u/wakkalagne

this is what I have always been talking about, how influencers especially those who have millions of followers and get millions of views with a lot of brand deals, who earn a lot of money and travel business class and everything, promote the trad wife lifestyle.

And yes, it’s okay to be a trad wife if you want to. But the thing is they are also making money, millions of dollars. And they don’t talk about that. They don’t talk about the revenue they get from YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, brand deals and how they always travel business class and go on 5,6 vacations in different countries.

Good for them. But they sell these fake lies to women and this is where it makes me pissed off. they say how this is calm, feminine energy, how this is what we are supposed to do, how this is the life we want to live, should live. But they don’t talk about the money part.

And suddenly they think that independent women(those who aren’t trad wives)…which they are also… are radiating masculine energy and that’s why relationships don’t work these days. But they are not talking about all the other issues.

And they also think feminism fought for this. No. Feminism never fought for the right to be a trad wife. Even in patriarchal societies, thousands of years ago that already existed. Women were already expected to do all of that. There was no choice.

Feminism didn’t create that life, it created options. If you want to be a trad wife, go for it. If you want to be a CEO, a neurosurgeon or a scientist, go for it. That’s the whole point. It gave women a choice, where before there was none.

And I am not bashing anyone for being a trad wife because it’s your life. You do whatever you want. That’s what feminism is for, right? You have the option to be a trad wife or not be a trad wife.

But the thing is, you are selling different lies to women. Who is going to tell all these women that even if your relationship goes wrong, even if things go wrong in your life, you can sustain yourself for years, with your savings, your brand deals, the income you have right now? do you want everyone to become a trad wife influencer or something? Because being solely a trad wife, without that income, won’t generate money.

So who is funding your soft life?