r/EntitledPeople

Husband’s only sister eldest daughter (f26) is getting married. I am genuinely happy for her. Save the date was addressed to husband and family. Couples shower invite addressed to just him. He was really upset and went to ask his mother if I was really invited. I am not. “I trigger his sister, so niece is not inviting me but wants my husband and kids to attend.”

Back story - spouse and I married 20+ years. 2 kids (young teens). Sil married 2 kids - older both 20+

18 months ago, my husbands father passed away. At the funeral, my other niece (f20) said some cruel things to my youngest. I asked for her to apologize to my youngest. (That’s it). Instead I was accused of destroying the family. I was attacked for defending my kid. SiL sent a letter justifying her daughter’s words. No apology, lots of excuses. For the past 25+ years I have always been accommodating. They lived out of town, visited 6-10 days a year. What ever they wanted to do was tolerable and short term, I tried to be helpful and agreeable. This is the first time, I have ever stood up to them.

The wedding is states away. My teens are aware, one is adamant that she will not attend without me. Other one is unsure what to do, not wanting to let down her grandmother. Husband is furious. MIL is playing Switzerland.

Trying to take the high road. Trying not to spiral.

Hi, I'm back with another story from my time working at a very popular theme park in Florida. A magical rat planet of sorts. To preface this, the attraction I worked for has a height requirement for safety purposes. The required height is 40 inches (102 cm) or taller. This requirement caused SO MANY disputes between workers and guests. Some guests were known to stuff their toddlers shoes to beat the requirement. Here I'll discuss two ridiculous incidents that happened a few weeks apart.

The first incident happened when I was Fast Pass line greeter. A family of five walked up. The mom was one of those irritating types with the mom cut, fanny pack, and crazed glare. She shows me their stack of fast passes and tries to walk on by holding the toddler by her leg opposite me. I stop her and insist I must measure the little guy first. She then argues immediately that he passed the height requirement for the ride across the park which is also 40 inches. I explain that I had zero way to verify that and would still need to measure her kiddo before allowing entrance. She reluctantly and gently pushed him towards me.

Well, he wasn't tall enough and I apologized to her and informed her that he wouldn't be able to ride and offered a rider switch. She became irate and insisted that he was tall enough for the other ride across the park, "BUT HE RODE OTHER RIDE'S NAME!" This went on for waaay too long before she declared red in the face that I had ruined their vacation. Everything was now completely destroyed. She even forced her toddler to cry by yelling at him that he couldn't ride because the mean lady wouldn't let him 😒. The kid was fine before then, just confused and quiet.

The second incident I was also a line greeter but one of the male coordinators was outside chatting with us. A dad walked up and shoved his toddler towards me to measure. The kid wasn't tall enough. Once again the ride across the park was brought up but the coordinator took control of the conversation this time. He and the man argued for a while becoming more and more heated. The man then proceeded to tell my coordinator that he didn't have a real job and that if he wanted real control he needed to get a real career. My coordinator wasn't having it and they had some words. I went on break.

Unfortunately, our ninety plus year old neighbor fell several years ago in her home and she was forced to go into care. She wasn't given a chance to get her clothes, photos, mementos of her family or to delegate where and to whom her possessions would go to or end up.

A government trustee gave the house clearance to some clowns who sold her possessions to an entitled a hole. The entitled a hole, let's call him Star R., sold and/or gave the old woman, let's call her Rosie, stuff to people in the government housing co-op when he lives.

I spoke to Rosie pretty much weekly until she died six months ago. She was extremely upset that her clothes, mementos or her brothers and father were stolen. I told her family (in another country) exactly what happened and who stole her property but they did nothing. It was second hand information, so I couldn't make a police report but in the end .....

I spoke to Star and some of the people who had her property but they felt that it belonged to them.

So I guess they were/are also ENTITLED to the bed bugs that were embedded in her clothes, etc. This happened three or four years ago and to this day, they wonder where the bed bugs came from and are still having to deal with them ... justice of a sort.

I just broke a nail and cursed my oven because that's where it got broken. It wasn't the oven's fault, yet I am blaming it on the oven because I was using it at the time, and now I have to cut all my nails down so they'll all be the same length. Otherwise, I will lose my very entitled mind.

Note the extra spaces that might actually prove to the AI bot that I was typing stuff

Also note my entitled passive aggressive continuation of this post because I am entitled enough to be pissed that AI is in my life.

I love you all, humans.