AITA am i just overthinking?
i 18f have a boyfriend 20m and me and my boyfriend usually call 24 seven it’s a mutual agreement most of the time and he has work almost every day at 12 at night to the morning. Usually he calls me while he’s at work but sometimes they’ll be random days in a week that he just will not call me even if I’m asking him why he’ll just say oh my coworkers are in or my phones about to die, which is understandable but usually he calls me even when his coworkers are there and like it’s kind of a repeating thing that we do is calling and it’s kind of what I’m used to and I’m not trying to be toxic. It just feels really weird to me when you just stop doing something randomly one day and then after that it’s all normal again. I fully just don’t understand why someone would be doing that and like I said when I asked him, he just got defensive and I don’t wanna assume that he’s like cheating with his coworkers or anything. I just don’t understand what would be another reason of not calling me and yes, it could be just like my past creeping up on me and it’s not his fault. It’s just hard for me to understand it in general, am I just toxic and is this normal because I tried talking about my feelings about it to him and he kinda was just like there’s nothing to talk about. I told you my coworkers are here and my phone was dying. what should I do in the situation and am i in the wrong?