So basically she said she just needed some space that she just needs to find her self. Few days later guy I work with shows me her hinge profile. I ask her about she says it must be old. Looking for some
To see if you can get her to reply or agree to meet up. And give me the time and place if so.
So here's the background. Been married 16 years. Most of it happy. We have 2 kids and a good life. About a month ago i was on our computer and found all these gchats from wife to all her GFs etc etc from 2008 on. I know this is invasion of privacy so i don't want to go into that here. I learned a lot about who she was. Club girl, man many sexual partners etc etc. she was banging like 7 dudes on and right when she met me. Found out she continued for a few months after words but they all ended. I trust her pretty much (except when she drinks to much and out with her gfs) but i don't think she has cheated on me during our marriage. Long story short she really liked this guy when i met her but i think he knew she was a party girl and didn't want anything long term. Fast forward few years later we married in 2011 and i found out that guy moved a few streets over from us. I find another chat with him and her talking about them having some dog dates but it has some pretty flirtatious wording and induendos. She has no reason or business talking to some guy she use to bang and he dumped her. So few months later i found another gchat with her and her gf saying did you here so and so broke up (the guy). Wife says to her I've been walking by his house wanting to go in and see him.( had an angel emoji with halos) at end of sentence. I confronted her and she totally denied nothing happed and i was just being jealous and over reading it. I want to ask yall your opinions. Thanks.
My girlfriend cheated and she wants me to take her back, we have talked about having 3ways before i am wondering if we should have a 3way before we get back together so its a bit more open.
We have discussed doing it and don’t have much of a sex life would it help it tho??
So we met at a local pub and after a few months of dating I come to Western Australia for work and she decided to come with and work here as well. She often spends nights at my house who i share with my Irish coworker and previous to him a uk coworker. Here’s where I think she’s cheating. I work night shift so we don’t see each other much at the house. This also means my coworker and her are both home at the same time. On a few occasions when I have rang her she has been short of breath, multiple times she says she is 10 mins away but doesn’t leave house for an hour or more and her labido with me is now basically non existent despite her always having a very strong sex drive. I’ve confronted her and asked 2 times amd the most recent was after she said she was on her way and then didn’t show up for 1.5 hrs, drunk, and crying because I was upset and denied doing anything. What do people think because I have paid for all her flights, her food, and giving her a house to live in.
My 25 year old wife has been too tired to have sex recently. She’s smoking hot to be honest, but she swears she would never cheat on me… The thing is, I’ve had this fetish where sometimes I eat my cum when I jack off…. And I know what I’m tasting when I’m trying to get her in the mood and eating her box. I’m like 99% sure it’s some dudes seed I’m cleaning up. Last night she got home from work as a bartender and I swear I could see cum as I ate her. And not only her pussy. It made me horny as fuck. Am I crazy? Why is she lying to me? No condoms? But I’m about to jack off thinking about her getting ganged up on by hung strangers….. Ok, can you actually taste strangers cum in a vagina and/or ass crack/hole when your wife is cheating? Please answer.
My husband and I have been together since 2022. When we started dating he was amazing. The only issue was a huge red flag and I should have known better than to continue the relationship. We began seeing each other in January. In mid March, I got a phone call from a phone number one digit off from his.... I answer to a woman telling me that my then boyfriend was actually her fiancé. He swore they split in August.
I continue the relationship against my better judgement. He kept pushing for us to get married, said I was his twin flame, blah, blah blah. I married this man like a fool after 5 months of dating.
I begin to find dating profiles and hidden Facebook accounts telling women we were getting divorced. I would find where he emailed himself nudes of women that are definitely not me, I'm blonde, they were black/brown haired.
I found emails to the same ex telling her he was leaving me and stringing her along.
Its been almost a year since i stopped looking. Every time I looked, i would find it and be hurt then not leave. But now something has changed within me. I am sick of his shit. ALL OF HIS SHIT. And I know he is back on the apps. He's taking selfies with muscles showing (mind you he hates having his photo taken by me). He is secretive with his phone and doesn't want me anywhere near it. He is on snapchat again... crawforddirtyy (like that isn't sexually suggestive enough).
I have a fake tinder profile. I am trying to find him. When I do, I need definitive proof he is cheating so I can leave with my head high and no "what ifs" that he can explain away like he always does.... "I created it but never used it" is a popular one.
Thanks for letting me vent. I will update soon.
Found out my ex was in a whole other relationship for 6 months and was fucking other dudes too. She lied about everything and I ended up getting gonorrhea when I decided to leave. Theres so much to it but if you guys wanna talk about it im down. It was so toxic. The sex was the best part but she was a whore. I feel devastated. I blocked her on everything and wanna move on but it's gonna be tough. I appreciate the replies.
My best friend ( of almost 1.5 years) is dating with my other friend (also a very close friend ) behind my back
The bigger problem is that one if them is in this 7 year old long distance relationship and the other one just started seeing someone new .
I feel so icky and betrayed and conflicted now
What should i do .
They are both my friends and always one of them is in a long term committed relationship
My biggest fantasy has always been sharing my wife with another guy, but as a game of complicity between us — the third person would basically be a “tool” to make things hotter together. I’ve told her years ago and she understands, but she’s always said she’s not interested in doing it for real.
During sex though, she often does something that confuses me. When I take her from behind in doggystyle, she grabs two of my fingers, puts them in her mouth and sucks them while looking me straight in the eyes, clearly pretending she’s blowing another man. She does it spontaneously and we also sometimes play with a dildo.
I’m not sure if she’s just playing along to please me or if she actually enjoys the fantasy deep down. Has anyone experienced something similar? Do you think these kinds of spontaneous acts mean she’s secretly curious, or is it possible she’s only doing it for me? Any advice on how to talk about it would be helpful.
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So about 3 weeks ago I found out my girlfriend of 6 months kissed another guy while we were dating and broke up with me to give him a chance, when I found out, I was pissed and she told me 3 days after I found out and was still pissed, then she realized the guy she kissed didn't make her feel, "as good as I made her feel" kept saying how she trusted me and loved me, then after that I was speaking with her and I said to her Im not going to prom which I thought was understandable and she was pissed off but she cheated on me and now is making me feel shit about it constantly bringing it up trying to get em to change my mind, I had big big plans that have been in place since before I even dated her and she expected me to still go after she cheated on me, and she said how she feels horrible and how she's sorry and that she still loves me she said that if she went to prom it would just be a reminder she's nobodys first choice and she said how I broke a promise when she cheated on me expected me to be okay and see it's a mistake and broke a promise she'd only choose me, it was also cat and mouse for 3 days dating and not being together not being able to decide between the new guy and me in the end she blocked the guy and came back to me trying to date me again and I care about her still so much but I dont know what I want to do about the situation and I keep putting off saying stuff because I dotn want her to do anythign, it took me a week to tell her I don't want to date you again, and she said please give me another chance, she keeps trying to prove it to me but I honestly just want to move on, I dont want to date her and also just with prom I said to her I would go and we could go as friends, before I knew she cheated, then afterwards I said to her that I don't want to go and she got pissed and I don't tell her how I completely feel because I dotn want to upset her anymore but do I just like text her completely how i feel because I feel like she's just disregarding my feelings and constantly trying to make me feel bad about my decision and idk but my trust is broken and I dotn want to date her again and I just kept feeling shit how someone I thought wa my friend kissed my girlfriend after she liked him, I need to talk to him too
Ok so my bf was sleeping and I heard his phone vibrating and something told me to go look. So I went to go and check it and it’s female name bre calling. So I had a weird feeling and didn’t say anything and went back to the bed. And I woke him up and said someone was calling you. He look at his phone and said it was his mom. And it wasn’t but I confronted him and he said that he doesn’t know bre or anything and than called his sister saying I was freaking out and got her name confused with bre. Which I know what I saw but he called someone saying it was her only enough where I can hear not see and talked about the boys that are in the football team. And than hung up. But the crazy part is he wouldn’t give me his phone last night but today he’s letting me look at his phone? Am I in the right think he’s cheating on me? Plz help
J’ai fouillé dans le téléphone de ma copine le weekend dernier, il y avait 2 photos d’elle (une en sous vêtement et une autre seins nus) ou clairement elle pose et qu’elle ne m’avait jamais envoyées. Les photos datent de y’a 2 semaines.
J’ai aussi été voir messages whatsapp et instagram mais il n’y avait rien donc je me dis que c’était peut être des photos pour elle ou qu’elle a oublié de m’envoyer. Est ce que faut en parler ou vaut mieux ne rien dire ?
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hey everyone i recently caught my gf sending indecent images to other guys and i dont know what to do because shes always wanting me to be on a call with her but im too nice to say i need space to think about the whole thing and its starting to really affect me sleeping because of it all its 3:30AM as im writing this and i just dont know what to do. any suggestions would be great i love her but it hurts
*The names are fake.
Edit: This is more about knowing if my best friend is a pos than this is about my ex.
Last August, my long-term girlfriend and I broke up. It had been a long time coming, and we split before I found out about the cheating. What changed was the way we finally parted ways. At first, I thought we still had enough respect for each other to separate in a way that minimized damage and stress for both of us. But a few weeks before the breakup, I started having suspicions about her and a friend named Jason, who had been living with us for the summer. Even though we were already split up, I went through her phone and found out my suspicions were right. After that, they both got kicked out, and I have not seen her since.
The reason I suspected her with Jason was because it reminded me of an older suspicion I had involving a different friend, Adam, who had also lived with us temporarily about two or three years earlier. In both situations, she showed very similar patterns and behaviors. I was much closer with Adam than I ever was with Jason, so at the time it was easier for me to convince myself I was being irrational. But once those same behaviors showed up again with Jason, and I found the texts confirming it, my suspicions about Adam resurfaced. One difference with Adam was a smell. It was not cologne, but a subtle odor that seemed to radiate around the face and neck area. Most people have some version of it. I have called it “nose breath,” though I do not really know what it is. I have noticed it on and off with significant others, and it usually smells fairly similar. But during the Adam situation, the smell changed. It was a distinct smell I had only noticed on Adam before. When I caught it, I immediately connected it with the behavioral patterns and had an “oh shit” moment. But since they were coworkers, and since my ex also had her own distinct version of that smell at times, I wrote it off as something from their work environment.
Adam later switched careers to a job where he is moving around, sweating, and working outdoors a lot. About three months ago, I noticed that same distinct smell on him again. Given everything else, that strengthened my suspicions. After that, I also noticed this same general “nose breath” type of odor on my new girlfriend, except it was not Adam’s smell. It was more similar to the one my ex naturally had. That made me think the category of smell itself is real, but Adam’s specific smell was still unique enough that noticing it back then feels significant. All of this has led me to suspect that I was probably right about what happened.
I am meeting my ex next week. I have no idea what she will be like, but I intend to ask her directly. While the smell will not be my main point, I still need clarification.
While the patterns are obviously better evidence, its all stemming from this damned smell. I hope I painted the picture well enough, I know it seems like I added useless information, but it helps explain my reasoning. I need to know if anyone has experienced this smell or if I am crazy.
Off topic edit: p.s. If you've just been cheated on, they did you a favor. You will move on quicker than if it were a normal break up.
Yeah I believe my girlfriend is cheating and I can’t find any evidence or she might be sleeping with her friend they act like there together all the time
We were both in high school and although she was a bit younger than me she had sex with other guys before and I was still a virgin at the age of 19 due to lack of self-confidence as all other girls I met rejected me after seeing my small penis.
At first she did not complain about my size and did not make any mean comments.
I did my best to satisfy her so I always went down on her or let her sit on my face while I had to masturbate as she was never active in bed with me. I thought she prefered this kind of intercourse because she didn’t want to get pregnant
Everything changed after a few month when we were watching American Pie with a “friend” of mine and drunk some beer. He was about 23 years old and much more experienced than me. At some point when we were all a bit drunk and there was this famous scene with Shannon Elizabeth my GF grabbed my penis and realized it was fully hard so she started to laugh and ask my friend if his cock is also hard. He replied calmly “yes”, stood up, pulled out his huge cock and started to jerk of in front of my GF and me. I will never forget the look of delight on her face when she saw it. She then asked me to stand up and suddenly took off my shorts exposing my short hard dick. When he saw it he also started to laugh and told her to bring the ruler. I felt confused but didn’t know what to do. I even did not say a word when she first measured his cock and while doing this she grabbed it and stroke it a few times before placing the ruler. Afterwards she just placed the ruler next to my short penis without even touching it. The results were 9 inches his and barely 3 inches mine due to stress and alcohol. The next day she told it to all her girlfriends and since then they always made fun of me and told stories about other well endowed guys or how they cheat on their boyfriends.
After this situation she started to argue with me for no reason and break up so she could go to parties with her friends and meet other guys.
I was young, naive and so in love that I thought nothing happened even if she was meeting someone else for a month or two before coming back to me.
I did not believe she could cheat on me even after we went together to some house party and a friend of mine told me that she gave a blowjob to some first met guy in a toilet and right afterwords she kissed me in front of him and her girlfriends who knew about it. In the following 2 years she had one regular lover who was also cheating on his girlfriend. Everyone knew he had a big cock and lots of girls but only I pretended I did not know about their affair.
As I remember in four years of our relation she had at least 5 other “short time boyfriends” and she also “had fun” with several more random guys at parties. Probably even her 50+ years old history teacher had sex with her while I was waiting in front of his house in my car to pick her up. I remember very well when she enered the car totally exhausted wearing just a mini skirt without panties and a short top without a bra. Later that year during her school-leavers’ ball to which she also went wearing a backless evening dress without bra and panties and she was dancing with him most of the time while I was sitting and watching him groping her naked body.
To sum up only 2 days after we finally split due to another minor disagreement I saw her in a pub kissing a guy who as it turned out had sex with her when she went for holiday without me to her aunt a month earlier.
In the next two years after we split up she had several more partners and at the same time I did not want to be with anyone else. So when after this time she wanted to come back to me I accepted it and started to meet her again but when I asked her if she was with someone else when we were not together and she replied “yes but without sex” I finally realized she was lying all the time and left her knowing I was a cuckold for so many years.
To be honest I am really happy she made me a cuckold.
After many years and relationships I can now confirm that women cheated on me multiple times and I always accepted this if they told me the truth. Cheating was never the reason of breaking up.
It is better to be cuckold than alone.