Surprise news that I'm no longer the only exmo in my family
Driving away from a family party today my wife told me that my brother and his wife have left the church. She and I both left over 3 years ago and figured I'd always be the only one out on my side. It turns out they haven't attended in over a year and a half. I suddenly have tons of things I want to ask him and also talk about, but I'm also afraid to bring it up and potentially damage our relationship in some way. I did a massive deep dive into everything when I left but I know not everyone has the same approach. Also, it's hard to really believe they've left too when I expected to always be the lone exmo, but her conversation with his wife left no doubt at all. I haven't spoken to him about it at all yet. Any advice from someone with a similar experience?