r/Bhubaneswar

Over the last year or so, I have seen numerous posts about dating in BBSR (both male and females). As a male, I finally gave it a try last week. Installed bumble and got a few matches. But I don't know why but most matches had absolutely 0 conversation skills. It's like k, yes, and all sort of one-word responses. If you are not interested, why do you even send a hi or something after match. Or better swipe left.

Since my family was pestering about settling down, I thought I might try dating app for an Odia girl specifically since it will be easy to get along with our families and culture. I am decent looking, have a well-off career and family is pretty stable. Not sure what is the problem exactly.

Finally increased the distance to max (I guess 160+ kms) and had some decent conversation with a girl from Pune and one from Kolkata (both non odias). Still wondering what's the case with our odia girls?

So I travel in MO BUS because I am a clg student and 4 days ago I was coming home after finishing my exam which was from 8-11 in the morning and I was very hungry so I was very eager to come home. At that time a fully loaded mo bus came which was totally loaded, though I never board a loaded bus but that day we were all very hungry and due to the exams we did not feel like eating outside so we boarded the bus. Then an uncle was standing near the same gate, who was around 40-45yr old , his hand was on my chest, I thought this could happen due to the crowd, I changed my place, this time the same thing happened again. When I shouted at them, the other boys standing near me raised their voice for me and I got down from the next stop. This is not the first time this has happened to me. This is happening in the city which we all consider a clean city, where even educated people resort to brutality, hence even Bhubaneswar does not seem safe now.

I won’t be deleting this post this time. It will stay here so others know what kind of disgusting people are out there.

I dated a guy for 4 months, and it turns out he had a girlfriend of 3 years the whole time.

He manipulated me and lied about multiple things:

Said he worked at a company in Bangalore and was doing WFH

In reality, he was working at a company here in Bhubaneswar

Told me he was moving to another city, and we talked about his “life there” daily.

Meanwhile, he was always in Bhubaneswar, actively using dating apps and meeting other girls, lying to them to get physical.

So basically, he was living multiple parallel lives, lying consistently without any guilt.

2 days ago, when I made this same post, he called me the next day saying he had made a mistake and asked me to forgive him. He said people were starting to realize the post was about him and that it was affecting his family’s reputation, so he asked me to delete it. Funny how he didn’t think about anyone else’s dignity or reputation when he was lying and doing all this to multiple girls.

He’ll continue his life like nothing ever happened, maybe even repeat the same behavior again, while I’m left dealing with everything he put me through. I don’t think I’ll ever forget that my first experience with someone turned out like this. I’ll always regret not finding out sooner and trusting so easily.

Please suggest cheapest and best salon for gents in Chandrasekharpur Area.

And if possible attach the exact location.

Being a student paying more than 80-100 seems overpriced from my perspective.