u/xtufu6r

So I just came from vacation, back home after 6 months and arguably I have gained weight because of well I didn't follow my proper diet and what not, thats all ok so when I came from the airport my mother said why did you gain so much weight and with your marriage approaching your finance is lean, how will your pair look good, then she proceeded to give me a lecture in our home when we were alone that I should have maintained my weight, mind you I just arrived today, ie yesterday and my mother has not talked with me since and asked me to not be lazy and walk, what made me hurt is that maybe my whole worth was attached to me being lean.