r/3AMThoughts

Did you know on the Canary Islands? There is not one canary?
And on the virgin isles?
Same thing, not one canary there either!

Was watching The Matchmaker and as much as I hate to rip into such a great thoughtful little episode, but... why did Daphne not see Tom was gay when she saw into his 'painful break up' and that he had a 'bitter dispute about opera recordings'?

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My girlfriend went out with her classmates yesterday. The group includes boys too. She told me she came back early because she missed me a lot. Today she went out with them again and texted that she’s missing me. She’s currently video calling me while she’s out with them.

On one hand, it’s sweet that she’s expressing that she misses me and came back early yesterday. On the other hand, two days in a row with a mixed group is making me feel insecure and uneasy. I’m also dealing with some personal health discomfort right now, which might be making me overthink everything.

Have any of you been in a similar situation? How should I bring this up with her without sounding controlling or jealous? Is this normal for college friends to hang out like this, or should I be concerned?

Looking for honest advice.