking so hard on going to the club alone, I don't know wat to expect and worst is I'm low key an introvert but love dancing as hl.

Am already dressed and all but I just can't move😂😂 literally.

Anyway ladies could u share ur experience and which club u went to that didn't feel weird.

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I live with my dad, he works and I commute every day. The house is kinda large so we have a househelp.

We have a backyard shamba that's large enough for a couple of fruit trees and all kinds of veggies. The house help, is from an agricultural background and she loves to farm to the point i think she's obsessed with it.

When she came, we didn't have a lot because the previous house help didn't seem to like shamba work,so we mostly had veggies(fruits etc), and called a groundsman to farm.

When the current house help came, she started working in the garden. She has a green thumb. Everything was growing. However, she would plant everything and anything. And I mean, every seed she came across. At first it's fine, because...more food. Until there was random trees growing everywhere and vines taking over the whole garden.

The thing is, she's really not organised.

We have a compost pit but she throws scraps all over. So the entire garden smells. We also have sections for decorative plants around the house and you'll find, tomato vines, pigeon pea plants, peas, beans in those places. But it's like a single or 2 plants, like what will you do with a single plant. Eat 5 beans?

By this point, the garden is mostly full because she plants wherever. I'm not too mad about that. I in fact want to make an easier access compost bin and get into gardening now that I'm on break.

The breaking point, is that she's been storing seeds in the house now. Pawpaw seeds, mango seeds, avocado seeds, passions, tree tomato seeds etc. And not just a few, like handfuls. She has them in her room, under her bed. Sheets of serviettes and paper towels with rotting seeds, her side drawer has like rotting lemons. The whole house is full of fruitflies that she's been basically breeding in her room. To the point her curtains have mold. I found A yoghurt container with rot. Her clothes drawer with rotting fruit etc.

Regular flies too.

I've asked her multiple times to stop it but she either moves her stash or hides it.

What would you do?

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Found out i have a stranger in my tummy, 4weeks old. I’m so stressed and i know i am not mentally and financially ready for the lifelong change. I would really love to get some insights on how the extraction process is in Nairobi. Like where would you guys recommend? And if you have ever gone through the extraction process? How was it for you? I’m so scared.

Good Morning,

I am looking for a person to man a retail store and respond to Meta Ads. This person should be skilled at converting leads to Ads and must have some experience in real estate and construction. Preferably above 25 years old , female and living around Ruiru, Juja or Thika.

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DM me your experience in a short paragraph and your place of residence and your experience.

My man’s grandma was found killed kwa kichaka in the morning. They had a pretty close relationship. I don’t know how to deal with grief or consolation of those who are grieving. Any advice on how to be there for him?

I personally avoid situations like these, since the passing of my own father, I isolate myself even from friends who have lost their loved ones. How do i navigate this without loosing myself in the process?

Hey makeup girlies please help a girl out.

I have been going out with someone for a hot minute , and I have always been done up , face beat and all.

Last time we went out , we hooked up for the first time and honestly🤣 , I felt it was such a mess to see all those red smudges of lipstick all over.

I don’t think I have had sex with makeup on before.

I am planning to link up strictly to hookup and Idk if I should wear makeup or not. I don’t want to ask him coz the mood around us is just flirtatious and sexual innuendo , also he didn’t mind me having makeup on from what I saw. (Also consider this a FWB situation)

My dilemma is when I have make up on , I am this spicy ,intimidating woman with an agenda . When I have no makeup on ,I look like a soft harmless girl.

Should I break character and skip the makeup? Or should I continue with my agenda and ignore the mess?? Lol

What do you all think?

(P.s this a guy who dead ass asks me to wear specific clothes, not modest and this is up my alley, 😂)

If you are in a happy relationship kindly share how long you've been together and why you are sure you'll get married to him...we need some good rep on relationships.

Theres three things on my mind that i need to get done

Pap smear, HPV shot and cervical cancer screening. This might sound stupid but idk where to start. I have been a little reckless the past year (i stopped). I want to get the HPV shot but ive seen conflicting info online. Has anyone here gotten it and how much did you pay na where do i get the cervical cancer screening done.

I have never been to a gynaecologist before so any suggestions will go a long way. Based in Nairobi

Thanks!

Hey ladies, hope you’re all doing well and enjoying the weekend 😃

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Otherwise, have a great weekend 😅

What's your experience been like? How's the vibe for you. If not is it something you'd want to try out, platonically of course

l had posted earlier about looking for suits for a new job l am waiting for and girls l GOT IT 💃💃💃💃🌻✨🙏and l am moving to Nanyuki....sema excitement and fear....how do I get a house, new besties and most of all the financial muscle...weh anyway l am happy and excited for the new beginnings..❤️

PS: l am supposed to move by next week and would appreciate any tips for Nanyuki town