r/Dating_Bondha

May theraaa, may theraa , may theraaa

Hello all ,

E May Theraa (13) special, I am open to doing a love reading for all of you all to see where your stars are guiding you.

I use A mix of tatrot and Vedic astrology techniques.

Please follow this format and post in the comments, please don't DM me personally already 325 unread messages unnayi yours will be lost in it. I repeat, please don't!

Your question: please be very specific, don't ask vauge questions like will I find love ? Blah blah (let's keep it to love related only)

An example of a good question is : will he/start start taking time again in the next 3 months?

Was his or her intention real ?

The current time / or the time at which the even happened: please mention the time zone tooo.

Your location when this event happened/when you thought about it:

Finally if you know your Rashi and nakshatram :

Once again stick to this format

-- Question

-- time including them time zone.

-- location

-- your Rashi

-- your nakshatram.

P.S : please note this is only for fun! There is always free will and your own efforts which can turn tables around. Take this prediction with a pinch of salt!

Chalo unta mari :)

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u/MeAndTheSatan — 15 hours ago

20F/ hyd/ Looking for a serious relationship

Looking for a serious relationship ✨

Mandatory Details: Age: 20 Gender: Female Height: 5’0 Location: Hyderabad Willing to LDR: Depends Dietary Habits: Vegetarian (egg okay occasionally, I don't mind if you're a non vegetarian) Language: Telugu & English Smoking/Drinking Habits: No Smoking/Drinking in Partner: No Religious Orientation: Hindu Willing to Date Other Religion: Preferably no

Introduction:

Simple cozy vibes type 💛 Cooking ante ishtam, free time lo dramas & web series binge watch chestha 😭. Comfortable ayyaka chaala talkative and fun untanu.

Nenu Vysya, so preferably Vysya aithe better long-term lo families ki easy untadi ani.

Not into casuals. Looking for something genuine, peaceful, and long-term. I value honesty, loyalty, effort, and good communication.

Minimum Expectations:

Vysya preferred(had to mention this cos my family is orthodox also I don't want an arranged marriage 😭) Should be consistent daily matladali natho Age 21–24 5'7" + Good personality & emotionally mature Clear goals in life undali Ghosting/timepass vaddu please 😭

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u/press-app — 4 days ago

To people who are dating from other states, how do you all manage the language gap ?

For context:

The lady speaks: Telugu (mother tongue) , kannada (fluent given that she spent a major part of her life in Bengaluru) , Hindi and English.

The Guy speaks: Tamil (mother tongue) Kannada (born and raised in Karnataka and dad his is from Karnataka) and english

They talk normally in kannada , arguments tend to be in english.

P.S gudispotam ani telisi kuda mursipotuna rojulu ivi.

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u/MeAndTheSatan — 17 hours ago

Just here for a platonic connection🎀

Age: 20

Looking for someone around 21-23

Gender: Female

Location: Hyderabad

Dietary habits: Non veg

Language: Telugu/ Hindi/ English/ koncham Japanese

Willing to LDR: Maybe... not sure

Smoking/Drinking habits: No teetotaller

Smoking/Drinking in partner: Smoking never, veryyy limited occasional Drinking..is fine maybe but rendu no aithe inka better.

Religious orientation: Hindu

Willing to date other religion: No

A little about me:

I’m soft 👉👈, a little sensitive, weirdly chaotic, crazy and clumsy at times. I like being playful and silly….. I mean, who cares about what the world thinks? Shouldn’t we just enjoy our own lives??

Also, I can go to a mall alone and eat by myself, so fair warning🫵!!! I’m independent enough to romanticize my own company too.

My favorite hobby...Probably getting lost in books and music for hours.😽

But at the same time, I’m really ambitious and determined. I know what I want in life and I take my goals seriously.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who’s ambitious and has goals, but not so serious in life that they forget to enjoy.

Maybe around 5’8–5’9+....?

I like people who pay attention to little details, genuinely care, and express well.

Someone patient, emotionally present, and capable of making me feel wanted without me having to ask for it.

I want someone I can laugh with, be weird together, talk about life at 2 AM, be there for each other during low points, and grow together

Things that I admire ( bonus ):

● A little bollywood filmy dreamy love never hurt anyone.

● Emotional intelligence

Good photography skills?(optional ofc)

● And yes… good looks are appreciated too, I won’t lie.🤡

u/Itchy_Incident724 — 3 days ago

Aaru adugulu untanu..yedu Adugulu vesthanu

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21 year old from Hyderabad, born and brought up in vizag but too many transfers so I stayed couple years in

vijaywada,guntur,kakinada, triple in hyd..basically pan-andhra

#sneakpeekintomyself

Love mentally stimulating conversations as well as Brainrot🫧.. pursuing a journey of self love and looking for my pasandida aurat so we can better ourselves together..movies ante interest(movies chudani telugodu telugodena??😗).. cricket ante kuda picchi RCB and ABD, Kohli fan since childhood❤️..just movies and cricket gurinchi friends tho matluduthu windows thellaga aipoina rojulu unnay(night nundi morning varuku matladam ani kavi taathparyam)..gym ante kuda recent ishtam..abbo music ni ela marchipotham na primary source of escapism..dogs ante chala chala chala ishtam.ivi kakunda ante bane chadhuvukunna tier 1 clg lo 4th year lo unna.... Family and friends say I'm stubborn and take a firm stand,also safe to say that i have great self control🙂‍↔️

Self control ante gurthocchindhi...I don't drink,i don't smoke, because of my orthodox upbringing I'm a vegetarian and hold strong religious beliefs (you can be an atheist i don't care), Been a devotee of Lord krishna and will continue to do so

Have a great set of bucket list that I wanna fullfill with my partner...random small things to big things anni untay bucket list lo

It can be as small as mall hopping/cafe hopping on a random Wednesday to skydiving with my partner with a combined parachute 👉👈

Lastly family background.. grateful to have the most loving parents who never objected anything and a loving elder brother(who's getting married in less than a month yay!)..I don't wanna boast but money vishayam lo peddha problem em ledhu they let me free🤗🤗

Physical attributes:

6'0;Fair complexioned;92 kg(lost 18kgs recently and will continue to do so)

Table tennis, cricket, volleyball,tennis and chess aadatha

Ovo-vegetarian

Willing to LDR: Yes (only if atleast occasional meetups are possible)

Langauge: Telugu and it's non-negotiable

I don't drink,I don't smoke.

Lastly, all i wanna say is let's just lie on a comfy open terrace listening to sai abhyankar and watch the starry night sky🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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u/sharkgrandmaster — 5 days ago
▲ 16 r/Dating_Bondha+1 crossposts

24 M | Hyderabad | Looking for a simple n Happy soul

Hailo.. 24M here. I'm a happy going person, living a simple and peaceful life. I love watching movies and cricket ofcourse.. . I cook yummy food 👨‍🍳... Biriyani is my fav.... I'm a working professional in IT sector. I'm an aspiring writer. Last relationship was 2.5 yrs ago. I feel I became a better person now both physically and mentally.. Looks wise: I'm average.

I'm an introvert. Extrovert with very few people.

Looking for a long term relationship with mutual respect, understanding and caring ofcourse 🙂..

Age : 24

Preferred age in partner: 22-25

Gender: Male

Height: 5' 9 - 5' 10

Location: Hyderabad

Willing to LDR: No. Na valla kadhu 🥲

Dietary Habits: Non-vegetarian. Flexible

Language: Telugu. Open to telugu, tamil, malayalam

Smoking/Drinking Habits: Non smoker. Occasional drinker

Smoking/Drinking in Partner: any habit in control is fine

Religious Orientation: Hindu

Willing to Date Other Religion : Yes

Sports: Cricket, Pickle ball

Gym: Not regularly. But I do 8000 steps everyday.

Personality expectations in partner : Kind, Genuine, optimistic, ambitious

Go to movies :- Manam, 24, Malliswari, Broche, Jersey, NNN, Ante Sundaraniki

Finally if you like any of the above movies, please drop a comment or DM with your intro.

🙂🤞..

u/No_Interview2632 — 5 days ago

24M looking for a peaceful soul

Hi. Em rayalo teledu. But will try to put as much as possible.

  • Age: 24
  • Gender: M
  • Height: 168
  • Weight: 65
  • Location: Bnglr (native from vijayanagaram)
  • Willing to LDR: No
  • Dietary Habits: Non-veg
  • Language: Telugu Only
  • Smoking/Drinking Habits: I dont smoke, I dont drink
  • Smoking/Drinking in Partner: Drink (negotiable), Smoke (No)
  • Religious Orientation: Hindu
  • Willing to Date Other Religion: No

Introduction:

I am a simple soul, studied my ass off, met unsaid expectations on me, lifted up my family from middle class to rich (IMO). I am currently working as a SDE-2 at a US based org (soon going to remote). I graduated from an IIT (not so great one, but good one). Present bengaluru lo untunna, will be moving to remote location soon.

I am kind of nerdy, binge watching anime, movies, simple soul, cant stand someone going through rough time, love cooking, playing chess. Kind of introverted, but once we are in a rythm, chaala ekkuva matladutha. I love to explore mythology, fiction, psychology, i talk a lot on these spaces.

Minimum Expectations:

I am looking for someone like minded (dont mind you being nerdy), peaceful & simple soul, someone who takes things slowly, without rushing, respectful ga untey saripoddi

End Note:

Casual dating is not my type, so i am looking for something serious, genuine & peaceful

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u/bhanu_312 — 3 days ago

Can we make friends here or its just to find dates ?

Hey, I’ve been following this sub for a long time, but never really had the courage to post. After thinking a lot, I finally decided to post here.

I’m 21M, originally from Hyderabad, currently working in an MNC in Chennai. I’m not here looking for blind dates or anything rushed. I just want to connect with new people—someone to talk to, share daily rants, and be my true self with. If things naturally click, we can see where it goes.

I’m looking for genuine connections nothing creepy. I enjoy talking and listening. If you’re a girl who’s open to making a new friend, spending time chatting, ranting, deep talks, sharing emotions, and having meaningful conversations, we might get along well.

Emotionally, I’m a very controlled person. Kopam vasthe chupinchali, bada anipisthe edavali ani untadi, but over time I’ve complicated myself so much that I find it hard to express emotions even crying feels difficult sometimes. Because of this, moving on isn’t easy for me.

I have many friends professionally, but very few female friends with whom I can openly share everything and feel light. I’m looking for a good, serious, yaar-type friendship. I’m not another creep looking for anything physical.

If you’re not into deep talks, mindful conversations, emotional bonding, and meaningful chats, then I’m probably not your type please don’t DM.

But if this resonates with you, feel free to DM. Let’s have a good conversation.

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u/FearlessAct5680 — 5 days ago