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I'll try take my life tonight...so here are 100 reasons to keep going, along with some small reminders and ideas for how things can slowly improve over time goodbye everyone thank you for staying even if you dont know me...

I'll try take my life tonight...so here are 100 reasons to keep going, along with some small reminders and ideas for how things can slowly improve over time goodbye everyone thank you for staying even if you dont know me...

100 reasons to live by me...

  1. Fresh air after rain
  2. Warm blankets on cold days
  3. Laughing until your stomach hurts
  4. Finding a song that feels like it understands you
  5. Pets being happy to see you
  6. Comfort food
  7. Sunsets that look unreal
  8. Sunrises you didn’t expect to catch
  9. Clean sheets
  10. A really good nap
  11. Inside jokes
  12. Random kindness from strangers
  13. Watching clouds change shape
  14. Finding a new favorite show
  15. Getting better at something slowly
  16. Creating art, even if it’s imperfect
  17. Soft rain sounds
  18. The feeling after a shower
  19. Achieving something you thought you couldn’t
  20. New foods you haven’t tried yet
  21. Being able to start over any day
  22. Late-night thoughts that turn peaceful
  23. Feeling music in your chest
  24. Finding comfort in small routines
  25. Quiet moments where everything feels calm
  26. People who will care about you in the future
  27. Friends you haven’t met yet
  28. Someone laughing at your jokes someday
  29. Being someone’s safe person
  30. Reconnecting with someone unexpectedly
  31. Helping a friend feel better
  32. Being missed
  33. Inside jokes that only you share
  34. Hugging someone you trust
  35. Feeling understood
  36. Being appreciated for who you are
  37. Found-family moments
  38. Late-night talks
  39. Someone cheering you on
  40. Being remembered kindly
  41. Making someone smile without trying
  42. Learning you matter more than you think
  43. Feeling included somewhere
  44. Forgiving and being forgiven
  45. Quiet companionship
  46. Feeling safe with someone
  47. Someone being proud of you
  48. Giving support to someone else
  49. Building real connections over time
  50. Realizing you’re not as alone as your thoughts say
  51. You are still becoming who you are
  52. Your personality will keep growing
  53. Skills you haven’t learned yet
  54. Dreams you haven’t discovered yet
  55. Places you haven’t seen
  56. Opportunities you can’t predict yet
  57. Goals you haven’t set yet
  58. New hobbies you’ll stumble into
  59. Confidence you haven’t grown into yet
  60. Outgrowing things that hurt you
  61. Healing at your own pace
  62. Learning from hard experiences
  63. Seeing how far you’ve come
  64. Becoming more yourself over time
  65. Changing directions whenever you need to
  66. Finding new interests randomly
  67. Small wins that add up
  68. Moments that suddenly make sense
  69. Discovering hidden strengths
  70. Feeling proud of yourself one day
  71. Building a life that fits you better
  72. Getting through things you once feared
  73. Feeling more comfortable in your own skin
  74. Creating something meaningful
  75. Finding peace in unexpected ways
  76. Your story isn’t finished
  77. Life keeps changing
  78. Joy can show up when you least expect it
  79. You’re allowed to grow at your own pace
  80. Things don’t stay the same forever
  81. New beginnings can happen anytime
  82. Healing is possible even slowly
  83. You matter in ways you don’t always see
  84. Your presence affects people more than you realize
  85. You can always learn new ways to cope
  86. The future is not decided yet
  87. You don’t have to be perfect to matter
  88. You can restart your path anytime
  89. There is still more of you to discover
  90. Hard feelings don’t last forever
  91. Better days can still exist
  92. You are not defined by your worst moments
  93. You can build something new from where you are
  94. You deserve time to experience life fully
  95. There are still good moments ahead
  96. Even small reasons count
  97. You are allowed to take up space in the world
  98. You are allowed to exist without earning it
  99. You are still here, and that matters
  100. Life can surprise you in ways you don’t expect...

Hey you still here? If so i love you so heres something everyone needs to know... WHY BULLYING IS NOT OKAY

  1. It hurts people emotionally, even if it seems small

  2. Words can stick in someone’s mind for years

  3. It can damage self-esteem deeply

  4. Nobody deserves to be targeted

  5. Everyone has struggles you can’t see

  6. Differences are not a reason to hurt someone

  7. It creates fear instead of safety

  8. It isolates people who already feel alone

  9. It can affect mental health seriously

  10. It teaches harmful behavior to others

  11. It spreads negativity in environments

  12. It breaks trust between people

  13. It can make people avoid school or social spaces

  14. It can make someone feel unsafe in daily life

  15. It encourages cruelty instead of understanding

  16. It ignores empathy

  17. It can affect someone for a long time

  18. People remember how you made them feel

  19. It often comes from misunderstanding or insecurity

  20. Respect should be the default, not something earned... Oh you actually read that? Thanks for your time i guess....heres something for you... SUICIDE AWARENESS

  21. Pain can feel permanent, but it isn’t

  22. Thoughts can lie when emotions are overwhelming

  23. Feelings can change, even if slowly

  24. No moment defines your whole life

  25. People often care more than you think

  26. Support exists, even if it’s hard to find

  27. You don’t have to handle everything alone

  28. Things that feel hopeless can shift with time

  29. You deserve kindness, especially from yourself

  30. You matter just by existing And lastly...how many people die from SUICIDE including me haha...im so fucking done.... Per year: ~700,000 deaths Per week: ~13,000–14,000 deaths Thanks for reading...i don't think these will even get 50 views but if it does I'll thank you from heaven or...well hell who knows anymore? Whats the point? We'll all die anyways...

u/-niki-ellie- — 2 days ago

What the hell

I'm going to assume this person doesn't know what straight ally means, but either way, genuinely what the fuck does being cis or straight have to do that. One of these is not like the other.

u/Alternative_Sugar_85 — 3 days ago

My friends are fake, I think

I’m a senior in highschool and as summer comes, I thought it would be spent making memories with friends, but no they don’t talk to me, when I got to the friend group they either make up some excuse and disperse or they either switch topics and it gets quieter, and I thought I could handle it but it happens too much, first with the theatre kids,then the art class friends and now them, it’s made me sad I almost cried in class, because of the fact my dad may be right, that I am horrible at making friends, and how I am the reason I drive others way because of my “weirdness”
I hurts me knowing that most of my friends ignore me or don’t talk to me anymore

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u/FeelThynPower — 8 hours ago

This subreddit needs to be closed down like the first one.

Almost every post I see here is just a mentally ill child saying they're gonna kill themselves.

No-one here can give professional advice regarding a topic this severe. Heck, it comes down to other mentally ill children giving advice which is very harmful.

This subreddit brings more harm that it does good things so I think it needs to be deleted before something horrible happens

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u/duszni — 1 day ago

Why? I just made one post there. The first time. I was scared was hacked, or being scammed. I though it was help forum. I can't even contact mods. They muted me. It was clearly misunderstanding. I feel so sick right now. I hate being punished for not understanding. Does this effect my whole reddit?

u/AddictionSorceress — 1 day ago

Mod announcement regarding recent posts

I've noticed recently there's been more posts about suicide and self harm here. I want to clarify that this is a venting subreddit, and most people here (if any) are not mental health professionals. I understand that some people are not able to access help in their area, but this is Reddit. There are people here who are willing to help, but others can be total jerks. While we try to keep people like that out of this subreddit, we can't fully prevent that. Regardless of the comment, I suggest being careful about listening to advice given by other Reddit users.

If you are posting about suicide, self harm, or other related topics, I heavily suggest seeking help outside of Reddit. I've written a rule for the automoderator that comments on every new post with a list of resources such as the 988 Suicide Crisis Lifeline, the Trevor Project, etc.

If anyone has some additional resources they'd like added, or if the resource list is inaccurate, just let one of the mods know.

Another thing I've noticed is there's been several posts of screenshots of other Reddit users and subreddits. These types of posts aren't banned here, but we do require for the names of users and subreddits to be censored (as per rule 6), and in most cases, they are not. It is against Reddit TOS to not censor the names of users and subreddits. This can be considered witch-hunting or brigading, which can cause both the user who posted and this subreddit to get banned, and we don't want anyone to get banned for this.

Lastly, this is a space where people are allowed to vent. Not every post here is related to mental health, but there are some sensitive topics discussed here. Sensitive topics must have BOTH a spoiler tag and an NSFW tag along with trigger/content warnings. Another thing is that users who participate in this subreddit must be at least 16 years or older. I know a lot of people lie about their age online, but if a user is suspected or confirmed to be under the age of 16, please report them.

- The r/2ndSafeSpaceOfHazbin mod team

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u/justsome1fromearth — 1 day ago

I'm having an anxiety attack again

I just had a thought, are we living in the end times? Is Trump the Antichrist? I'm not even a Christian, I'm an atheist but what if I'm wrong about about my beliefs? What if there is a Heaven and a Hell and the apocalypse is right around the corner? I have so much I wanna do in life and now the world might end! Is this the end of the world?

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u/Just-another-weeaboo — 21 hours ago

I've been stuck in multiple cycles for so long now

I don't really want to go into detail but I'm just tired of being stuck in the same cycles over and over again, it always starts by me hating who I am right now and wanting to better myself, and it starts off easy, but as time goes on, I let one slip up happen and BAM I'm back to being lazy for a week and then after said week is done I repeat the cycle over and over again, I just want to change, is that too much to ask?

u/BetterTourist8994 — 19 hours ago

After 2 fucking years and how many fucking rewards my comments got, a fucking 'r/ibeatmychildtoit' joke fucking undid it all

I'm so fucking done with this bullshit snowflake app

u/RedAnarchy669 — 7 days ago

My life keeps on getting worse...

my grandpa is in the hospital rn...

he keeps getting worse....

he overdosed on 23 expired pills....

my sucidal thoughts keeps getting louder....

i don't remember the last time i was happy...

everything just keeps getting worse....

i can't handle life anymore....

i might commit....

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u/Fluffy-Parking-6815 — 13 days ago

those people are the healthcare CEO and Chibi Reviews' brother, I was recently watching a video about how much the tracks in mario kart cost, and I was happily watching it but out of nowhere the narrator said "we don't give money to billionaires, right luigi?" and then played the voice clip of luigi saying "bang bang" and that honestly made me sick, I almost vomited, and a song called "Billionaire Buffet" was made to glaze that guy once again, and everyone in the comments seemed to be fine with it, it literally has the line "Luigi please have my kids" like, is it so hard to say "that's fucked up don't do that"? And Chibi's brother has been the same thing, Chibi is an innocent man who just spoke what he sees as right, and his brother died, and now, because of chibi's opinions, people are saying they wanna trash chibi's brother's grave, and one paid 5 black guys to go to the grave and S/A the dead body, I've felt sick in the stomach seeing that, I've never had a problem with jokes about deaths, I've laughed at the "kirkification" memes not gonna lie, and even some edgier ones like george floyd or junko, despite not liking them they didn't make me feel so sick in the stomach, that just makes me want to make jokes about floyd and junko out of spite, but I know that's not the right thing to do, what should I do then???

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u/Ok_Hunt_4498 — 8 days ago

Don’t even have to come out to know my parents don’t accept me

I just realized that I’m genderfluid about a month ago (really should’ve figured it out sooner lol, I’ve been wondering if I’m in the wrong body since I was five) and my family has never been the happiest about me being lgbtq. I came out as bi to my mom and sister last year, and both of those were met with negative responses. I technically came out to my dad, but I think he’s in denial. That’s unrelated to this, though

A few weeks ago, I posted an image to my Instagram story that I really like. It was a Sylveon with a pink, blue, and white background, and was captioned with “protect trans rights.” Literally nothing bad. But my sister found this, and she showed it to my mom when we were all in the car together. My mom instantly got mad with me, started fighting about how actually, trans people’s rights aren’t being taken, and thus don’t need to be protected and that trans people somehow are and are not their chosen gender (didn’t make sense to me idk how to put it) but the thing that stung most was that about halfway through the debate, when I had pulled up the Kansas State legislature that said trans people can’t get a driver’s license (her defenses were “I don’t believe you” and “they can just change it!”) I realized that this whole thing meant that my mom doesn’t accept me. She doesn’t know, of course, but it just hurts.

I’m sorry if that was long, I just needed to vent.

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u/Thuselessone — 5 days ago

(I already mentioned this in a comment but I'm gonna elaborate)

TW: racism, antisemetism, transphobia.

When I was six, I pretended to be racist because I was obssesed with being evil and wanted to pretend to be the "bad guys" we were learning about in school(i.e. mimiking things the "bad guys" in history were saying with no reason as to what the consequences would be and thinking it was fun). (I was also misoandrist until the 8th grade, but that's a different story). I don't know what I was thinking and I didn't think to consider how other people would feel about me or how that would affect me. Fortunately, the adults around me were responsible and I took the time to educate myself and people forgave me once they found out I did so. That incident still haunts me to this day, especially since I learned how terrible racism actually is. Then when I was 14, I was in this internet forum that told antisemetic lies that I believed (i.e. Jewish people are bad writers) and kinda ended up saying those awful things to some of my Jewish classmates, and also said something I didn't know was antisemetic. Fortunatly, the adults around me were responsible and made sure I was educated, and I also made the effort to do so. When I was 16, I became jealous of my trans brother because I felt he was getting more attention and support from my dad ever since my mom died. This caused me to be hostile toward trans people including supporting transphobic creators and telling transbhobic jokes. It was only when my childhood best friend came out as trans that I realized having a community and sticking up for others and making them happy made me happier than trying to hurt my brother and other people. Only when the person that I hurt when I was 14 gave a speech about antisemetism in school assembly did I realize how much I traumatized him, along with all the other people I was prejudiced against. And it makes me feel bad every day. But I have learned a lot from these experiences, and while I fear traumatizing people and driving them away because I do or say something wrong, I know how valuable learning from my mistakes is.

When the past racist streams and videos with Micheal Kovach and Ashley Nichols and Brandon Rogers were dug up, I was dissappointed by what they did, but relieved they were able to learn and grow from their mistakes. But when the fandom starting harassing them for the actions that they CLEARLY regretted and have learned from as if they were STILL racist, it made me hurt like hell. I worry that they will become more extreme and start harassing more people when they have been revealed to do something bad in their past, even when they have learned from what they did. I'm worried that this unforgivingness extend to entire GROUPS of people. I'm German and one of my constant fears is people not forgiving me when they hear of mine of Germany's past actions and being isolated by people I thought I could trust, even though I am no longer prejudiced. I also fear for my childhood best friend, who is half British-Jewish and has learned to be less misogynist, and for my new twin friends in college who share my childhood friend's heritage and have no intention of hurting women. I fear for all other groups of people whose reputations are tainted by the atrocities they committed. If Hazbin Hotel's message is that redemption is possible, people NEED to take this message to heart, otherwise, people hoping for a safe space where they an hope to better themselves will have broken promises.

u/ScientistOther2504 — 10 days ago

I literally got banned from this person’s server because of my own stupidity lol

https://preview.redd.it/tu3asktxee0h1.png?width=347&format=png&auto=webp&s=a181547df860ba92428a68cbbc9bdd82b1aa2cd9

Basically, I saw this person's posts venting and stuff, and I accidentally misclicked on their profile. I ended up finding a link to their Discord server, and when I joined, I noticed it was a small but very active server. I found a “Venting” forum and decided to vent about how I didn’t like certain minorities and how they even made me feel afraid. But the people in the server misunderstood me and thought I was transphobic, so they started insulting me. Then one of the admins said, “You know this is a trans server, right?” I HADN’T NOTICED. I’M STUPID AND I’M NOT EVEN FLUENT IN ENGLISH, I’M PORTUGUESE!!! Then I said no, and he banned me.

Obs: I think they only read part of the text, because I had said that I wouldn’t have any problem if one of my friends was trans.

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u/Mission_Charge_2831 — 3 days ago

My problems with my artwork

I have been feeling very insecure about my artwork because of how weird my artwork is like for example one of my projects is a edgy sonic fan comic with some heavy themes and another example are my characters as I have a random variety of characters like one is a furry another one is a cup with a face and one is just a normal human character.

I've been trying to be less shy about these insecurities about my artwork but I just can't find anywhere to post it because I feel like my art doesn't fit anywhere for how it looks or the plot of my characters and I feel like my artwork is bad for those reasons.

So feeling that way I haven't felt the same motivation to make things because when I sometimes get that motivation to make something it doesn't last long as it used to and after finishing the drawing I went from saying "it's the best drawing I've made in a while" then later I'm like "This is probably the worst piece of artwork I've made".

There is another reason besides my insecurities slowing my motivation down by a lot it's also my personal life that's joining the fun because I don't have the time to make anything which makes me have to push my projects back so much that I don't feel like working on anything as all my energy goes into school or my mental health that's draining me a lot.

I honestly don't know what to do about it.

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u/derpypng — 3 days ago