Heart feels heavy, hugs needed !
Guyss and ladies,
I am going to be 31 in 2 weeks , I have been single from the past how many years I don't know. So I decided to get some of my eggs freezed, as a part of which I got some regular tests done.
the results are not looking good , I learnt that I have a DOR , fertility of a 40 year old at 31.
last year when I got this test done my number looked absolutely fine in one year I couldn't believe things changed so dramatically in one year.
now doctor says that I need atleast 3 cycles to get enough viable eggs to have one healthy baby in future. ( I am looking at a hospital bill of 8-10 lakhs) keeping the money matters aside I am afraid of the emotional side of this treatment , not that I am obsessed with the idea of kids but I would like to have my options incase I want to start my family.
I afraid to share this news to my parents because because they are gonna blame for delaying the marriage and prioritising my career, even if I choose to do it alone and keep it as my own secret , I don't know how to convey this in an arranged marriage setting (I cannot hide something so big, because trust and honesty is everything for me in a relationship) .
why will anyone marry a poojaki paniki rani puvu?
P.S : if you are a woman reading, especially in your late 20's and early 30's please get these tests done ! so you can at least know how things are looking for you.