To the dads in this group (or significant others who are not carrying the sub pregnancy).
We are newly into our sub and obviously I have a million emotions a day along with symptoms. To me, having a symptom helps me connect with this new pregnancy but I know it's harder for the partner who isn't experiencing this pregnancy. I'm sure it also doesn't feel real until the first scan.
So how did you feel prior to the first scan? How did you connect to this new pregnancy?