I just found out my parents lied to me for 2 years about my "sold" laptop.
I need to vent. Two years ago, when I was 22, I decided to stop school for a while because I was burned out and already working as a working student. My mom "punished" me by saying she sold my laptop since I wasn’t using it for school anyway.
I just found out the truth today.
She never sold it. She gave it to my dad (who works in IT) and had him bypass my passwords to "see what I was doing." They found my personal files—mostly porn I had saved from the web—and they decided to wipe the entire laptop clean.
Here is why I’m fuming:
It wasn't their property. The laptop was a gift from my Lolo (grandfather). They didn't spend a cent on it.
I was an adult. I was 22 and working. Having your dad use his professional IT skills to "hack" your private files is such a massive breach of privacy.
The Gaslighting. They let me believe for two years that the laptop was gone, all while they had gone through my private data and "sanitized" it without my consent.
I’ve been holding a grudge and this just confirmed why I need to move out. I’m saving up every cent to get my own place because I can’t trust people who think it’s okay to do this to their adult children.
Am I overreacting, or is this totally below the belt?