People on dating apps can be vile, disgusting. Dated a guy who already had a gf, was on hinge, faked his whole personality, and was getting physical with multiple girls at the same time by manipulating them
I won’t be deleting this post this time. It will stay here so others know what kind of disgusting people are out there.
I dated a guy for 4 months, and it turns out he had a girlfriend of 3 years the whole time.
He manipulated me and lied about multiple things:
Said he worked at a company in Bangalore and was doing WFH
In reality, he was working at a company here in Bhubaneswar
Told me he was moving to another city, and we talked about his “life there” daily.
Meanwhile, he was always in Bhubaneswar, actively using dating apps and meeting other girls, lying to them to get physical.
So basically, he was living multiple parallel lives, lying consistently without any guilt.
2 days ago, when I made this same post, he called me the next day saying he had made a mistake and asked me to forgive him. He said people were starting to realize the post was about him and that it was affecting his family’s reputation, so he asked me to delete it. Funny how he didn’t think about anyone else’s dignity or reputation when he was lying and doing all this to multiple girls.
He’ll continue his life like nothing ever happened, maybe even repeat the same behavior again, while I’m left dealing with everything he put me through. I don’t think I’ll ever forget that my first experience with someone turned out like this. I’ll always regret not finding out sooner and trusting so easily.