u/v_shock823

Is this what stoic emotional detachment looks like?

One day, I was walking back to the hotel in Manchester, very sleepy and drowsy,, my eyes struggling to stay open. I desperately needed the bed, but I was 1 km away. I wanted a taxi, but this was up to my parents. They would rather walk for free than pay for a taxi. I had no choice but to endure the walk, so I was like, "There's no point worrying about how far away the hotel is. I'll just keep on walking even if I'm tired. I don't care if I'm tired. It doesn't matter if I'm tired. It's up to me to choose how to react to the tiredness. It doesn't matter if I can't get a taxi. If walking is the only option, then I will just keep going." I remember feeling detached from the tiredness. I didn't stop feeling tired, I just stopped letting it control me.

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u/v_shock823 — 1 day ago

I was skeptical of individuality mindsets until I studied psychology and journalled.

Reasons not to care what others think

It's imposible to please everyone when everyone has different opinions, different from you.

Only the people who accept you for who you are matter to your happiness.

Greed for validation never ends until you're mature enough to stop caring.

Everyone is equal. Everyone is human, regardless of popularity.

You only have freedom to enjoy life if you don't let others' opinions control you. Now you know why their opinions don't matter.

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u/v_shock823 — 3 days ago