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▲ 131 r/AdulteryHate

He's butthurt and "has severe PTSD" because OP, who is already cheating on her husband, cheated on him, while he's also cheating on his wife? That's fucking rich.

u/20Keller12 — 13 days ago
▲ 103 r/AdulteryHate

what is actually wrong with these people? sooo many red flags and she’s like “but when is he gonna make the move?”

  1. sleazy older married man flirty with new co-worker.

  2. MARRIED MAN!! (worth repeating)

  3. disrespectful to wife.

  4. flirts at work!! (puts your livelihood on the line)

comments telling her he’s got so much to risk so she needs to make the first move.

hello… he’s a disgusting sleazeball, report to HR and don’t engage. like that’s not a price of a man that’s bad things waiting to happen! are you so desperate for male attention that you have no screening standards at all?

u/Alternative-Chef7840 — 13 days ago
▲ 107 r/AdulteryHate

This MM is one of the worst ones I've seen recently since he brought the sidepiece around his family. And not even once but many times! The OW is as dumb as a box of rocks for thinking the wife knew about the affair the whole time and for continuing to go back to him for 12 years.

I hope the wife divorces this despicable MM and her and the kids ride off happily into the sunset because that MM does not deserve them.

u/KrazyKhajiitLady — 10 days ago
▲ 114 r/AdulteryHate

Classic story - ex husband left me for the OW (colleague) when I was in the fourth month of a planned pregnancy. But not only was this man such a coward to end things with me over a phone call (really), he was also too much of a coward to openly admit it's becase of the OW. Instead he just told me it has nothing to do with that, that they ended it but she opened his eyes to how unhappy he actually is, yadda yadda. And that things between us were never so good to begin with and I just met him when he was vulnerable (?whatever this means?).

Contrary to what he told me, he then tried to pursue the relationship with the OW who... rejected him. At least at first. And he got depressed as hell and called her a bitch that sleeps around anyways (not to me, to someone I know). But after some time they really got together. Moved in together. Really a love story like in a fairy tale, don't you agree?

Fast forward a year and half since the break up. They are still together but he still lies or says half truths or straight up puts on smoke screens about their life together. To his family, he still didn't admit to it, hasn't showed his legit princess at home yet, didn't introduce her to his friends. Lies about where he lives and whom, calls her "a friend" to me. His family, who I'm still in contact with and we have an amazing relationship still, say he's ashamed.

Ashamed of what? If this was his firm decision that was "completely justified" because, as he said, we would end up unhappy anyways if we stayed together, why doesn't he admit it to it and proudly stand by it, showing his true love to the world? It's so pathetic it's almost funny. To me, it just showes that no matter how much time has passed, this man is still the same coward.

Imagine destroying your relationship and many interpersonal relationships with friends and family over someone you don't even have guts to bring home. The OW must really feel amazing, at least I'd feel like shit if I was treated this way.

But then again, I really don't think she's a good person either, so good riddance I guess.

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u/Fancy-Piglet-8068 — 12 days ago
▲ 124 r/AdulteryHate

It's beyond wild this OW still thinks that 1. There's a chance long-term with this guy and 2. That trying to do something more with the MM still is a good idea.

u/KrazyKhajiitLady — 11 days ago
▲ 164 r/AdulteryHate

MM cheats, separates from wife, regrets it all but then is served divorce papers anyways

Wow and look at that, the relationship with AP didnt last after all. Who'd have thought? I wonder if he actually misses his wife or just all the shit she used to do for him.

u/typewriterbitch — 7 days ago