How to approach the topic of ED with my boyfriend
My boyfriend (40M) was upfront from the start about having ED and a low libido due to his medication.
For the first five months, he used ED meds, and our sex life and frequency was fantastic. However, after several scary physical reactions to several different ED medications on a few occasions, he stopped taking them entirely.
We’ve been together 9 months now, and while he can perform naturally roughly 50-60% of the time, the frequency has dropped significantly over the last 4 months. I (41F) have a very high libido, and while he is a wonderful partner who treats me well, I’m struggling.
How can I bring this up respectfully without making him feel 'less than'? Every time I think of how to phrase this in my mind, I sound terribly greedy and selfish. I never want to compromise his well-being and health. Has anyone ever dealt with this?