u/yuyuyumii

Q…Q I’ve never made a post here but I’m biromantic asexual and agender (afab) and live in England (but I want to find my soulmate so as long as you have the means of relocation you can live anywhere xD)

I’d like someone who is similar to me either in personality or in hobbies (ideally both) since I’m autistic and having someone who understands me is super important for forming a connection!

So bonus points if you’re:

-super adventurous/impulsive, playful teasing/banter, witty or dark sense of humour and can find the fun in trying new things and hobbies or will enjoy being swept up by my crazy ideas (I need a victim to go skydiving with >:3)

-or if you have the same hobbies as me (animanga/manhwa like shoujo, magical girl, romance, psychological, seinen, comedy, magic, villainess isekai, video games like rhythm games, RPGs/pixel art/rpgmakers, visual novels/otome, league, pokemon,needy girl overdose,omori,etc,music like hardcore edm baroque/romantic vkei emo hyperpop scene kpop jpop game OSTs, alternative and jfashion, travel, cooking, collecting merch/plushies, decorating, reading economics/politics books, nature, drawing)

-same special interests like economics,sociology, politics, philosophy, ethics and other intellectual passions/autism info dumps xD honestly anyone who is passionate about something gets bonus points

About me:

21, mixed, 5’4, agnostic, speak English and want to learn German or Mandarin as a second language for work, live alone, very nerdy, INTJ 4w5, diagnosed with autism and waiting for an ADHD assessment, very friendly/silly/bubbly always make friends wherever I go, find it hard to be fully understood though because my interests aren’t very common T…T like hardcore edm and a lot of the games I like, I’m the youngest in my family so I’m used to being spoiled xD so would like someone with older sibling energy or likes taking care of people, I’m very empathetic and loyal to the people I care about and can be a lil feisty when necessary =w=

Current lifestyle:

-beginning school again after getting diagnosed with a chronic illness so my current trajectory is getting an economics degree -> doing a law conversion -> hopefully getting a job in commercial law so I’d like someone who also is already or is planning to work in STEM or a stable field

-eating whole foods and trying to cut out all ultra processed groceries but definitely open to going vegan/vegetarian in the future

-travelling around once a year minimum

-trying to manage my chronic illness :’D

-spend most of my day involving one of my special interests like reading economics books or playing games or watching a video essay/game lore video or listening to hardcore edm

Goals:

-being childfree, owning a house, travelling the world with my significant other and friends/family, having someone to game with or watch anime with and go to cosplay conventions, having a walk in closet for my clothes and shoes, going to raves or orchestral performances, someone to talk about politics and world issues with and who is also an intellectual in the age of anti-intellectualism xD

Dealbreakers:

-has to be a leftist and care about feminism, dismantling racism, and other forms of oppression and enjoys learning/thinking and discussion (I’d also love someone else’s insight to help build on my ideas and opinions)

-has to be 21+ (honestly not too fussy about age as long as you’re the same age as me or older)

-must be childfree

-must be monogamous and anti-porn

-marriage oriented and also planning to be a homeowner in the future

-must also be agnostic or atheist

-also likes romantic/platonic intimacy like handholding, kissing, cuddling, romantic gestures, gifts, dates/quality time xP

-kind of obvious but xD not looking for sexual intimacy

-if long distance must be able to relocate to the UK or have the means of helping me relocate once I’ve finished my studies

I mostly want to find someone who is able to be a life partner or a best friend so I’m open to friends or people who want long term relationships too! xD I’m not sure if there’s anything else I’ve missed out but I’d prefer talking on discord or instagram!

I forgot to take an actual photo so here’s a screenshot from a TikTok xD my contact lenses were delivered today so I might try to take some proper photos will my makeup fully done

x3 three of my cosplays came in the mail butttt I have to wait for the contact lenses and wigs =w= but here’s me trying on the Krul Tepes cosplay anyways!! :D

I’m so excited it will be my first time going to comic con and my friend is taking me ♪(๑ᴖ◡ᴖ๑)♪