Dirty D is back at it I believe.....
My husband and I have been together since 2022. When we started dating he was amazing. The only issue was a huge red flag and I should have known better than to continue the relationship. We began seeing each other in January. In mid March, I got a phone call from a phone number one digit off from his.... I answer to a woman telling me that my then boyfriend was actually her fiancé. He swore they split in August.
I continue the relationship against my better judgement. He kept pushing for us to get married, said I was his twin flame, blah, blah blah. I married this man like a fool after 5 months of dating.
I begin to find dating profiles and hidden Facebook accounts telling women we were getting divorced. I would find where he emailed himself nudes of women that are definitely not me, I'm blonde, they were black/brown haired.
I found emails to the same ex telling her he was leaving me and stringing her along.
Its been almost a year since i stopped looking. Every time I looked, i would find it and be hurt then not leave. But now something has changed within me. I am sick of his shit. ALL OF HIS SHIT. And I know he is back on the apps. He's taking selfies with muscles showing (mind you he hates having his photo taken by me). He is secretive with his phone and doesn't want me anywhere near it. He is on snapchat again... crawforddirtyy (like that isn't sexually suggestive enough).
I have a fake tinder profile. I am trying to find him. When I do, I need definitive proof he is cheating so I can leave with my head high and no "what ifs" that he can explain away like he always does.... "I created it but never used it" is a popular one.
Thanks for letting me vent. I will update soon.