u/whispellgarden

Was very shocked at the amount of chasers in here just scanning the comments for girls to hit on. Girls, start charging them a fee to talk to you.

I started hrt at 16 and LOVED the changes I saw. I was so happy with my body, my face, everything. I felt like my brain could think clearly for the first time. Then once I became an adult I lost access to it. Watching all of the "small" changes that were so important to me revert honestly changed me. I don't think non trans people really understand what that's like. It was damaging in a unique way. But now after 4 years, I can finally get back on track. I can finally return to who I was and the confidence I held in this world. To me that is everything. I'm so happy.

For context, this man sought me out. At first he just wanted to pay me for giving him massages, but he enjoyed the company and talking. Now he's wanting a little more emotionally. Buying flowers, gifts, fun dates, etc. I am not romantically attracted to him and I don't need his money but idk I just feel I'm in a weird situation. The other day he made a joke about "knocking me up" and I was like... 🙂🌚

Would y'all say something or get that bag and leave?

I've finally reached that stage in my transition where I feel so confident in who I am and everything that's great about me that I am NOT settling for breadcrumbs. Maybe this is bragging but, I am beautiful, successful, educated, and so much more. A man tried to neg me today and I just had to laugh because I am doing so much with my life. I speak 4 languages, I'm a business owner, I'm funny as hell, and my transness does not make me less loveable. I'm a delight to be around and cool as person regardless of my transness. And now that I view myself this way I can't even entertain men who don't hold a candle to me because it's just so laughable. No more hidden relationships, no more negging, no more being met with people who can't give me what I'm already doing for myself. No more expectations from other people because I'm outperforming them. I feel so liberated.

For context, I'm a 24yr trans girl who's moderately successful. I have a business, I pass, and I'm attractive. I dated this one guy a while back, we would take trips to other cities together, hold hands, take care of his dog, we were intimate, and our lives just blended together in a very seamless way. I would leave groceries at his place, we'd make meals for each other, he even lended me his mother's clothes once. I say this to say that functionally, was that not a relationship??? He randomly ghosted me and popped out with a girlfriend (cis) even though he wasn't looking for a relationship because he would be leaving our city soon. I just don't understand why guys want to be with trans women sexually, but never beyond that. I have very rarely been turned down by a guy for being trans when it comes to sex but for some reason it can never go beyond that no matter how successful I am by "normal" society's metrics. What the hell do I do?