r/DatingForNepal

Looking for something real, someone to actually talk to and build something with

Hey theree! I'm a 23-year-old guy hoping to meet someone worth getting to know. I'm not great at these kinds of posts, so bear with me. hehe,

A bit about me: I genuinely enjoy cooking, gaming, music, art, learning and can hold a conversation about pretty much anything, and I'm the kind of person who gets weirdly passionate about things I love. I'm probably funnier in person than I sound right now.

What I'm looking for is pretty simple — someone who's emotionally available and actually wants to build something. Doesn't matter if you're introverted or extroverted, serious or goofy. If you're kind, curious, and down for long conversations we'll probably get along great.

If anything here resonated, send me a message — even just a "hey" works 😗😗

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u/Plus-Squirrel2844 — 1 day ago

Help A Girl Out !

Hi guys. I have tried asking people around and also chat gpt and tried watching videos on the topic but I don't quite get an honest feedback, I feel like. I am a female, mid 20s and I have never dated. As soon as I mention this- I get two kinds of feedback :

  1. It'll happen when it's time, you just focus on yourself and your work and career.
  2. Do you want me to set you up with someone ? You barely go out or interact what do you expect.

And I think both of them are valid but also rushed. I don't WANT to be in a relationship, in the sense that I am not actively looking to be with someone. I have been single all my life, I am okay with the friends and family and hobbies I have in my life. But then I am not some 'don't need a partner' 'eklai janmeko eklai marne ho' person either.

So what I want your opinion on is (since this is a dating community) that I have heard people saying love and relationship is a 'skill'. Which I clearly am underdeveloped at- compared to my peers who have had interactions, dating stages, proper relationships- I am lacking actual practical skills in this department. So my main question is :

If I want to slowly build the skillset to eventually date in the future where do I start ? Or am I making something so human and natural into strategy ? Again, I am not saying how to get into a relationship or find a boyfriend- I think I am not ready for that. But I can't always remain unready because I don't think I will be able to date one morning just waking up just because 'right person' is here or when I don't want to be the forever solo one.

J honest idea cha bhanum tara tei point 1 ra 2 ho bhane chai chaddim. Dherai sunisake !

(Edit : I don't know if people don't read the full thing but I AM NOT Looking for a relationship. Just opinion, advice, insight, thought, idea, experience, etc. sodhna post gareko ho. "DM", "guff", nah man... Tesari chat garne, bolne bha bhaye eta aayera esto question post garnu parthyo hola ?)

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u/OkUnderstanding3765 — 8 days ago
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Why is genuine love so rare now?

Feels like everyone only wants casual stuff nowadays like relationships are just about physical attraction and temporary feelings. It’s hard finding someone who genuinely wants emotional connection, effort , understanding and something real.

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u/NGAMCHEWANG — 6 days ago

Searching again

Hiee guys anyone here who listens to b3kcha and bartika em rai especially bekchaa not related to this sub but i find guys who listen to their songs really attractive even if your face looks like a donkey just shitted on u

Message me if you vibe on these singers 👻👻

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u/NGAMCHEWANG — 10 days ago

Trek ma eklo vaiyo

Just returned back from a trek overall ramailo nai vayooo tara sabai couple thiye aafnai group ma ni , ali ali khallo chai vyoo , mero trek jani gurlfrn kaile holaaa banni

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u/Beneficial-Star-9196 — 4 days ago

What actually Nepali men see in girl for a date?
And please don’t give me honest, adventurous, man ko safa, without makeup , when she is herself wala answer. Because I know a lot of my guy friends jasley yei vanthyo but at the end they just end up choosing the prettiest in the room who literally doesn’t matches usko previously said descriptions haru k ?
People here date not for aafno laagi but aafno sathi circle maa herr tero bhauju vanda sabailey aha kati ramri vanos vanney hisab ley. I have also seen guys who like talk to girls share really personal things ani say like i like talking to you, I like how you listen to me, I like you blah blah and last maa euta line taldinxan “ please don’t tell saathi haru lai we talk vanera la “ . Like seriously guys.

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u/hella--funny — 12 days ago

Hard to find partner in mid 20s

Newar girl | IT Hello everyone Looking for genuine friendship, good conversations, and maybe a meaningful connection if it feels right

Trying to move on from previous

Open for suggestions please help me out

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u/snookums08 — 5 days ago

I love someone who loves me for who i am aba creepy dms chai nagara tara , i want someone who’s genuinely kind sweet ani built for themselves although i dont think anyone is like that on discord! I want a man whos gentle but strong at the same time not just physically but mentally!! Lmao sounds like too much but yea if anyones like that dm

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u/Better_Intern6053 — 11 days ago

Situation with Friend's Ex from years ago

So I’m kind of confused about a situation and wanted some honest opinions.

There’s this guy I used to really admire a few years back not exactly a crush, just thought he was a really kind and decent person. At that time, he was dating one of my friends, but they broke up like 4–5 years ago. I’m not even really close with that friend anymore. Recently, I have started bumping into him pretty often because we work in the same building. We usually just say hi, nothing big. I’m quite introverted so I don’t normally initiate much, but these small interactions have become more regular now and we are liking each other's company and I feel like there might be some mutual interest building up.

The confusing part is I know their breakup wasn’t great (at least from what I’ve heard). So, part of me feels like I shouldn’t even go there because he is my friend's ex, but another part feels like it’s been years, we’re not close anymore, and he genuinely seems like a good guy. Now I’m stuck between keeping distance or just letting things naturally happen and seeing where it goes.

What would you do in this situation?

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u/hella--funny — 8 days ago

Anyone from itahari dharan biratnagar damak?

Looking for a female for a hook up. We can meet, go for a date and see if we are physically attracted to eachother.

I'm a 25 year old male, 6.5 inches, 5'11 height and average body type. DM if you are interested

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u/itahari-guy25 — 6 days ago