r/GayIndianDating

Are there guys looking for actual relationships?😭😭😭😭

A shirt I had ordered few days back finally got delivered today. Opening the package was disappointing. The brand has sent me a used product. Well at first the shirt smelled like a manly perfume. Not the kind I have felt before. It’s good. I was sure I wanted to return it. But then I brought the shirt closer to my nose, and sniffed it more. Now I could feel how the guy must smell. I could smell his sweat, his body, his skin. It’s like he is here, with me.

I’m in a dilemma now. Should I really return the shirt? I mean in last few years all I wanted was to experience the raw scent of a man’s body. And now it’s here. Well is it too much to ask? Someone who would let me sniff them? Someone who likes the idea…

I’m 30+ looking for a guy, who is curious to explore fantasies. And in case we vibe, then the world is the limit.

Hey I’m 23m and i love going on long drives and eating street food 🥘 my spice tolerance is bad but I love spicy food lol 😂 I am very cutesy your typical BL manga Uke omega hahs looking for my alpha 🐺 I need a strong man 💪 who is tall (6ft⬆️)and he needs to have the softest heart lol no matter how big,strong and scary he looks I want to baby him and Takecare of my cupcake haha ,I am very chalant kinda like geet from jab we met lol I love being affectionate and I don’t do that non chalant shit but i don’t mind if u r someone who is calmer and a lil bit diff than me haha but heyyyyy u gotta still find your own ways to show me how much u care haha

Well I do understand love at first sight and true love and all the fairy tale stuff might not always be true hahs I real world strong connections are formed through trust ,patience and equal efforts along with good communication.

So ya let’s make this happen let’s try give it a shot right and let’s see what happens.

I usually prefer someone older than me but ya I’ll try keeping an open mind also I’m from tbe western line of Mumbai sooooooo I’ll prefer someone nearby cause I want us to meet frequently hehe xoxo 💋

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45 killos twink

Looking for something meaningful and not all interested sharing nudes

Not into fat guys sorry I love my fat queens but can't date them

Not into gol matol chubs too sorry

Im myself skinny so i wanna be friends or more than friends with someone who's my type yk

Again don't dm if u are some honey pervert

I’m 29 yo gay guy from Hyderabad, I live & work here too. 5’10”. I work in the fintech domain as an SDE, I can speak 4 languages fluently - Marathi, Telugu, Hindi & ofcourse English. I can also read & write Arabic, can manage basic Kannada, Tamil & Bengali.

I have been told that my cute face doesn’t match my heavy & deep sounding manly voice & a broad chest.

I live alone.

I’m not yet out to my parents, but I’m out to my brother, cousins & few of my close school & campus friends.

At workplace I am perceived as just another straight guy who isn’t married yet, (while my colleagues younger than me already are) & someone who has apparently has elegant sense of clothing & fragrances (given how disappointing the general sense of clothing young people of Hyderabad is, especially at IT companies)

I come from a fairly socially liberal family yet I myself am very religious as a Hindu & I consider this as a very important part of my life. I have a whole personal library for myself which includes set of all important scriptures.

Politically I am conservative, I believe the classification of politics along the lines of left/right/center doesn’t really really befit Indian political scenario, given how such a classification has western nuance/lenses to it. But just for the sake of it, I lean towards ‘Right’.

As a hobby I like to make impromptu travel plans to ancient places of pilgrimage & capture the aesthetics of that place & the temples there.

I also love binge watching documentaries based on history, travel, different cultures, cuisines, flight reviews & air crash investigation. I have been glued to national geographic/discovery channels during my childhood.

In music, I am into Carnatic music, orchestra, Hindustani classical, pop, electronic, Arabic songs, but rarely into Hindi songs.

I am fond of fragrances & can go to buy even expensive perfumes if it fits my olfactory palette. I have a small collection of amazing perfumes which has gotten me several compliments by random people. My personal favourite notes are sandalwood, vetiver, oud, musk, aqua, citrus, sometimes coffee. Notes I don’t like - lavender, patchouli, floral (floral notes in perfumes are great to smell, but not from my body)

Physique wise I used to be regular at building muscle, but since past few months, all I have been doing is just feeding my muscle memory! I can blame upon several reasons for not making it to the gym, but I do acknowledge that its high time I catch up again since my body type is such that I tend to gain weight easily.

Lately I have been trying to eat healthy & cut down drastically upon sugar & carbs & to include more protein in my diet & to mostly cook for myself.

On the dating apps, the kind of guys who find me attractive are generally on the extreme ends of the age range - the twinks less than 23 & 32-34 yo guys, but rarely the guys of my age or +-2. I have always wondered why? I don’t know for myself honestly.

Also on the dating apps, I have disappointed several guys just because they assume that I’m a top looking at my pictures, but to their surprise I’m not.

I am ideally looking for a like minded boyfriend who has a good sense of aesthete.

Hey everyone just looking for a potential LDR partner over here

Just wanted to give it a shot , a bit about myself

I’m pretty low-key. I like reading about history and psychology, watch anime, and go on long walks I recently started my med school residency and life has been a roller coaster ever since

Looking for someone who can hole good conversation and is preferably 25 above

Would love to hear from y’all 😊

I love talking to people and I'm kinda bored right now

anyone up for a chat 😜?

Ping me

Hey 👋

I'm Aditya

25 and basically from pune

I like hiking, painting gardening and anime

I am looking for a guy for a long term relationship

Also like to add my preference is into hairy, muscular and bearded guys

If interested and wish to know more please feel free to DM 😘

Sexting as a top. Want one bottom to chat.. dm fast

looking for fellow 21-24 y/o Gaybies from india

I've been an introverted person my whole life and even in the online spaces I've been super shy to approach someone romantically even though I have managed to make many friends from the community but most of them aren't from india and that bugs me a lot. Which is why I decided to take my chance on here to try and find my community.

some facts about me:

~ I'm 21 y/o

~ still in academia

~ I've been in a ldr with a guy before (didn't work out)

~ from bangalore ( preferably most welcome)

~ still closeted but out to few trusted people

~ I read a lot of fiction (big locked tomb fan)

I'd love to meet you all here. please tell me intresting facts about mushroom and space and I'm forever yours lol

I'm 34, bi, 5.8 and slim fit guy, and honestly kind of over the whole hookup scene. Did the casual thing in my 20s, had fun, but I'm at the point where I want someone whos into something serious commitment not just hookuops.

What I'm hoping to find: a guy 19 or older who's also looking for something real. I don't care about a checklist — I care about whether we actually click. If you're someone who texts back, has your own life going on, and wants to build something with another person over time, we'll probably get along.

I'm not in a rush. Happy to message for a while, grab a coffee when it feels right, see where it goes.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a DM and tell me a bit about yourself. What's something you've been into lately? That's a better opener than "hey" — promise.

Don't know what to do feeling depressed...gave my exam.. concerned about future...

I'm 44, still virgin in my rear and off late I really want to get on with it. I see so many videos where people have hooked up and become intimate.

When am I going to find my someone? what am I doing wrong?

horny ones may skip this~

I’m 21M (Bi) bong looking for something meaningful ryt now completed bored 😴, my interests include sports , long gossips, cooking & poetry , kinda cute & shy guy . Since the summer has already started i want someone to accompany me for an ice coffee . It will be great meeting with different peoples out here. Good day ahead !!

Hey let get connected all the bi guys? I’m 27 m from Delhi Let’s reply to this thread and connect! Find some good bonds

Hi delusional 24M here (vers). Not into hookups...looking for something real or at least meaningful. Age should not be below 22 or above 30. Also I am 5'10 and skinny fat (average looking otherwise people will get disappointed or ghost after looking at me)

I’m more of an ambivert—can be social but also need my own space. Not huge on long/deep conversations all the time, but I enjoy good, easygoing chats and just hanging out. Not big on clubbing/party scene.

Looking for a big guy💪🏻😼 (not a bear and also no CDs😞), and someone who's respectful, can actually hold a conversation, and isn’t just here for timepass....

Putting aside the political views...man i find Rahul Gandhi hawwttt..lately his dad bod is killing me.

I saw a drenched pic of his and trust me i wanted to serve him as a slave 😜