Need help! Do guys sometimes go out with women they’re not interested in/ attracted to?
In my 20s, I’m kind of a homebody or I guess most of my friends I meet em for dinner or coffee and we don’t do night life stuff. But I did go out a few times, and I’ve used dating apps. I know that results may vary. But I went out with a guy I knew from college, one from the apps, and one who I met out. All of them went nowhere and fizzled out after. I have a date set with a guy I’ve been talkin to for a bit on the apps and I just question if it’s how I look or act.
I’ve recently been trying to make new friends and feel the same fear of not being good enough or something. Ik that’s different but I had a few hang outs with new friends and I try to engage with everyone, ask questions, etc. Friends and dating alike. I was a homebody for a bit so re learning how to use my social muscle takes some getting used to.
My question: Maybe people meet and it’s not a fit? But are there cases where guys just meet with anyone who they match with on the apps or I guess anyone who engages when they meet irl? Or are guys selective usually about who they will go out with? I guess it doesn’t really matter in the long run. But I wanna know if there’s any baseline attraction lol